• How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive

  • A Practical Guide to Making Your Fantasies a Reality
  • By: Kate Kinsey
  • Narrated by: Alexandra Shawnee
  • Length: 3 hrs and 55 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (87 ratings)

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How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive

By: Kate Kinsey
Narrated by: Alexandra Shawnee
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Publisher's summary

Beyond Fifty Shades of Grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real-life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had.

Erotic author Kate Kinsey brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.

Topics covered include:

  • The differences between dominants and masters
  • Submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms
  • The different dominant styles
  • The truth about "training" to be a submissive
  • How to find like-minded folks in your area
  • How to negotiate scenes and relationships
  • What to expect at your first dungeon party
  • Why some people actually enjoy pain
  • And the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners

Contains mature themes.

©2014 Kate Kinsey (P)2018 Tantor
  • Unabridged Audiobook
  • Categories: Erotica

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good for those new to lifestyle

after 30+ yrs in the lifestyle, i can honestly say i agree with maybe 90% of the info in this book as it pertains to those starting to explore BDSM and advice i myself have given many newcomers. Read well, in a pleasant voice without wasting a lot of your time. I will be recommending this book to those starting their journey. I would disagree with the title. while this information will prevent some frustration or mistakes which can become serious, it won’t guarantee you are either heathy or happy.

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Wow

I absolutely loved this book. It was full of so much important information. I would definitely recommend it.

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will be listening over and over again

this was amazingly informative and went in depth in a couple subjects. i will be listening to this more than once just in case i missed something the first time.

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So grateful I found this book..

I feel very fortunate to have found and decided to have this be my first real intro to BDSM. A mature, proper and respectful orientation IMO :-).

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I learned a lot!!

I learned a lot! Seriously everyone need to read/listen to this book if they are interested in bdsm! The author covers a lot. I am very impressed how much I learned and how she discussed the how to and safety and all the benefits and dangers and everything inbetwern!!

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Informative

This book is a short no nonsense description of culture in a culture.
The writer is humerus in the right places for my tastes to express the seriousness of this type of life exploration. I hope you find the communication tools you need.

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Great info as an introduction

Excellent overall. I felt it was a bit too short. Maybe a followup book is needed?

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a great read for beginner submissives

I really enjoyed listening to this book. It really made me think of what I deemed as right for me when I call myself submissive.

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Extremely informational

Good information and knowledge. I really enjoyed this book and narration. I really liked the analogy about the buffet.

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Highly intelligent, beautifully written, easily understood

Often, “How to” kink/BDSM literature comes across so cheesy with female narrators attempting a sexy voice - annoying & distracting! Kinsey is matter-of-fact & entertaining, & provides truly valuable rules & etiquette that, if followed-could save one from unwanted, painful (not the good kind)abuse, gaslighting, manipulative psychos hiding behind the title of Sir/Master/Daddy. Read this! Especially, if you’re new to the scene & trying to navigate this exciting, mysterious community.

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