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  • The Staircase (from The Longest Shortest Time)

    The Staircase (from The Longest Shortest Time)
    Apr 8 2026

    This week, we're bringing you an episode from one of our favorite podcasts -- The Longest Shortest Time!

    From TLST: We're back after a 5-year hiatus! Hillary kicks us off with a story about her anxiety over her daughter's first experience with unwanted male attention — and her subsequent misadventures in trying to get the girl's school to teach consent.

    Artwork for this episode by Lindsay Stripling.

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    Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex.

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    SEASON 13 TEAM
    Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her)
    Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them)
    Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her)

    MUSIC
    Intro theme music: Hook Sounds
    Background music: Bright State by Ketsa
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    30 m
  • BEST OF: BDSM

    BEST OF: BDSM
    Apr 1 2026

    Rihanna voice: S S S & M M M! In this Best Of, we're bringing you the Best of BDSM from our archive. If you're curious about getting kinda kinky, this episode might just give you the motivation to start -- and make sure you're being safe and asking the right questions.

    FULL EPISODES FROM THIS BEST OF

    • The Pleasure of Subbing with Lina Dune
    • What Happens Inside a Consensual Master/Slave BDSM Relationship? (Between Us)

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    ABOUT SEASON 13
    Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex.

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    ABOUT THE SHOW
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    SEASON 13 TEAM
    Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her)
    Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them)
    Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her)

    MUSIC
    Intro theme music: Hook Sounds
    Background music: Bright State by Ketsa
    Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!
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    26 m
  • BEST OF: DESIRE

    BEST OF: DESIRE
    Mar 25 2026

    We're rounding out the end of Season 14 with some best of episodes mixing together some of our favorite clips from our archive! This week, we've got the best of DESIRE, from biology to psychology to culture!

    FULL EPISODES FROM THIS BEST OF

    • Desire and Pleasure with Whitni Miller
    • Three Secrets to a Thriving Sex Life with Dr. Emily Nagoski
    • Testosterone, Pleasure, and the Libido Myth with Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt -- and you can find the article from this clip here!

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    ABOUT SEASON 13
    Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex.

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    FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS
    Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand"

    ABOUT THE SHOW
    Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education — delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted.

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    SEASON 13 TEAM
    Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her)
    Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them)
    Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her)

    MUSIC
    Intro theme music: Hook Sounds
    Background music: Bright State by Ketsa
    Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!
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    28 m
  • 13 Lessons for 13 Seasons of Sex Ed with DB

    13 Lessons for 13 Seasons of Sex Ed with DB
    Mar 18 2026

    And so ends Season 13! We'll be back soon with more, but for now, here's 13 lessons DB has learned from going 13 seasons strong! Have any topics you'd like us to cover on Season 14? We're planning right now -- so it's a great time to email and let us know at sexedwithdb@gmail.com!

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    ABOUT SEASON 13
    Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex.

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    Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand"

    ABOUT THE SHOW
    Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education — delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted.

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    SEASON 13 TEAM
    Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her)
    Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them)
    Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her)

    MUSIC
    Intro theme music: Hook Sounds
    Background music: Bright State by Ketsa
    Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!
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    16 m
  • What 1,500 Women Taught Us About Sensuality with Emily Bendell (Bluebella)

    What 1,500 Women Taught Us About Sensuality with Emily Bendell (Bluebella)
    Mar 11 2026
    This week's episode is about an underrated -- and often misreprensented -- asset for pleasure: lingerie! Lingerie can make you feel powerful, beautiful, and sensual, even if you're not with a cishet male partner, or any partner at all! In this episode, DB speaks with Emily Bendell, founder of Bluebella, one of the greatest lingerie brands DB's found yet! GUEST DETAILSBluebella was born from a simple idea to create luxurious and sensual lingerie for self-assured women. Founded on the belief that strength and sensuality belong in the everyday, Bluebella understands that beautiful lingerie sets a powerful tone for whatever comes next. Bluebella is a multi-award winning brand that has paved the way for accessible luxury in the lingerie industry. Graduating from the University of Oxford, Bluebella's founder Emily Bendell had a stint in legal journalism before turning her love for lingerie into a business. Seeking to create a new language around contemporary lingerie, Emily launched Bluebella with a mission to re-write what it means to be sensual for the modern woman. "Our vision is to re-imagine sensual lingerie as something owned for ourselves. To us, lingerie is a personal self-expression of individual style and spirit. I wanted to create a brand and product that was considered, confident, and true to our experience of wearing lingerie." FROM THIS EPISODE Modern Sensuality Community Campaign: https://www.bluebella.us/pages/community-campaign-resultsDB's fav Bluebella lingerie (it's not what you think!): https://www.bluebella.us/products/noor-sheer-mesh-top-black + https://www.bluebella.us/products/latex-soft-bodysuit-black TAKE OUR SMUT QUIZFind your page-turning turn-on with our new SMUT QUIZ! In just 5 questions, you'll get right to the good stuff with curated pages, poems, and audios. No slow burn. No fluff. Just pleasure. Take the quiz here: https://sexedwithdb.fillout.com/smutquiz ABOUT SEASON 13 Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH USInstagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbThreads: @sexedwithdbpodcast X: @sexedwithdbYouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 13 SPONSORS Uberlube, Magic Wand, LELO, and Happy V. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories! FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education — delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 13 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them) Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!
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    42 m
  • Prostate orgasms vs penile orgasms: what's the difference?

    Prostate orgasms vs penile orgasms: what's the difference?
    Mar 4 2026

    Last week, we talked to Luna Matatas about seducing the butt -- but today, we'll go even deeper (wink wink) on the prostate! What is a prostate orgasm? How do you have one and/or give your partner(s) one? How is it different from a penile orgasm? Let's explore this fun part of the body and find even more pleasure!

    RECOMMENDED LISTENING

    • Season 13, Episode 17: "Seducing the Booty: Tips for Pleasurable Anal Play with Luna Matatas"
    • Season 13, Episode 14: "What happens in the brain during an orgasm?"
    • Season 12, Episode 5: "20 Types of Orgasms with Goody Howard"

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    ABOUT SEASON 13
    Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex.

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    ABOUT THE SHOW
    Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education — delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted.

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    SEASON 13 TEAM
    Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her)
    Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them)
    Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her)

    MUSIC
    Intro theme music: Hook Sounds
    Background music: Bright State by Ketsa
    Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!
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    15 m
  • Seducing the Booty: Tips for Pleasurable Anal Play with Luna Matatas

    Seducing the Booty: Tips for Pleasurable Anal Play with Luna Matatas
    Feb 25 2026
    This week's episode is all about BUTT STUFF! From penetration to rimming to spanking, there can be so much pleasure found in the butt -- yes, even if you're a straight man, and yes, even if you're a cis woman! DB interviews Luna Matatas, THE expert on all things booty, about how to get the most pleasure out of your (or a consenting partner's) butt! GUEST DETAILSLuna Matatas is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 20 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. Luna has taught sexual wellness workshops internationally and locally with diverse communities. She celebrates body confidence, sexual self-esteem and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. Luna teaches 30+ sexy skills topics; including threesomes, BDSM, and dirty talk. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise. LUNA'S SEDUCING THE BUTT BUNDLE & MERCHFind Luna's workshop bundle on her website here! Find her stickers and merch on her website here! SEX TOY TEAM UBERLUBE FOREVER!Snug Plugs from B-VibeFun Factory dildosUnicorn Collaborators harnesses TAKE OUR SMUT QUIZFind your page-turning turn-on with our new SMUT QUIZ! In just 5 questions, you'll get right to the good stuff with curated pages, poems, and audios. No slow burn. No fluff. Just pleasure. Take the quiz here: https://sexedwithdb.fillout.com/smutquiz ABOUT SEASON 13 Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH USInstagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbThreads: @sexedwithdbpodcast X: @sexedwithdbYouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 13 SPONSORS Uberlube, Magic Wand, LELO, and Happy V. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories! FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education — delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 13 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them) Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!
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    48 m
  • Why do some early experiences turn into lifelong fetishes?

    Why do some early experiences turn into lifelong fetishes?
    Feb 18 2026

    Ever look back on a childhood memory and realize it maybe awakened something in you that you're just now finding... very, very interesting? One of our incredible (and very brave, we LOVE you for this) listeners sent in a question about being in this predicament. Do childhood experiences impact our sexual interests, kinks, and/or fetishes? Why? What's going on psychologically? And does anyone have some ground beef? Asking for... reasons.

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    Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex.

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    SEASON 13 TEAM
    Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her)
    Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them)
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    MUSIC
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    13 m