Ever catch yourself overthinking how you show up around men—or in any situation where you feel judged? In this Coaching Hotline episode, I answer a listener’s question about maintaining platonic friendships while married and unpack why women are socialized to take responsibility for other people’s thoughts—a burden that’s impossible to carry and doesn’t belong to you.

Then we dive into whether some circumstances actually require more thought work than others, using the workplace as an example. You’ll learn why what feels “hard” for you isn’t about the circumstance—it’s about your thinking—and how embracing that insight can change the way you navigate relationships, work, and life.

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Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/421

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The coaching industry is booming—yet it’s one of the most misunderstood professions out there. From concerns about pyramid schemes to questions of legitimacy, there’s a lot of confusion surrounding this coaching, especially in a field that’s predominantly female and largely online.

So this week, I’m breaking down the most common myths and concerns about becoming a coach. I cover everything from startup costs and market saturation to whether coaching actually aligns with your strengths and desired lifestyle. You’ll learn the real numbers behind the industry, the different pathways into coaching (hint: entrepreneurship isn’t the only option), and how to know if coaching might be your calling.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/420

Mentioned in this episode:

Curious about becoming a coach?

Join me for Coach-Curious Prep School happening on September 15–17, 2025. By the end of these three days, you’ll know the following three things: - Whether coaching is the right career for you. - What you need to do to prepare for a successful coaching career. - The next steps to take to begin — or expand — your life as a coach. Click here to save your seat: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/coachcurious

Enroll now in Coach-Curious Prep School

Are you curious about becoming a coach but not sure where to start?

Join me at Coach-Curious Prep School where you’ll learn:

• Whether coaching is the right career for you.
• What you need to do to prepare for a successful coaching career.
• The next steps to take to begin — or expand — your life as a coach.

It's all happening September 15-17, 2025. Click here to grab your spot: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/coachcurious