Divorce: A Modern Man's Guide

De: Fidel Beauhill

Narrado por: Fidel Beauhill

If you're going through a divorce, this book looks at how to navigate it for the benefit of all involved. It's easy to follow, practical, balanced, and relatable and it will help you come out the other side in a much better state of mind than if you had not heard it.

This is about stepping into your masculine energy and taking the lead in your divorce for the wellbeing of everyone involved. The ordinary bloke gets that, which is why this book is for him.

Endings are always going to be upsetting and divorce is a big one. This is the end of your marriage but not the end of your family. Yes, you and your wife no longer love each other but you still love your kids and they will play a big part in how you handle the divorce process. Their world is about to change and how they get through it is all down to what you and your wife do next.

The common misconception is that because we are men, we're not in touch with our emotions. We are the stronger sex, the cavemen, the warriors, the conquerors and heroes, and so it's assumed that we don't need comfort and support and we can just tough it out. But if you're a man going through a divorce, then you know none of that is true because what you're most likely feeling is devastation. The effects of divorce are shown to be worse on the physical and mental health of a man than they are for a woman, and that is a proven fact.

©2020 Fidel Beauhill (P)2020 Fidel Beauhill

Great guide for men going through a divorce

As a man who went through a divorce back in 2017, I needed this book then. I'm reading it now so I can reverse engineer the damage done and help other men get through what I barely made it through.

Some key takeaways:

1. Take responsibility.
2. Take the lead.
3. Evoke peace, love, and teamwork.
4. Consider the outcome for everyone involved.
5. Stay in your masculine energy.
6. Have a plan.
7. Get legal advice
8. Don't act on your emotions.
9. Be in control.
10. Don't let your emotions define you.

All in all, a great read (and listen). I bought both the kindle ebook and Audible audiobook so I could process both the visual and auditory version. 5 stars.