The Mens Guide to Tinder

The Essential Manual for Tinder, Dating & Hookups

By: Chris Hemswith

Narrated by: Randal Schaffer

Length: 1 hr and 55 mins

Publisher's summary

Latest stats show that for every girl on Tinder there are six men.

You need to know how to stand out from the crowd, how to properly work the app, and quickly achieve what you want!

New York Times best-selling author Chris Hemswith brings you his latest book and the first ever specific guide to assist guys on Tinder. How to achieve your goals (hookups, casual dating, and relationships) without being a d - !

No pathetic scammy techniques here to cheat women, just proper practical advice garnered from actual research covering everything from the setup, the chat, progressing it beyond the app, and meeting in real life.

The essential guide to Tinder.

©2016 Chris Hemswith (P)2016 Chris Hemswith

Read this book.

It's short as a simple guide but the book contains unique elements advices and pretty useful information.

Meh

Definitely for amateurs. Glad I only paid 5 bucks for it. On to the next.

This helped me so much!

What about Randal Schaffer’s performance did you like?

It was easy to understand - interesting without being annoying!

Any additional comments?

My mates had been having loads of success with Tinder and although I did have some, I always felt not quite enough. I needed a boost and some genuine info (not just the nonsense friends would tell me to do!). This really helped me a lot and lets just say I have been a LOT more successful with girls on tinder since getting this book. Great value for money too, very cheap book!

Thought-provoking and useful!

As a man that usually rather struggles in the dating scene, I’ve recently turned to some dating apps, and they are, more often than not, rather perplexing for a fool such as myself. I struggle not only with the apps themselves, but getting matches, getting people to talk to me, and to like me, so when I found out there was a book dedicated to assisting me with this, I was more than happy to purchase it!

The book really goes through the best practices, how to set up your profile, your biography, and what to do when you’re actually meeting people from the app! Truly a fantastic book for anybody unaware how to approach the online dating scene, and I must say from personal experience it is definitely good advice!

The narration of the book was also fantastic, well toned throughout, working well for the informative parts to help the listener understand, and also entertainingly in the humorous parts of the book, which I must say I also enjoyed thoroughly.

Overall, I very much enjoyed this book, and I’m sure I’ll be putting the advice given by Hemswith into practice!

Great book, great advice!

Any additional comments?

Finally a book with advice that WORKS. Sick of the usual books giving a load of nonsense that does not work (not everyone is a model or rich you know, most books do not apply to the rest of us). RECOMMENDED!

Recommended

If u want to use tinder better and in fact ALL dating apps (and in real life) then this is the guide for u

Excellent write-up, a great guide to dating on tinder

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Yes, will recommend this book. Actually, I grew up among friends who know their way around women especially dating online. I happen to have no such problem dating women online as well. However, there are still a lot of guys out there who don't know how to impress and get around women. If I happen to meet one, then I would recommend his book because it clearly explains tips that any man can use to impress any woman when dating online and it will really help such person.

What was one of the most memorable moments of The Mens Guide to Tinder?

The most memorable moments of this audiobook are in section 8 where the book talked about the center mechanism. This section talked about how Tinder works (swiping right or swiping left) and what you need to register on Tinder (a Facebook account).

What does Randal Schaffer bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

Reading a book is great and different, listening to the content of the book being read to you is greater. Listening provides an exceptional way for readers/listeners to easily assimilate the audiobook. It is even better when the narrator is clear, crisp and pronounces well. Randal Schaffer combines these three elements which make the book easy to understand.

What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

The section 9 of the audiobook provides memorable ideas I will always remember. In this section, the audiobook discusses how to play the game to win. This section discusses the strategy need to create a compelling profile that will easily be noticed. The audiobook clearly stated that the picture and your bio are very important. I strongly agree with the author about this. I have been there and I know better.

Any additional comments?

This audio book provides excellent dating tips for men looking to date on tinder. All dating tips are clearly stated which includes thing you need to take very serious to succeed on tinder, this includes, the profile picture, the bio, how to set up your profile effectively and how to build up a rapport with the opposite sex if finally, you find her. For men looking for a straightforward guide to dating on tinder, then look no further. Highly Recommend!

Smart Advice in a Cute, Funny Way

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

As an image consultant and scholar of marketing, I would recommend this book to friends OR clients. In fact, some of the techniques listed here will be going straight into my repertoire when clients ask me for help with their dating profiles. LOVE!

Who was your favorite character and why?

There were no characters, per se, as this is a how-to self-help book. Does "the see what happens girl" count? That's definitely me. :)

Which character – as performed by Randal Schaffer – was your favorite?

Randal Schaffer didn't actually perform characters, he just narrated. However I loved his voice. It had the perfect blend of funny, sardonic, and intelligent that made me laugh out loud at times, and go "hmmm...." at others.

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

There were lots of advice gems in the book. One I'd never thought of was about how you shouldn't put kids and babies in your profile pics unless they're yours, otherwise you may attract the wrong kind of person. I had honestly never even given that any thought before, but next time I use Tinder, I will be watching to see who has followed this advice!

Any additional comments?

This book is great for guys, but as a female I got a lot out of it too. Not only does the author attempt to analyze females and dating (LOL, can't be done, right?), but helps me learn the tricks discover who's serious about finding "the one" online, and who's not. I'm sure that'll come in handy for me soon, if you know what I mean! :)

"This is Absolutely Genius :) "

Would you consider the audio edition of The Mens Guide to Tinder to be better than the print version?

They are both great. I prefer to read, but at nights before bed, picking up where i left off with my audible is most convenient for me. Also the narrator makes it easy to listen, as he goes at my pace and this makes it all the more enjoyable :)

What did you like best about this story?

I love that with each factor that is pointed out, the solutions are readily given. The advice offered is also priceless.

Which character – as performed by Randal Schaffer – was your favorite?

My favourite character was John. The personal experiences given add great flavour to the story :) I loved how his confidence grew. Although what he did was trial and error, with each experiment or mixture he eventually came out with a winning profile which had great results.

If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

" Ignite the flames...a guide to Tinder for Men."

basic info

Not too bad, but pretty basic info. Good tips on creating profile. Mostly common sense stuff.