She Comes First

The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

By: Ian Kerner

Narrated by: Ian Kerner

Length: 4 hrs and 35 mins

Publisher's summary

As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.

Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay: simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.

Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual.

She Comes First exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how."

For Adults Only: You must be 18 years or older to purchase.

Find out what else is on Ian Kerner's mind in this interview with the author.

©2004 Ian Kerner (P)2005 HarperCollins Publishers, Inc.

Critic reviews

"An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!" (Playgirl)

Awesome

This book has amazing detail. It sort of moves slow - so you have to be OK with that. Some times I found myself laughing out loud. The reader is so seriouse, but sometimes he has to say some pretty funny stuff like "Sit on my face method" etc. I highly recommened it to anyone who wants to improve their abilities.

Good information, not a great listen

There is a lot of great practical advice, technique, and thought exercise in this book. Definitely a required read if youre looking to get better at love making because of clumsiness, lack of experience, small endowment, or overthinking/nervousness. Having said that, the author is also the narrator for this recording, and hes not exactly a charismatic reader. And with this subject matter, it kind of impacts the enjoyment factor. If they ever rerelease it, definitely sample that one first. If not, still worth it!

Great manual type book for cunnilingus!

A Great guide to techniques for pleasuring a woman. Must have reading for anyone who loves cunnilingus or is just starting out.

Rough voice

Needed a different narrator but still very informative and interesting. I thought I wouldn’t learn anything new but definitely have a few techniques to try now. Cheers

OK. . .

This book is great for a lot of men to read. Being very well-versed in this subject already, I didn’t find a lot of new insights.

Did they pick this voice actor to intentionally make people uncomfortable?

Great book, 1 out of 5 for picking the voice actor. It’s not him, it’s him explaining this subject. I feel like my local gas station clerk has been giving me sex advice for 4 hours.

The connection with female pleasure is illuminated

All of the things I wished I could have learned earlier in life to make my wife happy in the pleasure department. Delivered with a bit of levity and easy to understand context for a deeper understanding. Excellent emphasis on the importance of deep relationships and on limiting the number of partners, but lacking on the value, implications, and intricacies of the marriage commitment.

great read for all men who want a stronger relatio

this is certainly not my standard book I prefer to read but I popped up and I was intrigued. I did learn a lot and excited to start putting my new found skill to the test.

more for a man than a woman

information is more for a man than a woman. alot of detail on the female body

something I want to know everything about.

like I said I want to know everything about it. and become the best cuntalingus. to make sure that I get every partner off. better then every partner before me.