• 35 Gallons of Snacks ⎮ How to Avoid Weight Regain When Your Mental Health Sucks
    May 25 2024

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    Long term weight loss is a campaign, not a single battle. We'd love for the journey to be all success and rainbows, but it usually isn't. If your mental health issues have caused your weight problem, then chances are, they will flare up at some point, putting your progress in serious jeopardy.

    Today, I'm going to share with you a way of living that helps me avoid weight regain even when I am doing poorly and going off the rails.

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    37 mins
  • How to Respond to Your Darkest Thoughts and Feelings
    May 23 2024

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    We all have dark thoughts sometimes, but if you have trauma or severe mental health issues, these thoughts can be WAY darker and stronger. Usually, you are taught to just white-knuckle through it, but there is an approach to dealing with dark thoughts that will not only help you stay safe and unharmed but help you move toward deeper healing.

    You can learn to see these difficult thoughts and emotions as a doorway into healing rather than merely as a liability or threat to your wellbeing.

    Do you need to heal so you can lose weight? Emotional eater? Unmotivated? Join my free community full of courses, support and interaction with me.
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    email me at john@oakesweightloss.com

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    41 mins
  • The Inner Work You've Been Avoiding -- A Weight Loss Story
    Apr 18 2024

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    In this episode, coach John recounts a story of Cindy and her weight loss journey from 350 lbs to where she is today.

    This offers a picture of what successful and sustainable weight loss looks like while begging the question, "How did she become this version of herself?"

    John discusses the five non-negotiable steps that every person has to go through it they want to heal and lose weight for good.

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    41 mins
  • I Wrote a Book! -- 75 EASY: the ultimate challenge for personal growth
    Feb 14 2024

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    That's right! My first book in the the fitness or personal development space is available for purchase now.

    In this episode I explain what my book is about, why I wrote it and what you can get from it.

    Get your copy now and please leave me a review!
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    20 mins
  • Why This Time Will Be Different ⎮ 3 Approaches to Weight Loss You've Never Tried
    Jan 23 2024

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    In this episode, John embarks on a discussion of three key principles to easier, more successful and more sustainable weight loss.

    Topics include:

    • Common fears about weight loss coaching or programs in general
    • Why people shy away from getting the help they need
    • The power of observing life before changing anything
    • The way to play "jenga" with your diet
    • How to enter calorie deficits in the easiest way possible
    • How to figure out the optimal calorie deficit for your best results.

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    27 mins
  • The Essence of the Hard Way ⎮ 75 Hard and the Misguided Pursuit of Toughness
    Jan 10 2024

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    In this episode, John discusses the popular fitness and mental toughness challenge, 75 Hard.
    Topics include:

    • why 75 Hard is emblematic of our self-improvement culture
    • where our fitness and self-improvement culture routinely lets us down and keeps us stuck
    • why challenges usually serve as litmus tests rather than something that produces growth
    • the problem with pursuing "toughness" in service of success
    • the problem of seeking out adversity
    • why compliance and consistency are not surefire paths to personal success, but more often paths to serving the needs of others
    • why society does not want you to trust yourself
    • why we willfully ignore easy ways to improve our lives or selves
    • how 75 Hard and the culture it represents cause people to deepen their mental illnesses

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    50 mins
  • No One Gets A Car! ⎮ These Are a Few of My Favorite Things
    Dec 19 2023

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    In this episode, John recounts the blessings of 2023. In particular, he draws attention to the foods and possessions that made the year great. He covers everything from fitness wearables to powdered peanut butter.
    Topics include:

    • The benefits of polyamorous garages
    • Poor flower bed soil (I mean absolute trash)
    • An ode to dairy products
    • John's sick home gym set up
    • Buying rubber mats from a tweaker
    • John's Costco go-to items

    and more!

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    36 mins
  • The Rise of Authority ⎮ Why We Refuse to Do Things We Desperately Want To Do
    Dec 14 2023

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    In this podcast episode, John explains how a noble emotion like obligation has come to wreak so much havoc in our behavior. To understand this, he explores the evolution of human societies, the evolutionary context of obligation, and the role of authority.

    Topics include:

    • How and why human society originated in the form of autonomous, self-sustaining clans
    • Why increasing social complexity became crucial for survival
    • Why social complexity gave birth to authority as we think of it today
    • How this fundamentally altered the role of obligation
    • The challenges faced by prehistoric societies, highlighting the resilience and intelligence of prehistoric humans.
    • The importance of self-trust, autonomy, and boundaries, and how these are connected to motivation.
    • Criticism of the fitness industry
    • The importance of self-reliance
    • Why self-reliance is important to creating strong communities
    • Encouraging self-care, self-trust, and self-love in navigating life's journey.

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    58 mins