From former MTV VJ Dave Holmes, the hilarious memoir of a perpetual outsider fumbling toward self-acceptance, with the music of the '80s, '90s, and today as his soundtrack.
Dave Holmes has spent his life on the periphery, nose pressed hopefully against the glass, wanting just one thing: to get inside. Growing up, he was the artsy son in the sporty family. At his all-boys high school and Catholic college, he was the closeted gay kid surrounded by crush-worthy straight guys. And in his 20s, in the middle of a disastrous career in advertising, he accidentally became an MTV VJ overnight when he finished second, naturally, in the Wanna Be a VJ contest, opening the door to fame, fortune, and celebrity - you know, almost.
In Party of One, Holmes tells the hilariously painful and painfully hilarious tales - in the vein of Rob Sheffield, Andy Cohen, and Paul Feig - of an outsider desperate to get in, of a misfit constantly changing shape, of a music geek who finally learns to accept himself. Structured around a mix of hits and deep cuts from the last four decades - from Bruce Springsteen's "Hungry Heart" and En Vogue's "Free Your Mind" to LCD Soundsystem's "Losing My Edge" and Bleachers' "I Wanna Get Better" - and punctuated with interludes like "So You've Had Your Heart Broken in the 1990s: A Playlist" and "Notes on (Jesse) Camp", this book is for anyone who's ever felt like a square peg, especially those who have found their place in the world around a band, an album, or a song. It's a laugh-out-loud funny, deeply nostalgic story about never fitting in, never giving up, and letting good music guide the way.
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"In Party of One, Dave Holmes goes deep into all the ways loving music warps you for life, from shaping your teen crush on Huey Lewis to putting you on MTV at the peak of the TRL era. But his book is also a tenderly hilarious and moving tale of trying to grow up - whether that means coming out at your Catholic college, hitting the hot tub with Kid Rock, or getting that sensation that the singer on your radio is the only soul who truly understands you." (Rob Sheffield, New York Times best-selling author of Love Is a Mix Tape)
"Who better to marry great storytelling with great songs? Dave Holmes's love of music and pop culture is infectious, and his stories are hilarious!" (Andy Cohen, New York Times best-selling author of Most Talkative)
"Party of One is a perfect memoir - hilarious, moving, and full of beauty. Holmes writes at all times with great heart, brains, and courage." (Darin Strauss, National Book Critics Circle Award-winning author of Half a Life)
Dave Holmes' reading/performance of this book is wonderful. The tone is completely conversational yet at the same time incredibly professional. There was no over the top affect to the performance (as there have been some other audiobooks). Even the few times where Holmes began to attempt an accent were peppered with jokes of "no, I'm not going to do an accent".
He is a wonderful writer with smart and funny observations and the ability to make the reader feel as if they are in a one on one conversation with the author.
It is an engaging, funny, self-depreciating and poignant book. The chapters are vignettes that are strung together to tell the story of life by a talented storyteller. And the author brings you along--inviting you to his party.
host of the podcast Not In A Creepy Way, avid audiobook listener
Dave Holmes tells a good story and his voice is very pleasant. A whole-hearted recommendation!
Dave Holmes is like your old friend from your childhood. His self-deprecating take on life is for anyone that lived through MTV's golden era or anyone who ever felt like an outsider. He writes with a funny sharp wit. Thoroughly enjoyable.
I really like this start to finish, got through it in about 2 days. Really likable guy telling a fun, relatable story.
Kept rewinding to re-listen to something particularly funny which ended up being the bulk of the book so it took me awhile to finish it. That said, I loved every minute of it and plan to listen to it again very soon.
Dave Holmes is one of my favorite podcast guests so I had to get his book on audio. His narration is great. Very charming. The story is smart and funny and a little sad as he finds his way. Plus a few insane stories from his MTV days.
"Susanna Hoffs was gouda." Priceless.
Recently I heard Dave on a satellite radio show called "My Favorite Song," and I was quite taken with his taste & found him so interesting that I was eager to check out his book. I REALLY related to him on many, many levels. I totally would have wanted to be part of the group of friends he describes from his school boy days who didn't fit in to any clique apart from the awkward, closeted, grammatically correct, music-obsessed teens who are overflowing with insecurity. Dave's tales provide us another fabulous example of "we're not alone" and "it gets better."
This is his life story in bits & pieces, each under the umbrella of an appropriate song from his playlist of favorites. Hearing him tell the storeis is even better than reading them because you get to hear his nuances... the tiny little ways he infuses a line delivery. Several of them land like punchlines. I had no idea he had such a strong comedy/improv background. That really shows here, both in how he views & relates to the world & in how he crafts the story he's telling. I found myself smiling throughout... I just loved it. I wholeheartedly recommend it, especially to anyone who grew up in the 80s, and even more especially if you're a gay man who feels like none of the usual stereotypes apply to you.
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