Episode #1035

What really changes when a man stops pretending he’s fine and finally asks for support?

In this honest conversation, Doug sits down with a couple from the UK to talk about what it actually looks like to grow as a man, a husband and a father.

They cover the shift from feeling isolated and emotionally shut down to building real friendships, taking the lead at home and showing up more fully in marriage and parenting.

You’ll hear what it’s like to go from carrying everything alone to feeling part of a community. You’ll also hear the wife's perspective on how the change impacted her, their relationship and their kids.

This episode is for any man who feels stuck, disconnected or just tired of trying to figure it all out on his own.

If you want to understand what’s really broken in your marriage and get a clear path to fix it, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It walks you through what’s going wrong and how to turn things around without guesswork.

Episode #1034

In this throwback episode, we’re revisiting a core conversation that’s just as relevant now as when it first aired. If you’ve ever felt like you're doing all the right things but your wife still pulls away, this one’s for you.

Doug breaks down what really happens when men fall into the trap of chasing their wife. Whether it’s constant texts, over-checking in, or trying too hard to fix the relationship, that energy often creates more distance instead of connection.

You’ll hear why chasing is a form of needy energy, how it kills polarity, and what to do instead. Doug walks through simple shifts that help men lead from a grounded place instead of needing approval. He also explains the triad of connection and why your wife’s reaction is not the measure of your success.

This revisit is a reminder that your power comes from within. When you stop chasing and start leading, everything changes.

Episode #1033

Most men want to be better at communicating with their wife but don’t always know how. Especially when it comes to listening without turning it into a checklist or interrogation. In this episode, Doug and Chris break down what it looks like to build real connection through everyday conversations — even when things feel distant or tense.

They talk about the “collecting berries” concept and how it helps men understand the way women process emotions and daily life. You’ll learn why your curiosity matters more than your words, how to ask better questions, and what to do when your wife doesn’t open up right away.

This isn’t about scripts or techniques. It’s about showing up with genuine presence, creating safety, and knowing when to lean in and when to back off. Doug also shares how simple questions, small moments, and being consistent can rebuild trust and intimacy over time.

They also dive into why so many men feel isolated, how to build real friendships as a husband and father, and the role community plays in helping you stay on track as a leader at home.

If your marriage feels off and you’re not sure what to do next, go watch the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It breaks down exactly what’s missing and shows you how to fix it. No fluff. Just a clear path forward.