• How The Spiritual Disciplines Strengthen Our Contentment with Shante Grossett O'Neal
    Apr 1 2024

    A conversation about spiritual disciplines (like scripture reading, gratitude, and prayer) that strengthen our contentment with Shante Grossett O'Neal


    THE BENEFITS OF THE SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINES

    Y'alllll, the spiritual disciplines have supported my relationship with Christ in the best ways, and I am grateful for them. They consistently remind us that us our God is a relational God, that He has placed us in relationship with others for our good, and that His Holy Spirit will always lead us into all truth and righteousness.

    We may not learn them in a formal setting, and we may not always share them on social media, but those spiritual disciplines have the power to remind us we are always growing in the Lord when we let Him lead us there.


    MEET SHANTE GROSSETT O'NEAL

    Shanté Grossett O’Neal is the founder of Daily She Pursues. She is passionate about teaching women how to pursue the heart of God by studying his word, spending time in prayer, and committing to a daily walk with the Lord. She is currently working on a Master’s Degree in Biblical Studies at Liberty University and some of her favorite things include tea, journaling, art museums, essential oils, and thrift shopping.


    RESOURCES

    The Twelve-Week Jesus Bible Study

    My Conversation with Shante on the Imprecatory Psalms


    SELAH ON THE YOUVERSION BIBLE APP

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    48 mins
  • The Conflict Between Culture and Contentment with Becky Beresford
    Mar 4 2024

    A conversation about the culture and the pursuit of contentment with Becky Beresford


    THE PURSUIT OF CONTENTMENT

    Welcome back to our miniseries on contentment. When I first found out I was expecting a little one, I had so many emotions they surprised me. I had planned to feel nothing but pure joy and ecstacy. However, I also felt some grief about the things I knew I would have to walk away from for a season. Now, don't get me wrong.

    I was overjoyed. Still, I recognized that every time I engaged with cultural values and got sucked into a vortex on social media, I started feeling as if I was falling behind.

    That couldn't be further from the truth, but if it is, who cares? We have to think critically about the messages we're accepting and adopting from the culture so that we can ensure they don't impede our ability to enjoy contentment.


    MEET BECKY BERESFORD

    Becky Beresford lives in North Carolina and is happily outnumbered by her husband and three wonderful boys. She is an author, speaker, and coach with a Master's Certificate in Spiritual Formation and Discipleship from Moody Theological Seminary. Becky loves encouraging God’s Daughters to embrace Christ-centered empowerment through the truth found in the gospel. She is the host of the inspiring Brave Women Series, where different women share about their journeys toward courage with Jesus. Becky’s first book with Moody Publishers, She Believed HE Could, So She Did, releases in March. Connect with Becky at BeckyBeresford.com where you can sign up to become a part of her Empowered Email Tribe. Or follow her on Instagram.


    RESOURCES

    She Believed He Could, So She Did


    SELAH ON THE YOUVERSION BIBLE APP

    Want to subscribe to Selah on YouVersion? Join the 7 Day devotional here.

    Purchase your copy of Selah: A Study of 1 and 2 Samuel

    Access the Full Show Notes Here

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    51 mins
  • Critical Thought and The Pursuit of Contentment with Lisa V. Fields
    Feb 5 2024

    A conversation about burnout, resentment, and wholeness with Lisa V. Fields, founder of the Jude 3 Project.


    THE PURSUIT OF CONTENTMENT

    Welcome to our miniseries on contentment. Over the next five months, we are going to explore what it means to pursue contentment. We'll talk about how it changes the way we live, love, and lead, and I hope you're here for it.

    Now, before we get started, let's talk about what contentment is not. Contentment is not an excuse for passivity, disobedience, or complacency. It is a fine balance between faith and gratitude. 

    Contentment is not the end of the road, a final destination we somehow get to, but a component that makes the journey easier and more fulfilling. It is the beautiful absence of strife, pride, and competition.

    Contentment recognizes capacity and it yields to calling in whatever form it may come.


    MEET LISA V. FIELDS

    Lisa Fields, one of the world’s most sought-after Christian apologists, combines her passion for biblical literacy with her heart for sharing God’s love with all she meets.

    Since starting the Jude 3 Project, Fields has received several honors, most notably, Christianity Today’s recognition of her work as an apologist in the African American community.

    Lisa is taking us behind the scenes to talk about how the pursuit of contentment showed up in one of the hardest periods of her life. I could not be more grateful for how she has invited us behind the scenes.


    DOCUMENTARIES

    Watch Unspoken

    Watch Faith and Freedom


    SELAH ON THE YOUVERSION BIBLE APP

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    57 mins
  • Episode 100: How Worship Fills Us With Joy and Satisfies Our Souls
    Dec 22 2023

    Can you believe we are at episode 100?! When I first launched The Best Kept Secret, I couldn't see past episode 3, but our God is so kind.

    Thank you for joining me here week after week. In honor of our 100th episode, I'd like you to grab your Bible and listen in as we wrap up this series on worship with a message I shared at Avenue Church this past September.

    If you have your copy of Selah: A Study of 1 and 2 Samuel, you can turn to Session 6 as we prepare to talk about the final session, titled Worship Invites Us to Rejoice.

    AVENUE CHURCH


    Want to get connected to a healthy church in Las Vegas? Check out Avenue Church, led by Pastors Jeremy and Lindsey Bosma. I can't recommend it enough.

    ADDITIONAL RESOURCES


    Want to find out what was going on in King David's life when he wrote the psalms He's known for? Grab your download here. 

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    37 mins
  • When the Wilderness Leads Us to Worship with Faith Eury Cho
    Dec 18 2023

    A conversation about pain, disappointment, and friendship with God with Faith Eury Cho

    WORSHIPING IN THE WILDERNESS

    It wasn't until late in 2022 that one little story in David's narrative stuck out to me. I was going through my own wilderness season, and had been for about a year and a half when I read it.

    When King David was returning to the wilderness in 2 Samuel 15 on his way into exile from his son Absalom who had taken over his kingdom, he paused.

    He paused to let everyone who was traveling with him (over 600 men and their families to pass by him), while Abiathar the priest made sacrifices. Wow.

    Y’all. This is powerful. It shows us that we can keep worshiping, even when we are on the way into a wilderness season, and all of our options feel heavy and impossible to navigate.

    I don’t know whether you are coming out of a wilderness season, feeling like you’re on the way into the wilderness or somewhere in between, but the one thing we learn from David is that the wilderness does not dictate our ability to worship the Lord in everything.

    This week, we continue to reflect on some of the themes in Session Five of Selah: Worship Invites Resilience in the Wilderness.

    TODAY WE'RE REFLECTING ON JAMES 1:5-6 ESV:

    If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.

    A WOMAN YOU SHOULD KNOW

    Today, Ty and I get ready to close out this season by featuring one woman who has impacted both of us. Today, I have the great joy to introduce you to Tona Haywood, a marketing consultant and boutique h. Get connected to her because she is definitely a woman you should know.

    MEET FAITH EURY CHO

    Faith is the CEO and founder of The Honor Summit, a nonprofit organization that equips and activates Asian American women for the mission of God. Alongside her husband, Pastor David Cho, she is also the co-founder and co-pastor of  Mosaic Covenant Church in NJ.

    Faith is a coach and collaborator for Propel Ecclesia, for which she has also been a contributing writer. She is also the author of Experiencing Friendship with God: How the Wilderness Draws Us to His Presence.

    Faith has spoken on mission fields, churches, conferences, and stages such as Thinq Media and Exponential. She regularly appears on TBN’s Better Together. In addition, she has been a guest on The 700 Club and LIFE Today TV. In January 2023, she was mentioned in Outreach Magazine as one of, “20 Rising Leaders.”

    Her most precious role, however, is being a mom to her 4 children— Moriah, Elias, River and Adalynn.

    ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

    Want to find out what was going on in King David's life when he wrote the psalms He's known for? Grab your download here. 

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    48 mins
  • How to Keep Worshiping When Your Children Rebel with Pamela Henkelman
    Dec 11 2023

    A conversation about rebellion, grace, and presence with Pamela Henkelman

    OFFERING PRESENCE

    I am so grateful for those mamas who model how to keep worshiping when your children rebel because they display the heart of our Great God and the love He has for each of us. In fact, my mama has modeled this up close and personally for me.

    One of the most interesting relationships in all of 1 and 2 Samuel is that between King David and his son, Absalom. Once David invites Absalom back into the kingdom, he continues to ignore him, and throughout the Scripture we see Absalom fall deeper and deeper into rebellion the more distant he grows from His father.

    Thank God that we don't have a Heavenly Father who ignores us-even when we rebel. May we all pray for the parents and their children in each of our lives.

    This week, we continue to reflect on some of the themes in Session Five of Selah: Worship Invites Resilience in the Wilderness.


    TODAY WE'RE REFLECTING ON ACTS 10:34-35 KJV:

    Then Peter opened his mouth, and said, Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons: But in every nation he that feareth him, and worketh righteousness, is accepted with him.

    In the NLT, it says, “Then Peter replied, “I see very clearly that God shows no favoritism. In every nation he accepts those who fear him and do what is right.”


    A WOMAN YOU SHOULD KNOW

    Today, Ty and I get ready to close out this season by featuring one woman who has impacted both of us. Today, I have the great joy to introduce you to Heidy de la Cruz, a writer and podcaster. Get connected to her because she is definitely a woman you should know.


    MEET PAMELA

    Pamela Henkelman is a Life Coach for Midlife Moms, speaker, writer, and host of The Midlife Momma Podcast. With her bright smile and enthusiastic personality, she is passionate about encouraging women, particularly the often-forgotten group of moms with adult children.

    Pamela helps these moms navigate their changing roles and build stronger relationships with their grown children.

    As a mom of five grown kids and two grandsons, Pamela has first-hand experience with the challenges and joys of navigating the empty nest phase of life. She and her husband, who is a pastor, are living their best empty-nest life and loving every minute of it. Download Pamela’s freebie Your Kids Are Grown…Now What here.

    ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

    Want to find out what was going on in King David's life when he wrote the psalms He's known for? Grab your download here. 

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    44 mins
  • Worshiping Through Cycles of Grief with Natasha Smith
    Dec 4 2023

    A conversation about grief, acceptance, and healing with Natasha Smith


    YAHWEH

    One thing that King David was familiar with was grief. In fact, many Biblical figures we look up to were. Out of all of the Psalms that were written, over a third of them were written as lament, and today, we can read them to help us gain a deeper perspective of who our God is in the middle of pain.

    Sometimes, it feels like all you can do is breathe when you're in the middle of intense grief. And, even though that can feel shallow or superficial, those of us who have struggled with the desire to live know how important breathing can be.

    In those times, when taking your next breath feels unbearable, remember that the name YAHWEH is made up of aspirated consonants that we breathe in and out every single day. And until you can find the strength to lift your arms again, know that He is with you, and that is enough. 

    This week, we are continuing to reflect on some of the themes in Session Five of Selah: Worship Invites Resilience in the Wilderness.


    TODAY WE'RE REFLECTING ON JOHN 16:33 NLT

    I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.


    A WOMAN YOU SHOULD KNOW

    Today, Ty and I get to close out this season by featuring one woman who has impacted both of us. Today, I have the great joy to introduce you to Brittany Dodson, a worship artist and author. Get connected to her because she is definitely a woman you should know.


    MEET NATASHA

    Natasha Smith is a grief advocate, author, speaker, podcaster, and content creative. She loves God and believes he has the heart for the hurting. She believed God sees, God knows, and God understands every single thing that we go through.

    Natasha she has a heart for the hurting, for the grieving and for those who are experiencing and facing hard times in life as well. She has experienced God's love, sovereignty, power, healing, peace, and love in her life. And Natasha loves sharing God's goodness with others-especially for those who were hurting so that they would know that there is hope in Hope's name is Jesus.

    Natasha Smith has been sharing on faith, family and grief for over 12 years through multiple publications, including her website in a few of those publications include her view from home today, parents. And focus on the family. Natasha's new book, Can You Just Sit With Me: Healthy Grieving for the Losses of Life is available today.


    ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

    Want to find out what was going on in King David's life when he wrote the psalms He's known for? Grab your download here. 

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    46 mins
  • QT Session 17: Warring and Winning or Making Spiritual Warfare Worse?
    Nov 27 2023

    Have you met our cohost for season 6? Ty Scott King is currently being considered for a Grammy and we are praying and celebrating with her! You can find her newest album here.


    TODAY WE'RE REFLECTING ON 2 SAMUEL 5:22-25 CSB

     The Philistines came up again and spread out in Rephaim Valley. 23 So David inquired of the Lord, and he answered, “Do not attack directly, but circle around behind them and come at them opposite the balsam trees. 24 When you hear the sound of marching in the tops of the balsam trees, act decisively, for then the Lord will have gone out ahead of you to strike down the army of the Philistines.” 25 So David did exactly as the Lord commanded him, and he struck down the Philistines all the way from Geba to Gezer.


    THE BIBLE STUDY IS OFFICIALLY OUT!

    Selah: A Study of 1 and 2 Samuel is still available for preorder and it is my prayer that, together, we can fall even more deeply in love with the Scriptures. You can purchase it here on Amazon.

    The study includes: 

    • 6 video sessions (all between 9 and 14 minutes because you have your own questions to pray about and answer),
    • 30 guided prayers (all around 7 minutes to help you dive into prayer),
    • and 6 weeks of live study with me (and any others who have the opportunity to join us) every Tuesday, beginning September 26 at 6:30PM PST/9:30 PM EST.


    ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

    Thinking about launching your own podcast? Want to see if there's a way to continue to host your podcast and do more while spending less? Click here for my 7 Podcasting Essentials!

    Please don't forget to leave a Review on Apple Podcasts or Audible to show some love. 💗 I'm giving away a book to two of you who leave your IG handle.

    Here's the Confident Collaborations Quiz

    My newest devotional is available on the YouVersion Bible app! Will you subscribe to it? I have a feeling it will bless you!

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    33 mins