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The 6 Pillars of Intimacy

By: Alisa DiLorenzo, Tony DiLorenzo
Narrated by: Alisa DiLorenzo, Tony DiLorenzo
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Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?

Can you strengthen your bond, grow together, and enjoy deeper levels of love and intimacy that rival your newlywed days? And can you do any or all of that without having to digest mountains of self-help books or pouring your hearts out to a total stranger in endless counseling sessions?

Yes, it is possible - and as you listen, you’ll see how easy it can be!

Authors Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo are passionate about helping couples create their own extraordinary marriage. They do this through books, coaching, and through their number-one marriage podcast, The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, where they connect with an audience of over 50,000 listeners around the world.

Their newest book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage, is based on their personal experience and from seeing the marriages of countless people they have worked with improve.

They have learned some hard-knock life lessons and discovered key principles that have kept their marriage (and sex life) alive and flourishing…and they did it together. Let them do the same for you!

Inside, you’ll discover:

  • The six intimacies (pillars) and how to use them.
  • That, if the pillars are solid and straight, they will keep your marriage thriving and ensure everything goes along smoothly, and how to do this.
  • How, if the pillars become damaged, your marriage can start to collapse.
  • The authors' real-life story, experience, and relationship struggles.
  • And more.

Even the best marriages can have cracks in their relationships. The difference is that extraordinary couples take action when they see those cracks happening.

Get The 6 Pillars of Intimacy today to experience the extraordinary marriage you desire and deserve.

©2021 ONE Extraordinary Marriage (P)2022 ONE Extraordinary Marriage

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A concise summary of marriage foundation

I liked how this book was to the point and did a great job making each pillar approachable and exciting for married couples!

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Perspective Every Marriage Needs

Tony and Alisa do a great job of breaking down intimacy into the individual pillars and explaining how to address those pillars to strengthen your marriage. I feel like this is a great book for any couple that's starting off or one that's trying to pull their marriage back together. It's definitely worth listen or read.

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Excellent book, with wholesome views and great content.

I was skeptical when I saw so few reviews on audible, but went for it anyways. My wife and I listed to the book on a family road trip and had some great realizations. We’re gonna take the 6 pillars of intimacy quiz when we get home and work to make our marriage stronger. Thanks Alisa and Tony!

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Wow! What amazing eye opening book!

Im seriously at loss for words. This book was so amazing. I listened to chapter after chapter— shaking my head in agreement with so many attributes that hot home in my struggles w my husband and shook my head at so many eye openers to my own shortcomings. There were moments I cried because I realized some of my own ways were destructive to my marriage and I cried when I heard EXACTLY how I was feeling get dissected and explained in a way that speaks to the cracks on my husbands side. I felt like I wasn’t alone in this battle and my marriage IS worth fighting for. Ive been contemplating divorce from an 8yr almost 9yr relationship. Ive prayed, received lots of prayer at church, and really have tried hard to reach my husband. I cant wait to read it a 2x with him and work thru our workbooks together! 💪🏼together 💓

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I loved it, so realistic!

I felt 95% related to this book, I hope my husband can read it as well and we work through together and also individually. Thank you guys for being vulnerable sharing your experiences and helping the others.

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Wow! I love it and am giving it to friends.

I can’t wait to take the test. I have already started implementing a few items. I’m working on the weakest pillar. Can’t wait to experience the results.

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Best book to strengthen your marriage

I love that it’s practical and a book that you can put into action immediately. Even if you feel you have a strong marriage this book proves that you can have an even stronger marriage than you ever imagined. My husband and I have a great marriage, but together we read this book sometimes more than once a year to refine and strengthen our pillars. Even when there’s “cracks” we can identify them and fix them right away. So grateful for what this book has done in our life and all that it will continue to do!

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Strengthen All Marriage Pillars

Amazing Godly marriage advice to strengthen all aspects of your marriage. A must listen them apply this to your life & marriage.

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ready to put in the work

I'm ready to use this and take advantage of doing the work and being intentional doing it. thanks for such a great amount of work and time you have put in.

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What a blessing!

I'm so thankful for the Alisa's and Tony's of the world. We need more godly couples like this to help young AND old couples navigate their marriage. Especially when it comes to sexual intimacy. I feel the church itself does a poor job of hitting on that topic. It's a very important part of a marriage, and I'm glad there are resources such as Alisa and Tony. I hope God continues to bless you and your ministry.

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