Revisit: Stop Chasing, Start Leading: How to Shift Your Marriage Energy

Episode #1034

In this throwback episode, we’re revisiting a core conversation that’s just as relevant now as when it first aired. If you’ve ever felt like you're doing all the right things but your wife still pulls away, this one’s for you.

Doug breaks down what really happens when men fall into the trap of chasing their wife. Whether it’s constant texts, over-checking in, or trying too hard to fix the relationship, that energy often creates more distance instead of connection.

You’ll hear why chasing is a form of needy energy, how it kills polarity, and what to do instead. Doug walks through simple shifts that help men lead from a grounded place instead of needing approval. He also explains the triad of connection and why your wife’s reaction is not the measure of your success.

This revisit is a reminder that your power comes from within. When you stop chasing and start leading, everything changes.