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That Hoarder: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding

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  • Hoarding disorder is stigmatised and people who hoard feel vast amounts of shame. This podcast began life as an audio diary, an anonymous outlet for somebody with this weird condition. That Hoarder speaks about her experiences living with compulsive hoarding, she interviews therapists, academics, researchers, children of hoarders, professional organisers and influencers, and she shares insight and tips for others with the problem. Listened to by people who hoard as well as those who love them and those who work with them, Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder aims to shatter the stigma, share the truth and speak openly and honestly to improve lives.
    © 2023 Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with @ThatHoarder
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  • Understanding stigma and hoarding using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and compassion, with Dr Jennifer Krafft
    Jun 21 2024

    Come to a Dehoarding Accountability Zoom Session: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ticket

    Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe

    Podcast show notes, links and transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/

    Dr. Jennifer Krafft, director of the Mindfulness and Acceptance Lab at Mississippi State University and her expertise in hoarding disorder, OCD, anxiety, and mindfulness and acceptance processes for treatment brings a fresh perspective to the prevalent issues surrounding hoarding. We’re talking particularly about stigma and hoarding disorder, the impact of cultural and societal attitudes, and the potential for self-help interventions to reduce stigma. We look at the roles of psychological flexibility, self-compassion, and the need for societal change in addressing hoarding stigma.

    • Stigma and Misconceptions Surrounding Hoarding Disorder
    • Lack of public awareness and understanding
    • Sensationalism in reality TV shows and its impact on stigmatisation
    • Impact of hoarding stigma on seeking help and social lives
    • Mindfulness and Acceptance in Managing Hoarding Disorder
    • Dr. Jennifer Krafft's personal experiences and curiosity leading to interest in hoarding disorder
    • Lack of effective treatments and trained providers for hoarding disorder
    • Study on self-help interventions reducing stigmatisation for people with hoarding disorder
    • Combating perfectionism through flexibility and managing cognitive reactions
    • Seeking Help and Self-Stigma
    • Dr. Jennifer Krafft's study on individuals' preferences for seeking help for mental health problems
    • Public stigma and self-stigma, leading to shame, embarrassment, and hiding behaviour
    • Psychological inflexibility linked to stigma and rigid behaviour patterns
    • Acceptance and commitment therapy promoting psychological flexibility
    • Addressing Stigma and Shame
    • Impact of intersecting stigmas on individuals, such as hoarding and racism
    • Addressing self-criticism, shame, and seeking support
    • Mindfulness exercises and self-compassion in managing stigma and shame
    • Cultural and Identity Perspectives in Hoarding Disorder
    • Lack of research on culture, identity, and hoarding, particularly in diverse populations
    • Additional challenges faced by individuals with multiple forms of discrimination
    • Acknowledging the impact of intersecting stigmas on individuals
    • Evolutionary Perspective of Hoarding Behaviour
    • Dr. Jennifer Krafft discussing hoarding behaviour in the context of human evolution
    • Mismatch between human adaptation and the current society's abundance of material possessions
    • Promoting Awareness and Education
    • Dr. Jennifer Krafft's advocacy for societal change in addressing hoarding stigma
    • Necessity for professional education and awareness about hoarding disorder
    • Lack of research on culture, identity, and hoarding, particularly in diverse populations
    • Each of these topics delves into the complexities and implications of hoarding disorder, shedding light on the need for compassion, understanding, and effective interventions.
    • Reality TV impacts public perception of hoarding.
    • Insufficient research on hoarding and identity discrimination.
    • Negative thoughts and emotions control behaviour; impacts stigma.
    • Identifying and challenging perfectionism in daily life.
    • Seeking support, not meant to be isolated.
    • Consider the adaptive nature of hoarding behaviour.
    • Dehoarding Zoom sessions help with self-judgment.
    • Acceptance and commitment therapy promotes psychological flexibility to navigate stigma effectively.
    • Insufficient research on hoarding and identity, leading to potential discrimination.
    • Psychological inflexibility leads to stigma. Acceptance and commitment therapy can help.
    • Researcher discusses unexpected study findings, biases
    • Intrinsic motivation in decluttering.
    • Seek support from others, fight hoarding stigma.
    • Evolutionary perspective on hoarding behaviour and the potential benefits of hoarding in certain contexts
    • Zoom accountability sessions for decluttering, self-judgment comparison.
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  • Breaking through analysis paralysis: 13 tools and techniques for making progress when you have hoarding disorder
    Jun 14 2024

    Come to a Dehoarding Accountability Zoom Session: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ticket

    Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe

    Podcast show notes, links and transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/

    Today, I focus on the dreaded "analysis paralysis" and how it affects individuals with hoarding disorder. I discuss practical strategies for making decisions easier and breaking through the overwhelming feeling of being stuck in the decision-making process. From setting time limits to reframing fear, I will talk you through the steps to overcoming paralysis and perfectionism.

    • Analysis Paralysis and Hoarding Disorder
    • Definition of analysis paralysis
    • Overwhelmed by options and freezing due to overanalysing
    • Negative impact of perfectionism and fear of uncertainty on decision-making
    • Feeling overwhelmed by choices
    • Getting stuck in overanalysing
    • Impact of perfectionism on decision-making
    • Fear of uncertainty hindering progress
    • Strategies to Overcome Analysis Paralysis
    • Using systems or rules to make decisions easier
    • Setting time limits to create focus and reduce overwhelm
    • Practicing with small decisions to build confidence
    • Grounding oneself in the present and breaking tasks into smaller chunks
    • Having a decision-making framework or process to aid in breaking through analysis paralysis
    • Techniques such as pros and cons lists, cost benefit analysis, and setting rules to make decisions easier
    • Importance of setting criteria to aid decision-making
    • Making use of time limits to create focus
    • Building confidence through practicing with small decisions
    • Breaking tasks into smaller, more manageable chunks
    • Prioritising Progress Over Perfection
    • Encouragement to start small, even if something seems impossible or too difficult
    • Strategic questions, setting a timer, joining an accountability group, and focusing on the present moment to overcome paralysis and perfectionism
    • Emphasising the importance of progress over perfection
    • Starting with small, achievable goals
    • Using strategic questions and setting timers for focus
    • Utilising support systems like accountability groups
    • The emphasis on progress over perfection
    • Overcoming analysis paralysis through implementing systems.
    • Overcome perfectionism and fear by taking action.
    • Refocus on positive possibilities to overcome fear.
    • Focus on 20-minute tasks to avoid overwhelm.
    • Start with small decisions to build confidence.
    • Focus on the present, break tasks down.
    • Focusing on first step, making decisions easier.
    • Simplify decision-making process to ease overthinking.
    • Overcome perfectionism and fear of uncertainty by taking action and learning as you go.
    • Changing mindset from fear to possibility, reframing challenges and gaining perspective.
    • Focusing on 20-minute tasks helps with overwhelm and promotes action.
    • Start small, build confidence to overcome hoarding.
    • Focus on the present, break tasks into smaller chunks.
    • Start with first step, use decision making framework to break through analysis paralysis.
    • Tips for overcoming paralysis and overthinking: use pros and cons lists, cost benefit analysis, and practice to build confidence.
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  • Letting go of coping mechanisms that no longer serve us
    Jun 7 2024

    Come to a Dehoarding Accountability Zoom Session: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ticket

    Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribe

    Podcast show notes, links and transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/

    I have a bit of an emotional moment in this one! In this episode, I talk about how we can spot those things that may have been useful at one point but are limiting us now. And look at how we can start to even entertain the idea of moving away from them without getting overwhelmed by the things that we're running away from in the first place.

    • Identifying coping mechanisms that have become detrimental
    • How once-helpful behaviours or thoughts can now cause stress, annoyance, or interfere with work and relationships
    • Acknowledging the negative impact of these coping mechanisms
    • Letting Go of Detrimental Coping Mechanisms
    • Symbolism of finding freedom after letting go of detrimental habits
    • Thanking coping mechanisms for past usefulness while acknowledging their current negative impact
    • The process of letting go described as taking small steps
    • Emphasising gradual change rather than extreme transformation
    • My experience of letting go of self-harm as a coping mechanism
    • Therapist's advice to apply the same principle to hoarding
    • Reflecting on past coping mechanisms and their evolution
    • Reassessing the need for detailed to-do lists as a coping mechanism for insecurity and fear
    • Overcoming Adversity and Achieving Small Victories
    • The power of achieving small victories
    • Using every bit of progress to fuel the next step, even if it feels impossible
    • Identifying the benefits derived from hoarding and finding alternative positive coping mechanisms
    • Adopting Positive Behaviours and Embracing Change
    • Importance of trial and error and gradual change in adopting positive behaviours
    • Encouraging curiosity and open-mindedness
    • Acknowledging that change doesn't have to happen all at once
    • Our lives can be better without the distress-causing coping mechanisms
    • Support and Community
    • Invitation to hoarders for an event for support and discussion
    • Acknowledging past coping mechanisms, embracing self-acceptance.
    • Struggling with past coping mechanisms; learning to let go.
    • Identify harmful coping mechanisms to improve well-being.
    • Understanding underlying emotional needs.
    • Reflect on coping mechanisms, assess their effectiveness.
    • Identify and let go of problematic coping mechanisms, consider letting go of hoarding behaviours.
    • Reflect on positive moments, gently acknowledge the problems.
    • Find positive coping mechanisms, assess their effectiveness, and make gradual changes.
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Enjoying your podcast very much.

It is better to do this together. My biggest issue is giving away things that has something to do with my kids. My thinking: ‘I think maybe my sister could use this with her kids if she will ever have any down the road…oh I love this my son played so much with this!’ Or ‘ I could sell this.. this was so expensive!!’….just sad!.. I need you… Thank you!

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Could not do this alone

My partner of 5 years left me, partly because of my hoarding and partly for other ptsd and ocd related difficulties. I fell into a pit of despair and shame and felt so alone. It catalyzed my taking in the hoard. It’s been deeply disheartening, alienating, and just so heavy. I found this podcast and for the first time in my struggle I feel so seen ❤️‍🩹 she has such a deep self awareness and brought to my art the weight of the emotional and psychological aspects of hoarding. I’ve made so much progress and when I get stuck or my roommate launches me into a downward spiral of negative self talk by refusing to see the progress I go to this podcast.

I’m almost at the point of self acceptance that I’m considering speaking out about it on social media and extending my hand to anyone else in my community who fights this secret battle. It’s been so hard to feel like I can’t talk to anyone about it or ask for help and if I ever get through this I want so badly to help others as this woman has helped me.

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Informative, compassionate, and proactive.

This is such a fantastic podcast. I appreciate the compassion, humor, reflection, the topics and proactive outlook. The presentation is so well organized and so helpful. It's just so refreshing to hear representation by someone who experiences the disorder rather than being the passive subject of others scrutiny and analysis. This podcast is exactly the kind of dialogue that is needed to destigmatize hoarding disorder.

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