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Perv: The Sexual Deviant in All of Us | [Jesse Bering]

Perv: The Sexual Deviant in All of Us

In his eye-opening new book, Perv, the award-winning columnist and psychologist Jesse Bering argues that we are all sexual deviants on one level or another. As Bering takes us into the lives of a woman who falls madly in love with the Eiffel Tower, a young man addicted to seductive sneezes, and a pair of deeply affectionate identical twins, among others, he challenges us to move beyond our judgments and attitudes toward "deviant" sex and consider the alternative: What would happen if we rise above our fears and revulsions and accepted our true natures?
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Publisher's Summary

A groundbreaking argument that perversions are more common than we think, from everyone’s favorite provocateur.

In his eye-opening new book, Perv, the award-winning columnist and psychologist Jesse Bering argues that we are all sexual deviants on one level or another. As Bering takes us into the lives of a woman who falls madly in love with the Eiffel Tower, a young man addicted to seductive sneezes, and a pair of deeply affectionate identical twins, among others, he challenges us to move beyond our judgments and attitudes toward "deviant" sex and consider the alternative: What would happen if we rise above our fears and revulsions and accepted our true natures?

With his signature wit and irreverent style, Bering pulls back the curtains on the history of perversions, the biological reasons behind our distaste for unusual sexual proclivities, and the latest research on desire. Armed with reason, science, and an insatiable appetite for knowledge, he humanizes deviants while asking some very provocative questions about the nature of hypocrisy, prejudice, and when sexual desire can lead to harm.

A groundbreaking look at our complex relationship with our carnal urges and the ways in which we disguise, deny, and shame the sexual deviant in all of us, Perv brings our hidden desires into the light.

©2013 Jesse Bering (P)2013 Macmillan Audio

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    Matthew Ottawa, ON, Canada 11-09-13
    Matthew Ottawa, ON, Canada 11-09-13

    Avid audiobook addict!

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    "Fantastic!"

    I listened to this author on Dan Savage's podcast and was immediately compelled to get the book. It was extremely well-written by a very clever author who is also an excellent narrator. Very interesting, entertaining, and memorable.

    4 of 5 people found this review helpful
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    Aryn 06-05-14
    Aryn 06-05-14
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    "About time someone said this"

    Loved this book. Love the author and his delivery is exquisite. While the subject matter can have an 'eww' factor, it is something I have wanted to see both studied and then brought out of the crawl spaces since I read the Kinsey report a hundred years ago or so. Get off your judgement plank and consider what it must be like to be one of the 'new' pervs.
    Well done, Mr. Bering; and thank you.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Stephen 02-13-14
    Stephen 02-13-14 Member Since 2015

    Psychologist, nuclear researcher, runner

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    "For once, a self-reading author is good"
    What did you like best about Perv? What did you like least?

    The author read the material in a way that added to the informational and entertainment value of the message itself. I had the feeling at the start that I just had to swallow the message whole, and lie back and enjoy the book.


    What was the most interesting aspect of this story? The least interesting?

    There were many interesting facts and data. Often, they touched on sensitive areas that too few are willing to approach


    Have you listened to any of Jesse Bering’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

    No


    Did Perv inspire you to do anything?

    Being better informed will help me be less instantly judgmental, I hope, and to base things on facts and actual harms or benefits


    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Fan Diego Ceiling Fans - Your Comfort. Your Style. 11-10-13 Member Since 2006
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    "A sleeper…."
    Any additional comments?

    This book is really a definition of terms and an explanation of how we came to such labels. The performance is good enough, but the content is boring.

    3 of 5 people found this review helpful
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    a_ville 05-10-15
    a_ville 05-10-15

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    "Ending Shame and Stigmas"
    What made the experience of listening to Perv the most enjoyable?

    This book is amazing as it pushes boundaries and provides historicity and facts around taboo subjects. Overall the takeaway for me was to be more open-minded, accepting of sexual deviancy, and encouraged me to not shame people for having non-traditional feelings toward sex. The author definitely made me want to spark up conversations on sex to diminish the taboos surrounding sex in general and furthermore deviant sex.


    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    lizzy hallas 04-20-15 Member Since 2013
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    "interesting info, a little too tongue in cheek"

    the history of decidedly deviation and the science is very interesting, though I felt that the author/narrator was trying too hard to inject his own "deviant" sexuality into the book. We get it, you're gay and clever.

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    luis 04-16-15
    luis 04-16-15
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    "Amazing!!"

    Although full of jargon and technical terms Jesse reads and forms the book in a way that is easily understood. A must read for anyone who is in charge of anyone else's sexual future i.e. parents!

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    Heather 03-20-15
    Heather 03-20-15
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    "Looking outside your own box"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Yes, this a good book in regards to looking at the science and the mentality of why we like what we like and why we do what we do when it comes to self satisfaction. And definitely clarifies distinctions that are misguided by new media.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of Perv?

    It explains that the most people are are stated as "Pedophiles" are not actually "Pedophiles" But a different classification. It is a book of understanding, and explanation.


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Yes.


    Any additional comments?

    Very good listen, and very intriguing,

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Amy Randall 02-22-15
    Amy Randall 02-22-15 Member Since 2014
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    "Yep, I'm in there somewhere."

    I learned a lot and it got me asking questions. All I ask from a book. Excellent work Dr. Bering :)

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Erich Auckland Park, South Africa 01-19-15
    Erich Auckland Park, South Africa 01-19-15

    Speaker, Leader, innovation consultant, kilt-wearer, South African.

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    "Entertaining and thought provoking"

    I like it when authors read their own work. He gets his own jokes and delivers them well.
    The book reminds us there is probably something sexual about us we wouldn't want the neighbours to know; and explains why disgusting things are incorrectly seen as immoral. Very worthwhile read

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    Where does Perv rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    bath time listening


    What did you like best about this story?

    the endless reminder that we are all as human as each other


    What about Jesse Bering’s performance did you like?

    he is very enthusiastic, and a little self deprecating


    Any additional comments?

    really easy listen and lots of great stories of humanity, well worth the time and money

    PLEASE PUBLISH HIS BOOKS ON BELIEF

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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