“Why, Gary, Why?”

The Jody Plauché Story

By: Jody Plauché

Narrated by: Toby Tomplay

Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins

Publisher's summary

Deputy Mike Barnett asked Gary Plauché, “Why, Gary? Gary, why?” seconds after television cameras recorded Gary shooting and killing karate instructor Jeff Doucet, who had raped, molested, and kidnapped Gary’s son Jody. Now, thirty-five years later, Jody Plauché answers the deputy’s question on behalf of his late father and explores the story of his molestation, kidnapping, and survival. He unveils the sly tactics that child predators often use so that he can better inform parents of the potential signs that a person might harm their child.

Through his own incredible story of using his past for good by helping others, he shares how any listener who has suffered great trauma can move on and not let the past define him or her. You have the potential to overcome negativity and redefine your own story.

©2019 Joseph Boyce Plauche (P)2022 Joseph Boyce Plauche

Intriguing story

I definitely remember this happening when I was a kid. Hearing Jody tell his story was very powerful. I’ve worked with kids and it is such a difficult thing when you see children who have been traumatized by sexual or any abuse and the way it affects them. It is good to spread this message that it doesn’t mean their whole life is ruined. They can move forward and past these horrible things with the right support and understanding. Bravo

Difficult Story, Great Story

The only way to review this is to be honest, just like Jody.

This is a difficult story to hear at times. And what makes it so good is Jody's honesty, but that also makes it somewhat difficult to hear. The candidness with which he explains how he feels during what is a horrific experience is both helpful in terms of really understanding the headspace of everyone involved from Jody, to Gary, to the perpetrator, and to everyone surrounding the situation.

I appreciated that while there was indeed a lot about Jody, this felt like a story of Gary Plauche with the sorry of what happened after, and that was important. Theres a reason the actions of Gary hit so hard on something inside every person who hears the story, and it's important to flesh out what that was, how it happened, what the effects were, and how it influenced both Gary and his son.

The narration is pretty spot on. I appreciated that it felt like it was coming from someone who cared (and, frankly, had that accent to match). My only critique is that the final section seemed to go on a bit too long with discussion of sexual assault in the abstract. Not that it isn't good info, just that the it sort of felt a little drawn out.

Overall a worthwhile listen.

Insightful, helpful, and impactful

Jody’s story is one of victory and not defeat. He overcame personal tragedy and encourages others by not only seeing the signs of a predator but also by finding help and support as a victim of abuse. His story serves as an inspiration to everyone that life is not defined by any difficulty.

So much more than what I thought it would be.

This book has so much more than just what everyone thinks they know from the news coverage. It's also very insightful and explains a lot of the ways abuse can happen. Overall this is an incredible book.

Awesome in many ways

The author's storytelling is done very well. I felt like I couldn't stop listening. And it was so informative, but not in a boring, lecture way. I definitely learned some useful things. Would definitely recommend this book to anyone. Especially parents.

Amazing

One of the most impactful books I have read. It made me laugh, cry, and feel genuine hope. And it will likely do the same to anyone else. Easily the best book I have listened to this year. As a new Step-Father of a beautiful young girl, I will likely be listening to this more than just once.

How Jody overcame so much.

People’s lives, even with less drama than the Plauche’s, is messy. I remember this i was not much older though an adult and living less than 20 miles from this. No detail has been held and it needs to be there, so we know all the perspectives to come away with the right attitude.

Very informative

Thank you for sharing your story. I learned a lot from this, and will definitely be applying this to my everyday life.

Strength

I love hearing how he turned his life into a positive one. Judy you’re not only a survivor, but you are educating us. As a parent to 7 kids I thank you for this book. I learned how to better talk to my children.

Eye opener

Everyone should read this book, especially parent. He gives great advice on what signs to look for. Brave man to tell the story exactly how it happened to him.