Summary
Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In is a landmark book on negotiation by Roger Fisher and William Ury, first published in 1981. As founding members of the Harvard Negotiation Project, the authors developed a method of principled, interest-based negotiation that has been widely adopted in fields from business and law to international diplomacy and social work. At its core, Getting to Yes focuses on four keys to effective negotiation—separating people from the problem, focusing on interests rather than positions, generating options for mutual gain, and using objective criteria. The book’s practical approach and real-world examples have made it accessible to a broad audience, from corporate executives to everyday individuals seeking to improve their negotiation skills, and an enduring success, with translations into over 35 languages and sales exceeding 15 million copies worldwide.
Plot
Getting to Yes presents a method for negotiation developed by the Harvard Negotiation Project. The book outlines a strategy called “principled negotiation” that aims to help parties reach mutually beneficial agreements without resorting to positional bargaining or antagonistic tactics.
Roger Fisher and William Ury introduce four key principles that form the foundation of their negotiation method. First, they advise separating the people from the problem, emphasizing the importance of addressing relationship issues separately from the substantive disagreement. Second, they recommend focusing on interests rather than positions, encouraging negotiators to look beyond stated demands to understand the underlying needs and motivations of all parties involved.
The third principle involves inventing options for mutual gain. This creative problem-solving approach seeks to expand the range of possible solutions by brainstorming ideas that could satisfy the interests of both sides. Finally, the authors stress the importance of insisting on using objective criteria to evaluate potential agreements rather than relying on willpower or pressure tactics.
Throughout the book, Fisher and Ury provide practical advice for implementing these principles in various negotiation scenarios. They address common challenges such as dealing with more powerful opponents, handling “dirty tricks,” and overcoming reluctance to engage in principled negotiation. The authors also include a section answering frequently asked questions about their approach, making the book a comprehensive guide for anyone seeking to improve their negotiation skills.