Today, I'm joined by scientist, nutritionist, and emotional eating and self-sabotage coach Matty Lansdown for a real conversation about health and weight that goes way deeper than food rules. Matty shares why most of us already know what to do, but still feel stuck, and how the real shift happens when you understand the patterns underneath your choices.

We talk about emotional eating, trauma and self-protection, dopamine loops, and the unsexy truth that sustainable change usually comes from building awareness first, then making small tweaks consistently, without triggering rebellion.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why it's "not about calories or kale," it's mindset and behavior change
• Two common roots behind emotional eating: trauma and dopamine-driven self-soothing
• A simple awareness practice: track what you eat, where you eat, and what you feel
• "One tweak a week" and why slow change is often the only change that sticks
• How rebellion gets triggered by rigid plans, and how self-guided empowerment helps
• Why naming the emotion can quiet a craving (Michelle shares her own "potato chips" moment)
• Fermented foods, gut health, and how the microbiome can influence your body's set
• Obesogens, plastics, and common chemicals that may disrupt metabolism and hormones

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Connect with Matty Lansdown:

Visit Matty's website

Matty's Podcast: The Real Weight Loss Coach

Matty on Instagram: @the.real.weight.loss.coach

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Today, I'm joined by Sonia Flores, someone I've known and worked with for years, and after a team meeting where she dropped a phrase that stopped us all in our tracks, I knew we had to bring it to the podcast. The term is "Mantourage Dating," and it's a powerful way to date from self-worth, boundaries, and grounded confidence.

This conversation is about dating, but it's also about so much more. If you're not dating, don't skip this episode. What Sonia shares applies to long-term partnerships, marriages, and every relationship you have, because the real shift happens when you stop making it about them and start making it about you.

In this episode, we explore:

• How "Mantourage Dating" works and why it helps you stay grounded
• Why dating gets easier when you stop chasing outcomes and focus on your own experience
• The mindset shift that changed everything for Sonia
• How to date with clear standards, boundaries, and self-respect
• Why having a list of what you want (places, experiences, energy) keeps you out of people-pleasing
• How self-worth changes what you tolerate, what you attract, and what you choose
• Why this concept applies even if you're already in a committed relationship

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Learn more about Sonia:

Website: https://www.bluechakrastudio.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluechakrastudio

Podcast: https://apple.co/3G50aQC

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Today's episode is a true "sneak attack" mini-session I recorded on the spot because the shift happened so fast, I wanted you to hear it in real time.

At first, I introduced my guest "JoJo" as a code name. Then we reveal the big moment: "JoJo" is actually my mom, Nancy Brindisi, and this is her first-ever time on the podcast!

My mom is in that brave space of considering dating again after years, and the negative self-talk started spiraling. So I walked her through one simple practice that stopped the mental loop within minutes, and the calm that followed was unmistakable.

In this episode, I share:

• Why negative self-talk often spikes when you're stepping into something new, especially dating again
• How I work with "parts" as energetic parts work (working with the energy of the judging, doubting part)
• A practical way to borrow supportive energy when you can't access your Adult Chair in the moment
• How this practice can come through as words, images, or a felt sense, and why your way is the right way

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