We love softness, safety, and sanity — but this episode gave everything but.

From interracial dating awkwardness and the mystery of Taylor Swift’s grip on white women, to being BLOCKED over a last-minute favor, this week we tapped into the r/BlackLadies subreddit to unpack the subtle (and not so subtle) moments where we realize: maybe we’re not on the same page.

We’ve also got an extremely toxic confession, OBK Book Club mentions, and Mrs. Sawyer returns with School Snacks.

Need advice? Leave us a message: https://www.onlyblackkids.com

00:00 Homeroom

09:42 ATBK intro

10:07 Mrs. Sawyer will Cut You With a Smile

11:53 ATBK- My Man Feels Like an Overdue Bill

18:10 What is it about Taylor Swift that white women love so much???

25:39 Battle of the White Girls

28:23 My white boyfriend watched Sinners for the first time

36:25 Robert's Theories on Commercials

40:28 The concept of sharing a bed with someone forever..

48:33 My friend of 9 years blocked me because I didn’t do her a last minute favor

55:40 OBK Book Club

59:40 School Snacks

01:07:26 Ms_ParkerForReal- My Last 9 Years

01:13:47 Toxic Confessions- She Wore a Diaper to the Chris Brown Concert

01:15:31 Toxic Confessions- She begs on TikTok and Lies about Me

01:16:23 Toxic Confessions- I Left My Job and Fiancé for willing women in Thailand

01:17:32 Toxic Confessions- I Wanted to Show Him I could be the Better Woman

01:18:49 Toxic Confessions- Get in Line before I Become Your Step-Daddy

01:20:27 Toxic Confessions- I Had my Palm Read in New Orleans

This might be the wildest first date story ever.

An 18-year-old goes on her first real date... and her date shows up with four other guys… including a surprise “buddy” from college he used to be intimate with 😳

What starts as an innocent Cheesecake Factory meet-up turns into the kind of story that makes you question your entire dating life.

We’re reacting to every twist, every red flag, and every “SHENAN” in this chaotic ride.

Marriage is beautiful… until you forget the anniversary, your wife goes on vacation without you, and your husband makes a mess you have to clean. This week, we’re diving deep into marital chaos, and whew—some of y’all got us wondering if y’all ever read the vows.

In this episode:

• A husband forgets the anniversary—but somehow still gets a smile??

• “Bro Code” gets obliterated in favor of full transparency with the wife

• A trivia night truth bomb sparks insecurity

• A woman reclaims her peace by flying solo

• Cold water, naked husbands, and more wild toxic confessions

Plus:

🖤 Two Ask the Black Kids stories—one a warning, one a hopeful twist

🎧 More Sawyer Lore—how Mrs. and Mr. Sawyer became “us”

🔥 Toxic Confessions you didn’t ask for, but definitely need to hear

Hit play, Classmates. This one’s for everyone who’s ever asked, “Is this what marriage is supposed to feel like?”

Need advice? Leave us a message: https://www.onlyblackkids.com

00:00 Homeroom

3:21 ATBK- Are We Even Speaking the Same Language

09:06 ATBK- My Husband Forgot Our Anniversary & Made me Smile Anyway

11:47 AITA for telling my friend I share everything with my wife and I don't believe in bro code?

21:23 Am I the asshole for going on vacation without my husband

34:18 AITA for saying my wife wasn’t my dream girl in a trivia game

37:22 Pickleball Tea

41:04 AITA for throwing a cup of cold water on my naked husband?

56:40 Announcements

01:00:24 Mrs. Sawyer the Bully

01:03:48 More The Sawyers Lore

01:24:11 Ms_ParkerForReal- My Parents Gave me 28k for a House, My Boyfriend spent it on his baby mamas

01:28:31 Toxic Confessions- As Her Husband I'm Entitled to that Money

01:30:19 Toxic Confessions- My Fiancé Didn't Feed My Daughter so she could Get Drunk

01:31:35 Toxic Confessions- I'll Do Anything in Bed except...

01:33:07 Toxic Confessions- We Were At The Most Ghetto Hospital in Nevada

01:34:46 Toxic Confessions- She's Putting Us in Debt with her Reckless Spending