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Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships | [Henry Cloud, John Townsend]

Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships

Boundaries in Dating provides a way to think, solve problems, and enjoy the benefits of dating in the fullest way, including increasing the ability to find and commit to a marriage partner.
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Publisher's Summary

Between singleness and marriage lies the journey of dating. Want to make your road as smooth as possible? Set and maintain healthy boundaries that will help you grow in freedom, honesty, and self-control.

If many of your dating experiences have been difficult, Boundaries in Dating will revolutionize the way you handle relationships. Even if you’re happily dating, the insights you’ll gain from this much-needed book will help you fine-tune important areas of your dating life.

©2000 Henry Cloud (P)2009 Zondervan

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    doingme11 Lees Summit, MO, United States 10-09-13
    doingme11 Lees Summit, MO, United States 10-09-13
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    "AWESOME dating guidelines"
    Would you consider the audio edition of Boundaries in Dating to be better than the print version?

    I LOVED this book and wished that I had found it earlier in life, because it probably would have saved me a lot of heartache. I plan to have my daughters read this before they leave for college. My boyfriend and I went through the book together while in the beginning stages of our relationship, and this has been the best relationship thus far for both of us. We have both recommended this book to others that have not had much luck in the dating department, and they too have had nothing but good things to say. Although there were several things that I already knew, just had not been serious about putting into practice I did have several aha moments. This is definitely one that you should check out...you won't be disappointed.


    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Bronwyn Bloubergstrand, South Africa 04-14-15
    Bronwyn Bloubergstrand, South Africa 04-14-15 Member Since 2013
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    "Wish I'd read this sooner!"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Yes definitely. This is great, practical advice that should be compulsory reading for everyone. It teaches how to set boundaries, not only in dating but in life.


    Who was your favorite character and why?

    It's not a story book so no characters.


    Which character – as performed by Jonathan Petersen – was your favorite?

    It's not a story book so no characters.


    Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

    It made me nod in agreement so many times. It also helped me see things very clearly and understand behavior and why relationships failed in the past.


    Any additional comments?

    The book is really well written and the Doctors give so many real life examples to illustrate the learning. I really enjoyed it. I'm going to read all their other books. It offers great Bible based advice, without being judgmental or "preachy". Excellent read!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Jordan 03-18-15
    Jordan 03-18-15 Member Since 2014
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    "How to be SUCCESSFUL in dating!!!"

    This book had to be sent to me by God. I had no idea that I would relate to the examples used in this book so much. The advice is good, healthy, doable, practical, biblical based advice on how having correct boundaries can make your dating experiences better and more successful. I wish that I had read this book a long time ago. I am putting this advice into action in my new relationship and we are both reaping the benefits already!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Jessica 03-01-15
    Jessica 03-01-15
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    "great book!"

    like it a lot it was very happy insightful and I reccomend this book to anyone who loves growth!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Sha Potter 02-21-15
    Sha Potter 02-21-15 Member Since 2014
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    "Eye-opening info"

    Really good read for singles, but there's good stuff in here too for people with troubled relationships. A must read.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    F. Bramming Copenhagen, Denmark 01-27-15
    F. Bramming Copenhagen, Denmark 01-27-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Packed with good Godly advice"

    I am a single male age 23, who has never dated before. This book has given me some good healthy God fearing advice, that I think will be helpful to me when I start dating women.
    The book is definitely directed towards followers of Jesus, but is still packed with advice that would also seem logical to people of other religions.
    I would read this again when I find myself dating, since a lot of the information is a little bit hard to relate to without being able to mirror in your own present dating experience.
    One of the best things about the book is that it is so full of real life stories that can explain their concepts practically.
    This is a minor thing, but I find some of the references to the bible verses used to reinforce, that their statements are biblical, a bit weak. I believe that their advice is true, wise and rooted in love for God and others, so for me I would rather be without some of the bible references that don't really fit in.
    I find the speaker easy to understand and fine to listen to.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    krista PA 05-20-13
    krista PA 05-20-13 Member Since 2014
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    "Great advice, weird narrator"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Wise, Godly, down-to-earth advice from a psychotherapeutic perspective.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of Boundaries in Dating?

    Loved all the personal examples.


    How could the performance have been better?

    Why did the narrator have to say matoor and imatoor instead of mature and immature? Why? Seems silly but the word is used very frequently throughout the book so it really grates on you after a while.


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    kelley 05-21-15
    kelley 05-21-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Best Resource For Relationships"

    I loved this book! Very helpful for recognizing my own flaws while at the same time learning ways to correct them to become a better me.
    The couple examples were very good for the confusion in dating, that I have seen but wasn't able to see clearly for myself or friends. I've been able to articulate to friends the deceit that we unknowingly demonstrated & are now able to correct for good relationships with the opposite sex but also friendships too. :)

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    ELY Alabama 05-08-15
    ELY Alabama 05-08-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Read this NOW!"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Such eye opening and practical advice for people who want to learn how to date the RIGHT way. I finished it in a day and a half. I will be re-listening with a notebook and pen...I have plenty of work to do lol.


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    Gabriel 05-07-15
    Gabriel 05-07-15
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    "Great insight"

    I was married at 20, separated at 33.( because of her unfaithfulness o my wife ) divorced by 37. ( "in the church" )
    The painful journey to complete my loss could have been prevented if I had these tools. I don't regret anything, almost losing my mind and my salvation has made me much stronger, and great full for God and any circumstances I might have to go through good or bad.

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    "Absolute epiphany"

    This book is a godsend! I was hesitant in picking it up as I took it to be a typical book on "Christian dating". But the Drs approach to the topic is clear cut, relatable and refreshing. Not overbearing at all in referencing Christian principles and scriptures. Must read for all, believers or not!

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  • Anna
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    "Bible-bashing dating advice"
    What would have made Boundaries in Dating better?

    Taking the church, god and bible out of it. I am certain there are plenty of people out there who lead perfectly good lives and date in a reasonable way without being bashed over the head with the bible.


    You didn’t love this book--but did it have any redeeming qualities?

    I would have kept it if it was a non-religious psychological/self-improvement advice.


    Any additional comments?

    Why not try "The tale of two brains" (male brain v. female brain, find on YouTube and listen past the churchly remarks - a blast of comedy with the same message - and it's free)

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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