We love softness, safety, and sanity — but this episode gave everything but.

From interracial dating awkwardness and the mystery of Taylor Swift’s grip on white women, to being BLOCKED over a last-minute favor, this week we tapped into the r/BlackLadies subreddit to unpack the subtle (and not so subtle) moments where we realize: maybe we’re not on the same page.

We’ve also got an extremely toxic confession, OBK Book Club mentions, and Mrs. Sawyer returns with School Snacks.

Need advice? Leave us a message: https://www.onlyblackkids.com

00:00 Homeroom

09:42 ATBK intro

10:07 Mrs. Sawyer will Cut You With a Smile

11:53 ATBK- My Man Feels Like an Overdue Bill

18:10 What is it about Taylor Swift that white women love so much???

25:39 Battle of the White Girls

28:23 My white boyfriend watched Sinners for the first time

36:25 Robert's Theories on Commercials

40:28 The concept of sharing a bed with someone forever..

48:33 My friend of 9 years blocked me because I didn’t do her a last minute favor

55:40 OBK Book Club

59:40 School Snacks

01:07:26 Ms_ParkerForReal- My Last 9 Years

01:13:47 Toxic Confessions- She Wore a Diaper to the Chris Brown Concert

01:15:31 Toxic Confessions- She begs on TikTok and Lies about Me

01:16:23 Toxic Confessions- I Left My Job and Fiancé for willing women in Thailand

01:17:32 Toxic Confessions- I Wanted to Show Him I could be the Better Woman

01:18:49 Toxic Confessions- Get in Line before I Become Your Step-Daddy

01:20:27 Toxic Confessions- I Had my Palm Read in New Orleans

This might be the wildest first date story ever.

An 18-year-old goes on her first real date... and her date shows up with four other guys… including a surprise “buddy” from college he used to be intimate with 😳

What starts as an innocent Cheesecake Factory meet-up turns into the kind of story that makes you question your entire dating life.

We’re reacting to every twist, every red flag, and every “SHENAN” in this chaotic ride.

Marriage is beautiful… until you forget the anniversary, your wife goes on vacation without you, and your husband makes a mess you have to clean. This week, we’re diving deep into marital chaos, and whew—some of y’all got us wondering if y’all ever read the vows.

In this episode:

• A husband forgets the anniversary—but somehow still gets a smile??

• “Bro Code” gets obliterated in favor of full transparency with the wife

• A trivia night truth bomb sparks insecurity

• A woman reclaims her peace by flying solo

• Cold water, naked husbands, and more wild toxic confessions

Plus:

🖤 Two Ask the Black Kids stories—one a warning, one a hopeful twist

🎧 More Sawyer Lore—how Mrs. and Mr. Sawyer became “us”

🔥 Toxic Confessions you didn’t ask for, but definitely need to hear

Hit play, Classmates. This one’s for everyone who’s ever asked, “Is this what marriage is supposed to feel like?”

Need advice? Leave us a message: https://www.onlyblackkids.com

00:00 Homeroom

3:21 ATBK- Are We Even Speaking the Same Language

09:06 ATBK- My Husband Forgot Our Anniversary & Made me Smile Anyway

11:47 AITA for telling my friend I share everything with my wife and I don't believe in bro code?

21:23 Am I the asshole for going on vacation without my husband

34:18 AITA for saying my wife wasn’t my dream girl in a trivia game

37:22 Pickleball Tea

41:04 AITA for throwing a cup of cold water on my naked husband?

56:40 Announcements

01:00:24 Mrs. Sawyer the Bully

01:03:48 More The Sawyers Lore

01:24:11 Ms_ParkerForReal- My Parents Gave me 28k for a House, My Boyfriend spent it on his baby mamas

01:28:31 Toxic Confessions- As Her Husband I'm Entitled to that Money

01:30:19 Toxic Confessions- My Fiancé Didn't Feed My Daughter so she could Get Drunk

01:31:35 Toxic Confessions- I'll Do Anything in Bed except...

01:33:07 Toxic Confessions- We Were At The Most Ghetto Hospital in Nevada

01:34:46 Toxic Confessions- She's Putting Us in Debt with her Reckless Spending

This week on OBK Reacts we dive into the viral story of Kayla the Mystery Shopper — the woman who claimed her review got a restaurant manager fired. But here’s the twist: the restaurant says no one was fired, they don’t even use mystery shoppers… and Kayla’s video is full of jump cuts.

With a history of fraud arrests and a brand-new course to sell, is Kayla exposing bad service or just stirring up controversy to go viral? We break it all down and want to hear what the Classmates think.

Buckle up, Classmates — this week’s inbox is wild. From a woman caught in a web of kids, lies, and military relocations… to a listener surviving a decade-long situationship that ended with threats and a gun… to family dinners where the “casual” racism is off the charts.

We’re answering YOUR dilemmas about love, boundaries, survival, and self-respect in this all‑new Ask the Black Kids episode. Plus, Mrs. Sawyer debuts our new segment SCHOOL SNACKS, where we try nostalgic lunchroom treats while giving life‑saving advice.

Whether you’re questioning your relationship, your family, or your sanity, this one’s for you.

Press play and join the chaos.

Need advice? Leave us a message:

https://www.onlyblackkids.com

00:00 Homeroom

06:42 Does he really love me or are we only together for convenience?

20:18 ATBK- I KNOW BETTER

23:49 AITA for telling my friends I genuinely have no type physically but personality is what locks me

29:07 What the Classmates talkin' bout

34:46 Music!!!

36:21 I am a mixed raced women, who is in a romantic relationship with a white man.

43:53 The Gym Bully

46:43 I was dealing with this man for 11 years same time as his other woman.

51:09 What should I do to get out of this situation?

56:36 SCHOOL SNACKS

01:02:29 Toxic Confessions- My Husband Brought Me to a Bug Catching Party

01:08:51 Toxic Work Confession

01:09:24 Toxic Confession #1- A Single Piece of Popcorn

01:10:51 Toxic Confession #2- Sugar Water

01:13:25 Toxic Confession #3- Wet Paper Towel

01:15:26 Toxic Confession #4- Hair Collection

01:18:33 Episode 100

01:19:14 One time for the Mrs.

This week’s OBK Reacts is comedy gold with first dates gone horribly wrong:

• A prankster threatening to rob a man who sent his address too fast • A “robbery haul” straight from a date’s house 😳 • A bathroom disaster that killed the vibe 🚽 • A Jezbel Spirit who was late to a date at church!The comments roasted her, and so did we. Sit back, because this one is a ride.

The inbox was unhinged… again.In this all-Ask-the-Black-Kids episode, we unpack the most shocking, layered, and emotionally loaded submissions yet.From the woman whose husband ran a seven-year cheating saga like it was a Netflix franchise — to the classmate stuck between loyalty and disgust in a friendship that refuses to evolve — to that aunt who is out here aura-farming under the guise of “concern”…Dating. Boundaries. Pregnancy. Relocation. Rage. Unlearning.It’s giving: Therapy meets Group Chat meets Family Reunion after the liquor hits.There’s even an update from the classmate who asked if she should leave her husband because she's too happy.Tap in. It’s a ride.

Need advice? Leave us a message: https://www.onlyblackkids.com

00:00 Homeroom

03:33 Is it GAD, ADHD, Attachment, or is this a sign to end it? UPDATE

05:37 Wanted to Share My Story

12:45 If You Can Pronounce It You Can Say It (has audio)

23:33 Life, Love, and a Lot of Drama- Looking for Your Take!

35:51 Response to last week’s episode 08/13/25

41:45 Am I the asshole for defending my partner from my aunt?

45:31 Mrs. Sawyer's Hater

48:56 Episode 100 is Coming

51:19 Y’alls marriage SAVED Me

56:09 CDL Only Black Kids dot com

01:04:40 OBK Appreciation

01:09:46 What’s the deal OBK?

01:14:13 Relationship Future Advice

01:19:16 Am I the A Hole

This week on OBK Reacts, we dive into one of the weirder stories we’ve ever heard: It's a breakup that involves stolen pets & family betrayal.From “she stole his dog” to “she cheated with his step-father,” this story has the internet in shock… and we’ve got plenty to say about it. Buckle up because this one is messy and unbelievable all at once.