The Elissas

Three Girls, One Fate, and the Deadly Secrets of Suburbia

By: Samantha Leach

Narrated by: Jesse Vilinsky, Samantha Leach

Length: 7 hrs and 2 mins

Publisher's summary

Three suburban girls meet at a boarding school for troubled teens.

Eight years later, they were dead.

Bustle editor Samantha Leach and her childhood best friend, Elissa, met as infants in the suburbs of Providence, Rhode Island, where they attended nursery, elementary school, and temple together. As seventh graders, they would steal drinks from bar mitzvahs and have boys over in Samantha’s basement—innocent, early acts of rebellion. But after one of their shared acts, Samantha was given a disciplinary warning by their private school while Elissa was dismissed altogether, and later sent away. Samantha did not know then, but Elissa had just become one of the fifty-thousand-plus kids per year who enter the Troubled Teen Industry: a network of unregulated programs meant to reform wealthy, wayward youth.

Less than a year after graduation from Ponca Pines Academy, Elissa died at eighteen years old. In Samantha’s grief, she fixated on Elissa’s last years at the therapeutic boarding school, eager to understand why their paths diverged. As she spoke to mutual friends and scoured social media pages, Samantha learned of Alyssa and Alissa, Elissa’s closest friends at the school who shared both her name and penchant for partying, where drugs and alcohol became their norm. The matching Save Our Souls tattoo all three girls also had further fueled Samantha’s fixation, as she watched their lives play out online. Four years after Elissa’s death, Alyssa died, then Alissa at twenty-six.

In The Elissas, Samantha endeavors to understand why they ultimately met a shared, tragic fate that she was spared, in turn, offering a chilling account of the secret lives of young suburban women.

©2023 Samantha Leach (P)2023 Legacy Lit

Critic reviews

“[Leach] develops sensitive portraits of each girl and suggests how social pressures, combined with health and environmental factors, conspired to damage the minds and then destroy the bodies of three vulnerable young women. A poignant and heartfelt mix of sociology and memoir.”—Kirkus

“…a searing exposé.”—Publisher’s Weekly (Starred Review)

“In The Elissas, Samantha Leach writes with great compassion about the pressures on girls to live up to today’s punishing beauty standards. With insight and precision, Leach exposes the ways in which the so-called Troubled Teen Industry preys upon girls’ vulnerability and capitalizes on their parents’ naivete—and bank accounts. The Elissas is both a deeply personal story of loss and an indictment of the societal forces that contributed to robbing a young woman of those closest to her. Leach’s investigation into how the Elissas perished adds much to our understanding of how dangerous misogyny can be to the health and well-being of girls and young women.”—Nancy Jo Sales, New York Times bestselling author of American Girls and Nothing Personal

Lacked substance

Interesting story. I found the writing used some cliches, and I felt like the author made suppositions that didn’t necessarily follow to details of the story. I know the goal is not to comment on the troubled teen industry but to tell the story of these three women. Regardless, I felt like without delving into the troubled teen industry from a investigative journalism perspective, that only half the story was told. Because the specifics weren’t investigated, I felt the author had to rely on vagaries that came across as course and lacked analytical insight. I had a hard time really understanding why the girls were so troubled with neither detailed insights into the troubled teen industry nor current and in-depth descriptions of addiction theories. The articles she did sight also referenced other peoples impressions (“my son the addict”) with out factual descriptions. The author sited this and other writing on the topic for their turns of phrases or articulations of feelings, not to provide the details necessary to really understand the full pictures of these girls experiences within the larger context.