Summary
Diary of an Oxygen Thief, published anonymously in 2006, is a provocative and controversial novel that quickly gained cult status. Set against the backdrop of London and New York, the book offers a raw and unflinching account of emotional manipulation, addiction, and redemption. Originally self-published, the novel became a surprise bestseller, particularly in the independent art and literature scene in Brooklyn. Its popularity grew steadily over a decade, eventually landing it on Amazon and iTunes' top 20 bestseller lists in 2016, demonstrating the power of word-of-mouth marketing in the digital age. The book's honest portrayal of human relationships and its exploration of themes such as self-loathing and cultural dissonance have resonated with readers worldwide, sparking discussions about the nature of love, addiction, and personal growth.
Plot
Diary of an Oxygen Thief opens in London with the unnamed narrator, an Irish advertising executive, describing his past behavior of emotionally abusing women for his own pleasure. He recounts how he would deliberately seduce women only to cruelly break their hearts, deriving satisfaction from their pain. As the story progresses, the narrator begins attending Alcoholics Anonymous meetings and achieves sobriety. This leads him to reflect on his past relationships with a degree of remorse, recognizing the harm he has caused. Seeking a fresh start, he accepts a job offer in the United States.
In America, the narrator faces multiple challenges. Externally, he grapples with the peculiarities of corporate culture and the shock of transitioning from a lower to upper-middle-class lifestyle. Internally, he struggles with paranoia, addiction, and the emotional baggage from his past.
The novel takes a turn when the protagonist meets a young, aspiring photographer in New York City. Despite his history of emotional manipulation, he finds himself genuinely falling in love with her. This relationship becomes a central focus of the latter part of the story, potentially offering the narrator a chance at redemption or further complicating his journey of self-discovery.
Themes
Emotional manipulation and abuse
Addiction and recovery
Self-loathing and low self-esteem
Cultural displacement and adjustment