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Bringing Up Bebe: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting | [Pamela Druckerman]

Bringing Up Bebe: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting

The secret behind France's astonishingly well-behaved children is here. When American journalist Pamela Druckerman has a baby in Paris, she doesn't aspire to become a "French parent". French parenting isn't a known thing, like French fashion or French cheese. Even French parents themselves insist they aren't doing anything special. But French children are far better behaved and more in command of themselves than American kids....
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The secret behind France's astonishingly well-behaved children is here.

When American journalist Pamela Druckerman has a baby in Paris, she doesn't aspire to become a "French parent". French parenting isn't a known thing, like French fashion or French cheese. Even French parents themselves insist they aren't doing anything special.

Yet the French children Druckerman knows sleep through the night at two or three months old while those of her American friends take a year or more. French kids eat well-rounded meals that are more likely to include braised leeks than chicken nuggets. And while her American friends spend their visits resolving spats between their kids, her French friends sip coffee while the kids play.

Motherhood itself is a whole different experience in France. There's no role model, as there is in America, for the harried new mom with no life of her own. French mothers assume that even good parents aren't at the constant service of their children and that there's no need to feel guilty about this. They have an easy, calm authority with their kids that Druckerman can only envy.

Of course, French parenting wouldn't be worth talking about if it produced robotic, joyless children. In fact, French kids are just as boisterous, curious, and creative as Americans. They're just far better behaved and more in command of themselves. While some American toddlers are getting Mandarin tutors and preliteracy training, French kids are - by design - toddling around and discovering the world at their own pace.

With a notebook stashed in her diaper bag, Druckerman, a former reporter for The Wall Street Journal, sets out to learn the secrets to raising a society of good little sleepers, gourmet eaters, and reasonably relaxed parents. She discovers that French parents are extremely strict about some things and strikingly permissive about others. And she realizes that to be a different kind of parent, you don't just need a different parenting philosophy. You need a very different view of what a child actually is.

While finding her own firm non, Druckerman discovers that children - including her own - are capable of feats she'd never imagined.

©2012 Pamela Druckerman (P)2012 Random House

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    sarvajith 09-20-13
    sarvajith 09-20-13
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    "More about France and French women"
    This book wasn’t for you, but who do you think might enjoy it more?

    There was more about Paris culture, women and mother habits in Paris. Very less to take from the book and give it to my American kids.


    Would you ever listen to anything by Pamela Druckerman again?

    Not sure.


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    Eva Bogard Bradenton, FL USA 08-04-13
    Eva Bogard Bradenton, FL USA 08-04-13

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    Would you listen to Bringing Up Bebe again? Why?

    I don't really have enough time to listen or read books more than once, but otherwise I would.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of Bringing Up Bebe?

    I loved so many parts: the explanation of how the daughter got the nickname "Bean". I even made one of the recipes in the story (gateau a yaourt) with my eldest child and it came our GREAT!


    What about Abby Craden’s performance did you like?

    She was excellent. So pleasant to listen to, did the voices in such an authentic, yet dramatized way. I had to keep reminding myself that this voice did not belong to the author, as she read it so convincingly.


    Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

    Yes, I often chuckled aloud :)


    Any additional comments?

    This was my first audio book and it made a great impression on me. I still think it's a bit strange having someone else read for me, as if I'm not literate. I had this book on vacation, so I would find a comfy spot in nature and watch something while I listened. It worked great like this.

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    Courtney Milton, ON, Canada 07-17-13
    Courtney Milton, ON, Canada 07-17-13 Member Since 2013
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    I fully enjoyed listening to this book. As a mother to be, I love to insightful approach to parenting that this book portrays. Although I would not call this a personal parenting bible, I did grasp onto some very interesting ideas that I will definitely use when raising my own children. I especially appreciate the approach that "French Parenting" takes towards patience and food.

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    Amy Grand Junction, CO, United States 07-14-13
    Amy Grand Junction, CO, United States 07-14-13 Member Since 2011
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    "Surprisingly delightful."
    What insight do you think you’ll apply from Bringing Up Bebe?

    Going into this read, I thought that my children were too old for this advice to be valuable. I was wrong. This book opened my eyes to several simple changes I could make with regards to raising my girls with the ideas I had always hoped to.


    Any additional comments?

    My only regret is that I didn't read this book 8 years ago.

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    LosaM 06-18-13
    LosaM 06-18-13
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    "Loved it!"
    What made the experience of listening to Bringing Up Bebe the most enjoyable?

    It was very intriguing and informative. I loved the insight into the French culture. I was seeking out help with raising my 19 month old, and this really hit the spot. It touches on teaching kids to behave themselves in restaurants, helping them build their independence, increasing your adult time, and why French babies sleep through the night. Exactly what I needed!


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    Jenny Wood BAKERSFIELD, CA, United States 06-11-13
    Jenny Wood BAKERSFIELD, CA, United States 06-11-13
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    "All Parents Should Read This Book"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    I loved this book and found so much practical knowledge within it's pages! So many parents these days are giving into their kids and allowing them to behave badly and become selfish without any consequences! Please read this book...it will change your perspective!


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    Alicia Bangkok, Thailand 05-05-13
    Alicia Bangkok, Thailand 05-05-13 Member Since 2013

    I got hooked on audiobooks when I used to work in a public library. I like that they are much more immersive than physical books or ebooks.

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    If you could sum up Bringing Up Bebe in three words, what would they be?

    Enjoyable, entertaining & thought-provoking.


    What did you like best about this story?

    Mix of research & anecdotes.


    What does Abby Craden bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    Better French pronunciation than me.


    Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

    Her description of narrated play in an American playground was one of the moments when I thought "I do this. Why do I do it? For me? To prove I am an attentive mother? Or for her language growth & physical confidence?"


    Any additional comments?

    As an expat (in Bangkok) it made me think about parenting differences in different cultures. I would be interested in reading more books like this.

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    rsgubler Lehi, Utah 05-03-13
    rsgubler Lehi, Utah 05-03-13 Listener Since 2005

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    If you could sum up Bringing Up Bebe in three words, what would they be?

    Why three words audible? One word, I can do. Two words is easy. Three is impossible for me.


    What other book might you compare Bringing Up Bebe to and why?

    Other sleeping books or books about raising your kids in other countries.


    What does Abby Craden bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    Good french and english.


    Any additional comments?

    I think this is the best book for how to make sure you baby sleeps through the night. This book talks about the "pause", which I think is smart, normal, and maybe obvious. Other sleeping baby books have crazy regiments that can be unhealthy for the baby. My son is 2 months old and sleeps close to 5 hours every night now. Then he wakes up and eats and sleeps for another 3 to 4 hours. I think in another month he will be sleeping a full 8.

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    Daphna Tel Aviv, Israel 03-18-13
    Daphna Tel Aviv, Israel 03-18-13 Member Since 2011
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    "Good book, a bit too long.."

    Interesting with a humoristic twist, while giving a lot to think about. However, towards the end tends to repeat itself.
    All in all, a good listen

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    Jenlynmo 03-09-13
    Jenlynmo 03-09-13

    Artist, Baker, Intropersonal skills expert, Mom.

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    "Changed my parenting"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Yes, I've told every pregnant friend I have. Be humble enough to question your parenting, willing to improve and grow. So why not learn from other cultures.


    What did you like best about this story?

    French parenting and food. Oh and their take on pregnancy! Hmm most everything.


    What about Abby Craden’s performance did you like?

    Great!


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