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Stowe talks is a podcast series designed to support people going through a relationship breakdown and all the challenges this brings. When a family breaks down, it brings with it a huge range of emotional, practical and legal complications. Going through it is tough, but making some simple changes to how you approach it can help. Asking and seeking support from others is a great first step.And, this is where this podcast series can help, giving you access to expert advice from some of the best professionals around and some legal insight. In each episode, hosts Matthew Taylor and Liza Gatrell, family lawyers at Stowe Family Law, are joined by a special guest to explore the issues a relationship breakdown brings - from dealing with a toxic ex-partner, how to co-parent, the challenges of blended families, handling finances and more. Getting the right advice can help dial down the stress, calm your fears, and help you through the process and on with life from a position of renewed strength. This podcast series is brought to you by the Stowe talks team at Stowe Family Law.© 2023 Stowe talks Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Episode 68: Ask a family lawyer (2) - Live
    Oct 8 2025

    You loved our first live episode, and there were so many questions that needed answering, we’ve done another one! In this live show, Liza is joined by Managing Partner Sebastian Burrows to answer all the family law questions you put to them. From finances, to the family home, to communicating with your ex, Liza and Seb provided guidance and information, using their extensive expertise.

    01:10 How much does a divorce cost?

    02:41 Starting out on the divorce process

    03:40 What is mediation and why is it helpful?

    06:45 What to do if you’re struggling to agree on what happens to the house

    07:48 Ringfencing pre-marital assets and matrimonial vs non-matrimonial assets

    12:05 Law around changing the locks on the family home

    15:25 Adaptations to the property for disabilities

    17:17 The importance of disclosing inheritance in financial proceedings

    20:53 Managing an ex who you believe is hiding assets

    23:45 The concept of percentages in dividing finances

    27:28 How are children 16+ treated in the law?

    30:25 How is debt treated in divorce?

    33:05 Is there an end to spousal maintenance?

    3715: Keeping your financial disclosure up-to-date

    40:50 Spending inheritance during divorce proceedings

    42:36 An explanation of Mesher Orders

    47:00 Managing an uncooperative ex-partner

    49:54 Housing needs for older children with ongoing medical needs

    50:58 Paying your mortgage during divorce

    51:31 Cohabitation disputes and financial disclosure


    View our upcoming events https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/stowe-talks/

    Ask a family lawyer - Live https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MBr19NPLgRs

    Cohabitation and separating as an unmarried couple https://youtu.be/L3HCXKdQz1g?si=21ODuz1ip6ea6EhQ

    What ‘needs’ and ‘sharing’ really mean https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/stowe-support/divorce-finances-explained-what-do-needs-and-sharing-really-mean/

    Clean break v maintenance - what’s right for me https://youtu.be/0sIi22ST4uI

    Avoiding the top divorce mistakes https://open.spotify.com/episode/0miHzVWzorsoj2QH5XOgi6

    How to manage financial hearings in the Family Court https://y

    If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2

    Join our list to get the latest from our lawyers, divorce coaches and relationship experts sent monthly to your inbox. Everything you need, in one

    🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support.

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stowefamilylawuk

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw

    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1

    This podcast is brought to you by the Stowe talks team at Stowe Family Law - https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/

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    54 mins
  • Episode 67: Should there be protection for unmarried couples living together?
    Aug 28 2025

    Matt and Liza discuss the problems around the lack of protection for unmarried couples living together. Cohabitation is the fastest growing family type and with this social change, there have been calls from family lawyers to review the law and help protect the financially vulnerable. But is this just inventing new laws for the sake of it? Can current marriage and divorce laws be adapted to better reflect society?


    00:51 What are the problems with current cohabitation laws?

    01:56 How property ownership works

    04:47 Do unmarried couples have claims other than to property?

    05:30 Why there are calls for cohabitation reform

    07:39 Options for cohabitation reform

    09:38 The importance of education around relationships and marriage

    13:49 Role of prenuptial agreements

    14:15 Social changes and the impact on marriage laws

    16:25 How to educate people

    17:50 Do the current laws reflect society?

    18:45 The role of civil partnerships

    19:25 Cohabitation laws providing a middle ground

    20:29 Are cohabitation laws just renaming marriage?

    21:32 Reforming marriage laws

    22:10 The importance of protection for cohabitees


    Living together before marriage: the legal reality https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/stowe-support/living-together-before-marriage-the-legal-reality/

    Legal Q&A: “My partner and I are buying a house together. How can I protect myself?” https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/stowe-support/legal-qa-my-partner-and-i-are-buying-a-house-together-how-can-i-protect-myself/

    Buying a house as an unmarried couple https://open.spotify.com/episode/6hAGmZJSUsKh8fxEa508xV?si=54025b36c4bd4859

    TOLATA claims https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/family-law/cohabitation-lawyers/tolata-claims/

    What rights do cohabiting couples have? https://open.spotify.com/episode/1rzM1yDZkKeG9mfS6GZ02j?si=1cf8b74a2c5441ca

    If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2

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    If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2

    Join our list to get the latest from our lawyers, divorce coaches and relationship experts sent monthly to your inbox. Everything you need, in one

    🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support.

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stowefamilylawuk

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw

    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1

    This podcast is brought to you by the Stowe talks team at Stowe Family Law - https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/

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    23 mins
  • Episode 66: Will living with a new partner affect my divorce?
    Aug 22 2025

    Moving on after a break-up is rarely easy, but many individuals do go on to have new relationships after divorce or separation. But what happens if you want to move in with a new partner? Buying somewhere together, or either of you moving into an existing property can have knock-on effects. Matt and Liza discuss how having a new partner can impact your divorce, including your finances, child arrangements and ongoing communication with your ex.


    00:54 How does moving in with a new partner impact a financial settlement?

    02:10 When the court will take a new partner into consideration

    02:57 Exceptions to the rule

    03:23 New partners and ongoing maintenance claims with your ex-spouse

    05:09 Does a new partner have to provide financial disclosure?

    07:00 Housing needs and mortgage capacity post-divorce

    08:03 Supporting a new partner’s children

    10:19 Impact on child arrangements of moving in with a new partner

    12:10 What to do if you have safety concerns

    13:23 Your ongoing relationship with your ex spouse

    14:27 Communicating with your ex


    If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2


    Join our email list to get the latest from our lawyers, divorce coaches and relationship experts sent monthly to your inbox. Everything you need, in one place https://mailchi.mp/69a5d247d3ba/stowetalks


    🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe Support https://bit.ly/41heUWN


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    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1

    If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2

    Join our list to get the latest from our lawyers, divorce coaches and relationship experts sent monthly to your inbox. Everything you need, in one

    🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support.

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stowefamilylawuk

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw

    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1

    This podcast is brought to you by the Stowe talks team at Stowe Family Law - https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/

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    17 mins
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