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Men Who Can't Love: How to Recognize a Commitmentphobic Man Before He Breaks Your Heart | [Julia Sokol, Steven Carter]

Men Who Can't Love: How to Recognize a Commitmentphobic Man Before He Breaks Your Heart

Featured on Oprah and Sally Jesse Raphael, this definitive look at the dynamics of male-female communication gets to the heart of the all-too-common phenomenon: women who are ready and willing to commit, and men who back off just as the relationship moves toward the next level. This book can help you recognize early warning signs of the commitmentphobic man and avoid unnecessary stress and heartache.
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Audible Editor Reviews

Steven Carter and Julia Sokol's seminal relationship book offers a thorough, penetrating examination of the complex behavior and psychology of commitment-phobic males who, as stated in the book, can go from "attentive and caring to distant and hurtful for apparent reason".

Kevin Young's accomplished, measured performance reflects the high esteem with which these groundbreaking interviews and case studies are held in the field of relationship therapy, and his genial, conversational tone keeps the listener interested throughout this thought-provoking work.

Publisher's Summary

The million-copy New York Times best seller and classic relationship book.

Featured on Oprah and Sally Jesse Raphael, this definitive look at the dynamics of male-female communication gets to the heart of the all-too-common phenomenon: women who are ready and willing to commit, and men who back off just as the relationship moves toward the next level.

This audiobook can help you:

  • Recognize early warning signs of the commitmentphobic man
  • Determine the extent of his fears - and his willingness to change
  • Analyze your own role in the situation
  • Avoid unnecessary stress and heartache

©1987, 1996 Steven Carter and Julia Sokol Coopersmith (P)2012 Audible, Inc.

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    "Best audiobook I have ever listened to!!!!"
    Would you consider the audio edition of Men Who Can't Love to be better than the print version?

    I have never written a review on any book before, however, I highly recommend this book for anyone that has a habit of getting involved with men that come on very strong in the beginning to win you over and then decide that they don't want a serious committment. If you have been left confused by this in the past, believe me, this book will help you to see the signs of a committment phobic man from the very first date and help you to set the ground rules for the relationship right from the start. No more confusion or broken hearts for me. Now they play by my rules. And I can finally say that I can spot a player a mile away and know now what a healthy relationship is.This is seriously the best audiobook I have ever listened to and I am now buying the second book....He's Scared She's Scared. I will write a review on that one when I finish it.


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    Cecilia Honolulu, HI, United States 01-21-14
    Cecilia Honolulu, HI, United States 01-21-14 Member Since 2013
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    "The contents of this audio book is excellent"
    What made the experience of listening to Men Who Can't Love the most enjoyable?

    True to life. To the point and helpful.


    What did you learn from Men Who Can't Love that you would use in your daily life?

    It served as preventive medicine for me and it was also healing.


    Any additional comments?

    Highly recommend it.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Deborah WEST COVINA, CA, United States 01-05-14
    Deborah WEST COVINA, CA, United States 01-05-14 Member Since 2012

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    "Sound Advice for Every Single Woman"
    Would you listen to Men Who Can't Love again? Why?

    Yes, I am on my second listen.


    What other book might you compare Men Who Can't Love to and why?

    Attached. These books explain the personality traits of men who are incapable of loving truly and genuinely


    What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

    Stay independent and don't trust too quickly or easily.


    Any additional comments?

    I wish I had heard this book sooner!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Would you consider the audio edition of Men Who Can't Love to be better than the print version?

    Hard to say, I have not read the print version.


    What did you like best about this story?

    Easy to understand and to relate to for a layperson, no lingo, no-nonsense. The content is compassionate and empathetic.


    What does Kevin Young bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    The narration is great, I thought it was the author who read the book.


    Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

    Not any particular moment, but I do go back to it and listen to it again sometimes.


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