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Controlling the Agenda
- The Ten Commandments for Managing Obnoxious Bosses and Coworkers in the Workplace
- Narrated by: Jonathan D. Marmur
- Length: 1 hr and 37 mins
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Publisher's summary
In "Controlling the Agenda: The Ten Commandments for Managing Obnoxious Bosses and Coworkers in the Workplace," the author delves into the intricacies of work relationships, exploring the challenges of controlling the agenda and not falling prey to destructive dynamics. This insightful guide offers a comprehensive approach to understand the work environment, navigate through its complexities, and thrive.
The book begins with an introduction underscoring the importance of emotional resilience, advocating for decision-making grounded in logic, not emotion, and understanding that upsetting your superiors can be a sign you're challenging the status quo to bring about necessary change.
In the sections that follow, the listener is guided through effective communication strategies, like direct confrontation when upset, not entertaining indirect criticism, and handling problematic personalities. The author emphasizes the importance of recognizing toxic, quicksand, and dangerous personalities and provides strategies for interacting with them.
As the book progresses, it delves deeper into workplace dynamics. From focusing on significant issues rather than trivialities to never presenting a problem without a proposed solution, the listener is equipped with tools to navigate challenging dynamics. It also warns against the do-gooder, advising that others' interest is not always your interest, and the importance of defining credit allocation before committing to a project.
In the final chapters, the author emphasizes self-care and personal health. Recognizing the body's signals as an intelligent response mechanism is urged, with the premise that discomfort is a sign that action must be taken.
With each commandment serving as a guidepost, "Controlling the Agenda" offers valuable insights to thrive in any workplace, fostering healthier relationships, effective communication, strategic thinking, and improved personal health.
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