In this episode, Bridget and Lauren celebrate the one-year anniversary of The Rural Well podcast.

• We reflect on memorable guests and impactful stories from the past year.

• Key themes that resonated with listeners include guests being vulnerable about generational trauma, mental health, empathy, and family dynamics in agriculture.

• we share meaningful listener feedback, including stories of people feeling seen, understood, and less alone.

• We discuss the importance of community in rural life and how the podcast has helped normalize mental health conversations.

• We highlight the value of both women and men in agriculture and how their perspectives shape wellness discussions.

• We explore how spouses often play a key support role in farm families’ mental health.

• We recall which episodes surprised, challenged, and inspired them most.

• We share personal reflections on each other’s strengths and what they bring to the partnership.

• The episode closes with lighthearted fun—what word each host would define in the dictionary—and appreciation for the growing Rural Well community.

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This episode is sponsored by our friends at @agproworkwear. Be sure to check them out at http://www.agproworkwear.com

In this episode of The Rural Well, Bridgette and Lauren dive into the complex and often emotional topic of boundaries in farm life—and not just the kind made of fences and stone walls. From multi-generational family farms to community and church commitments, they explore why setting clear limits isn’t about being harsh or distant—it’s about creating space for growth, respect, and mental wellness.

Lauren shares personal stories and counselling insights on how boundaries help others become more resourceful, prevent resentment, and protect relationships. We also discuss how to respond when lines are crossed, how to communicate needs with courage and curiosity, and why unspoken frustrations can lead to “emotional barfing” if left unchecked. A memorable quote from Brené Brown ties it all together:

• “Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others.”

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The episode closes on a moving and hopeful note, as Lauren reflects on finding joy in small, unseen acts—reminding listeners that boundaries and compassion can coexist beautifully on and off the farm.

Key Themes:

• Setting emotional and relational boundaries in family farming

• Preventing burnout and resentment through healthy communication
• The courage to say no and protect personal well-being
• Learning from multi-generational dynamics
• Finding joy and meaning in everyday acts of service

Links and Resources:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.nfmha.ca/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠- National Farmer Mental Health Alliance

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This episode is sponsored by our friends at @agproworkwear. Be sure to check them out at http://www.agproworkwear.com

When conflict hits close to home — whether it’s in the barnyard, the boardroom, or around the family table — it can feel personal and painful.

In this episode of The Rural Well, Bridget and Lauren open up about what it means to feel attacked, exploring how old wounds, sarcasm, and control dynamics show up in rural life and multigenerational farm families.

We talk practical wisdom, recognizing boundaries, changing harmful patterns, and reclaiming peace — without losing heart or heritage.

• Lauren shares a personal high school bullying story — and how it shaped her understanding of conflict.

• Bridgette and Lauren unpack “adult bullying” in farm settings — from land deals to family disagreements.

• How to tell the difference between conflict (shared goals) and boundaries (self-protection).

• Why sarcasm can be a “safe” way of hurting others — and how to stop using it.

• The family scapegoat dynamic: what it is, how it forms, and how to break it.

• A reminder that bullying isn’t a “rite of passage” — it’s a learned behavior we can unlearn.

• A lighthearted closing question: If you could send your income tax dollars anywhere, where would they go? (Spoiler: Convoy of Hope, FFA, Compassion Canada, and Farm Rescue all get some love.)

  
  

Links and Resources:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.nfmha.ca/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠- National Farmer Mental Health Alliance

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lilaclanemedia.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Lilac Lane Media

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