Have you ever wondered how living a double life is even possible?

In today’s episode, we’re diving into a topic that comes up all the time in our coaching, course sessions, and personal conversations—compartmentalization. This concept, when misunderstood, creates so much confusion and disconnection in relationships. For many betrayed spouses, understanding it begins to bring clarity to the chaos. For many husbands, it’s a lightbulb moment—finally seeing how addiction was hidden, justified, and separated from the rest of life.

We unpack what compartmentalization looked like in our own story—how I (Clint) could act out and still try to show up as a “present” spouse, while Charity was left wondering, “Was any of our past connection even real?” We also share the metaphor that helped us finally make sense of it all—why it was so damaging, and how true healing began when I stopped living in separate “drawers” and started integrating every part of my life under God’s design for authenticity and intimacy.

If you’ve ever felt confused, disconnected, or wondered how someone could live a double life, we pray this conversation brings clarity and encouragement. There’s hope on the other side of compartmentalization—and freedom in being fully known and fully loved.

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"Have you ever wondered how your healing journey might be affecting your kids?"

In this raw and hope-filled episode, we open up about something deeply personal: how our past addiction and betrayal affected our son in ways we didn’t fully understand until years later. From missed bonding moments to outbursts, shutdowns, and total dysregulation—what we thought were just "strong-willed" behaviors were actually cries for safety. But here’s the good news: Jesus is in the business of redemption. And the healing we've experienced has radically changed the way we parent and connect with our kids. We pray this story brings you hope and helps you make sense of your own journey.

We’re also giving a little peek behind the scenes—sharing about our family’s move back to California and some exciting ministry updates! Our couples course is being professionally filmed, our new his-and-her workbooks are on the way, and we’re launching a leadership network that could reach couples across the globe. Through it all, we’re reminded that when we create safety in our homes, we reflect the heart of the Father—a God who never gives up on us. “There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (Romans 8:1). Not for you. Not for your kids. Not for your story.

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In this deeply personal episode, Clint and Charity open up about one of the most challenging questions in recovery: “Am I a sex addict?” Clint shares his powerful journey from denial and shame to surrender and freedom—unpacking how addiction isn’t just about behavior but identity, and how Jesus transforms both. Together, they explore the stigma around addiction, why labels can be helpful or harmful, and how true restoration comes through Christ.

They also give exciting ministry updates on their upcoming video course, a recent partnership with a church, and how you can be part of spreading healing to couples across the world.

Whether you’re walking your own recovery journey or walking with someone who is, this episode is a reminder that you are not alone—and you are not your struggle.

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What do you say to your second grader when they ask for a phone?

How do you set boundaries without shaming other families—or losing connection with your own?

And if you’ve already said “yes” to tech decisions you now regret, is it too late to turn back?

In Part 2 of our conversation with Sarah Siegand, co-founder of Parents Who Fight, we pick up where we left off—diving deeper into the practical, spiritual, and relational challenges of raising kids in a hyper-digital world.

Sarah brings wisdom, grace, and real-life tools for navigating these questions with clarity and courage. From detoxing as parents ourselves, to getting friends and grandparents on the same page, this episode is full of hopeful, honest insight for families who want to lead well—and churches ready to be part of the solution.

If you’ve ever felt alone, overwhelmed, or behind in the battle for your child’s heart and mind, this episode is your reminder: you’re not too late, and you’re not alone.

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Is protecting our kids from online dangers actually possible—or are we already too late?
What if the solution is simpler, and more powerful, than we think?

In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with Sarah Siegand, co-founder of Parents Who Fight, to talk about the urgent need for families and churches to fight to protect our kids in a hyper-digital world. Sarah shares her personal journey of discovering how early and easily children are exposed to pornography and how that launched a mission to help parents build safe, spiritually grounded homes.

With over a decade of experience, Sarah unpacks the spiritual and neurological consequences of unchecked screen time, video games, and smart devices—and what that means for the next generation of Jesus followers. We dive deep into practical ways parents can set boundaries, partner with churches, and find like-minded families to stand in the gap together. Plus, she challenges church leaders to step into their God-given authority and take a bold stand in raising spiritual champions.

This is a must-listen for parents, pastors, and anyone passionate about protecting the hearts and minds of the next generation.

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In this episode, we’re talking with Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed and a passionate voice for healthy, faith-filled conversations around sexuality. Kristen shares her journey into sexual health education and why she believes parents are the best people to teach their kids about sex and relationships.

We dive into the fears many of us face when it comes to these conversations, how to move past the awkwardness, and why it’s never just about one big talk. Kristen breaks down practical ways to create a safe space for our kids to ask questions and discover God’s design for beauty, identity, and connection. If you’ve ever wondered how to start or keep these conversations going at home, this episode is for you.

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Have you struggled to find safe people to confide in? Has it been challenging to share your personal story of brokenness with friends and family? Have you lost a friendship due to your honesty and authenticity?

If so, you’re not alone. In this episode, Charity and Clint invite you into their journey of recovery, sharing how they navigated (poorly at times) their relationships with family and friends along the way.

As they recount their own experiences, Charity and Clint explore the challenges of maintaining authentic connections amidst feelings of isolation and loneliness. What makes a friendship feel safe and supportive? How do we communicate our expectations to those we care about?

Amid their heartfelt discussion, they also lighten the mood with stories about the chaos that comes from juggling their family's sports schedules. Join them for this insightful conversation that offers hope, encouragement, and a few laughs as they reflect on the importance of community during recovery. Discover how, by sharing both the struggles and victories, we can slowly rebuild the meaningful connections that enrich our lives.

Resources:

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"I thought I was protecting you by staying silent. In reality, I was protecting your sin and preventing myself from healing."

In this powerful and personal episode, Clint and Charity open up about the hidden pain that secrecy created early in their marriage, and the life-changing difference a safe community made in their recovery journey. They tackle the tough question: "Is sharing my husband's struggle with others husband-bashing?" and reveal the vital role of healthy support, vulnerability, and stewardship in the healing process.

Whether you're carrying silent pain or wondering how to wisely seek help, this conversation offers hope, practical wisdom, and a reminder that healing happens in community.

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