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The Confidence Gap Audiobook

The Confidence Gap: A Guide to Overcoming Fear and Self-Doubt

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Too many of us miss out on opportunities in life because we lack self-confidence. Whether it's public speaking, taking on a leadership role, or asking someone for a date, there are situations in which we just don't feel equipped to handle the challenges we face. Russ Harris offers a surprising solution to low self-confidence, shyness, and insecurity: Rather than trying to "get over" our fears, he says, the secret is to form a new and wiser relationship with them. Paradoxically, it's only when we stop struggling against our fearfulness that we begin to find lasting freedom from it. Drawing on the techniques of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a cutting-edge form of cognitive-behavioral therapy, The Confidence Gap explains how to: Free yourself from common misconceptions about what confidence is and how to build it; transform your relationship with fear and anxiety; clarify your core values and use them as your inspiration and motivation; use mindfulness to effectively handle negative thoughts and feelings.

©2011 Russ Harris (P)2014 Audible Inc.

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    Riker Ann Arbor, MI 01-11-16
    Riker Ann Arbor, MI 01-11-16 Member Since 2017
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    "The One Book for Overcoming Anxiety"

    The Confidence Gap doesn't make any grand promises - instead, it only promises hard work and gradual progress. This is great, though, because it is something that can realistically be achieved. It doesn't call for getting rid of fear or negative thoughts, but accepting them and befriending them. Doing so limits their power over your actions and thoughts.

    In this book, Russ Harris shares mindfulness as the key to overcoming anxiety and increasing self-efficacy. Mindfulness is a sense of awareness and presence in your environment - putting your thoughts in the background, where their impact is muted. His version of mindfulness is based on three skills: Defusion, Expansion and Engagement. You'll have to read the book to learn more, but I promise it's worth it!

    In summary, if you experience anxiety and want to increase confidence then The Confidence Gap is the book for you. It's interesting, well-written and directly applicable to life. It takes work, though - you have to do the exercises and put in some time to increase certain mindfulness skills. It's worth the work it takes, though!


    By the way, the term 'Confidence Gap' refers to the false idea that you have to be confident before you do what you really want to do. In fact, the only way confidence can appear is by developing the skill you want to be confident in. If you want to be confident as a writer, you have to write. Don't wait until you're confident to write, because then you'll be waiting forever.

    71 of 77 people found this review helpful
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    Diana 02-21-15
    Diana 02-21-15 Member Since 2014
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    "What I needed"

    The world is full of advice on boosting confidence, and most of it is crap. This book lays out the reasons why and replaces the crappy rules with ones to live by. I'm going to read it at least once again. Already, I have been living by what I've learned from this book and it's really helped. I recommend this book to anyone and everyone who's ever struggled with motivation, discipline, or confidence.

    50 of 57 people found this review helpful
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    Kenny 04-26-16
    Kenny 04-26-16 Member Since 2016
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    "A so-so attempt of trying to be unique"

    While this author attempts to be different, he simply repackaged familiar self-help material. It is not all bad, however. He did give 1 new perspective (for me) relating to a person's values as a means of motivation. I listened to the entire book but was ready for it to end long before the end came. This could have been a good entry level self-help book except the author believes his way is better than others and he repeatedly knocks other methods.

    5 of 5 people found this review helpful
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    Reginald 11-19-16
    Reginald 11-19-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Good to read but one major flaw"

    that flaw is the narrator cuts out at the end of the chapters. It's frustrating.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Matt 04-16-15
    Matt 04-16-15 Member Since 2016
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    "Increadibly insightful, life changing! "

    Finally, the missing piece of the puzzle! So much different from the last book I listened to on confidence, this author has a deep understanding of the topic and doesn't give you the same old "be positive" and "believe in yourself" crap you've heard over and over again. I'm putting these strategies and new understanding to use in business and in my personal life immediately! Soooo thankful I came across this book, where have you been my whole adult life? The information I've gained on confidence, values, and fulfillment is priceless. Fantastic work!

    33 of 39 people found this review helpful
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    Amos Craig 01-22-15
    Amos Craig 01-22-15 Member Since 2013
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    "qaulity with little salesmanship"

    Many practical exercises that show a real knowledge of how the mind works. Many of the exercises revolve around becoming aware of what your mind is doing. Not just another pump you up book.

    25 of 30 people found this review helpful
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    RRRedmond 02-23-16
    RRRedmond 02-23-16 Member Since 2015
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    "Not very helpful"

    Narration was good. Unfortunately, after dismissing all of the other self improvement books, this author's idea is to remember all your fears, phobias, and frustrations, give them a name and then belittle them until they aren't important to you anymore. Very simplistic solutions dotted with classic examples of people who didn't give up and became successful.

    Because of the title, I was intrigued and really wanted to like this book. Very disappointed.

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    Susie Santa Cruz, CA, United States 07-09-15
    Susie Santa Cruz, CA, United States 07-09-15 Member Since 2012

    I'm Audible's first Editor-at-Large, the host of In Bed with Susie Bright -- and a longtime author, editor, journo, and bookworm. I listen to audio when I'm cooking, playing cards, knitting, going to bed, waking up, driving, and putting other people's kids to bed! My favorite audiobooks, ever, are: "True Grit" and "The Dog of the South."

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    "No Secrets Here"

    What's your favorite flavor of self-help? Not for me the magical thinking of "The Secret," or the faux-religiousity of "The Four Agreements." The constant vigil to think positive makes me run screaming, though if they help you, great.

    Russ Harris is a guru for the pessimist set. Mindfulness without the affirmations. There's no magic here. But there are plenty of thought exercises to help you accept yourself and to make your best decisions, sitting with your anxieties and fear, but seeing past them.

    Solid helpful advice along with Graeme Malcolm's effortless narration that makes you feel you're in safe hands. This is just my cup of tea.

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    Jason Warman 04-27-15
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    "incredible"

    absolutely amazing! after less than a week my confidence is already soaring. I am initiating more conversations, overcoming obstacles, And becoming who I want to be. I insist on reading this book.

    18 of 23 people found this review helpful
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    Ian Hamilton 06-10-15 Member Since 2016
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    "The missing link"

    Love the way Russ flows the research and story with his life experience.
    I have not only found this valuable in guiding my own life journey but supporting in helping those we come in contact with, staff, friends and family
    Welll done from me

    17 of 21 people found this review helpful

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