watch my new YouTube video!!!: https://youtu.be/99U72jcjJOo

Dear My Beloved Ladies,

happy almost valentines day! <3 one of my favorite holidays! in today's episode i discussed a ~highly~ requested topic: how to get over a break up. within the episode, we also discussed some life updates for me, what i've been centering in my life lately, and sisterhood. if you'd like to get straight to relationship/dating advice, skip to minute 20. if you'd like to hear about me, start from the beginning!

i love you girls so much!

xoxox,

Victoria de Vall

my recent YouTube video: https://youtu.be/2v5NVk2KDlg

*disclaimer: there are many people who genuinely engage in and love polyamory and for whom polyamory is their authentic relationship style. this episode is discussing women who do not authentically resonate with polyamory, but contort and coerce themselves into it in an attempt to keep a man.

Watch my recent YouTube video: https://youtu.be/qFpbffRzssY

in this podcast, I delve into loving yourself fully- which means sitting with all of the parts of yourself that you have shamed, labelled unpresentable, denied, or been embarrassed of. I delve into being ashamed of past sexual experiences, having an anxious attachment style, and how I move through feelings of unworthiness when they arise. owning all of you- the parts you are ashamed of, too- is true embodiment. That being said, loving all parts of ourselves does not necessarily mean indulging in behaviors or past versions of ourselves that we don't feel are aligned with the lives we are looking to build- however, the key is loving and UNDERSTANDING these parts of you- deeply- and then letting them go, if you are no longer interesting in feeding them. hope you guys enjoy and if you do, leave me a review! :)