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  • Gen Z Could Never & Are You The 'Change' Or Acceptance Partner

    Gen Z Could Never & Are You The 'Change' Or Acceptance Partner
    Jul 29 2025

    Hey Lifers!
    There’s brain fog and general chaos today.
    We’re so excited for Tanya Hennessy with her pregnancy news. You can listen to our previous episode with her here.

    If you’re in the dating world, are you video calling your potential dates first? If you are, is it to see whether you have a bit of chemistry/compatibility or is it to check they’re ‘real’ and not a bot?

    We’d love your horror dating stories in our DMs.

    Gen Z would literally probably die if they were forced to go clubbing in 2010. We shared some of our nostalgic memories of our club era and we wouldn’t take our jacket piles and grinding men back for anything!

    Original video from @Marysantoracomedy

    What nostalgic memories do you have from your 2010 club era?

    Is There an “Effort Mismatch” in Your Relationship?

    Are you the ‘change’ partner or the ‘acceptance’ partner?

    We unpack the work of Dr Alexandra Solomon around “Effort Mismatch”. Usually this is caused by one partner being the ‘change’ partner and the other being the ‘acceptance’ partner.

    We break down what the qualities and behaviours of each of the partners are and chat about which we think we identify with.
    Original video from @baya_voce

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    54 m
  • Ask Uncut - Finishing Me Off, Hair Fantasies and Sharing Subscriptions

    Ask Uncut - Finishing Me Off, Hair Fantasies and Sharing Subscriptions
    Jul 27 2025
    Welcome back to ask uncut where we answer your deep, dark and burning questions! Britt was *nearly kidnapped and Laura was almost robbed so today’s episode kicks off with standard chaos.Vibes for the week:Laura -Trainwreck: The Cult Of American Apparel on Netflix Britt - The Rookie on Netflix Keeshia - Mulberry Threads sheets Then we jump into your questions! PARTNER NEVER FINISHES ME OFF IN SEX, EVEN WHEN I ASKMy partner and I have been going out for just over a year. We were long distance at the start for 7months only seeing each other once a month. Fast forward to now we are living together (have been for nearly 3months). Throughout our whole relationship he has never initiated trying to finish me when having sex. I have brought this up with him & he said he doesn’t like giving head. I went out and got a vibrator for us to use. But he still won’t finish me!!! I have tried asking him & he then will but always looks so unhappy, so I am stuck faking it. He is my penguin & I want to marry him one day. It has caused me to have thoughts of cheating, just to get a good root (I am not one to have ever cheated). My question is how do I make him want to finish me off so I don’t get the feeling of “being used” and should I just keep finishing myself while he is at work so that I don’t get the thoughts of wanting to sleep with someone else? Please help a girl out! BF HAS A PUBE FANTASYWould love some advice on a conversation I’ve had recently that truly took me by surprise. I’ve been seeing a guy on and off for about a year (originally just fwb but we’re now at the point where it’s very serious - I’m away at the moment and if it wasn’t for that, we’d definitely be dating). We were texting the other night and things got saucy and he revealed he thinks it would be “super hot” if I grew my pubes out. I’ve had laser for years and am completely unable to do this - but also personally I don’t feel sexy with pubes (AND I’m a swimmer wtf). He even suggested styling my pubes and mentioned that he’s been fantasising about this for weeks (why does this make me feel uneasy). Do you know if this is a common occurrence among men? I’m at a complete loss.. does this mean the laser needs to go? For context, I’m 22 and he’s 24. Would appreciate any advice on this one! I USE MY EXES AMAZON ACC AND NEW BF THINKS IT’S DISRESPECTFULMy ex and I shared an amazon prime account when we were together. The login was under my email, yet he paid for the rolling subscription. We have been broken up for almost 2 years but we both still use this same account as I am unable to get a new one (as it's under my email) and he said he's happy for me to continue using it (even though he's paying). My current boyfriend finds it extremely uncomfortable and disrespectful even though the only time I use the account is to watch the occasional tv show/movie. I have no communication with my ex. What are your thoughts? FIANCE WANTS HIS MOTHER AT MY WEDDING DRESS APPTWe recently got engaged and are in the fun/stressful part of wedding planning. My fiancé and I have gotten into an argument as he has requested that he would like his mum to come to my wedding dress appointment. This is my first appointment and I don't even know what dresses I like/ what looks good and I'm really only going initially to get a feel for what's out there and what looks good. I'm currently living interstate and my mum is flying down to come with me (she is also buying my wedding dress) and I've also got one of my close friends flying in to come with me too. I tried to explain to him that I always envisaged this being a special moment between my mum and those who are in my bridal party and personally i don't think it's "normal" for the mother of the groom to come to these appointments. However, he has told me that everyone he has spoken to who has gotten married had both mums present and he is insisting on his mum being there. I'm not insisting on my mum being there when he gets his tux so I just really don't know how I can get my point across to him. I really don't think this is normal and my friends are all telling me that there is essentially no normal and it's whatever i want. I just don't know what to say to get him to understand that it's nothing personal .. I just would prefer it being an experience with my mum and I. I would love to hear your advice on what you guys did for your weddings and also how I try to get my fiancé to see my side of things. You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! XxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • The Best of the Pick Up - Laura Has Forgotten Who Her Husband Is

    The Best of the Pick Up - Laura Has Forgotten Who Her Husband Is
    Jul 25 2025

    It's our weekly round up! The best of the week from our National radio show THE PICKUP.

    What's on the show:

    • Laura accidentally introduced Matt to someone as the wrong name
    • A man came home to find his Bumble date had deep cleaned his entire house
    • Should we lower the voting age to 16 in Australia?
    • A 'self-worth influencer' broke up with her boyfriend because he didn't propose within two years
    • Britt has found herself in a parasocial relationship with someone very famous
    • Marlie had a very specific question about the way the new baby will be born
    • Britt has found her calling in a new career

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    36 m
  • How AI Is Potentially Changing the Porn Industry - Uncut with Angela White

    How AI Is Potentially Changing the Porn Industry - Uncut with Angela White
    Jul 24 2025

    Today’s guest is not only the most searched porn star globally, she is also by far our most viewed guest on youtube. Maybe people google Angela White expecting something else and they end up on our youtube channel instead!
    Angela White is back on home soil fresh off winning two PornHub Awards in May, including taking home the crown again for the Most Popular Female Performer Award for 2025– the biggest award a female adult star can win.

    We were lucky enough to speak with Angela back in February of 2024. Our episode was titled Everything You've Ever Wanted to Ask The World's Biggest Pornstar!

    In that episode we spoke about:

    • If orgasms are real in porn
    • Boundaries in sex work
    • The 'rules' in porn
    • How to give blow jobs, dirty talk and start back door experiences
    • OnlyFans and whether the money is as lucrative as we think
    • Angela's most viral moment

    Today we wanted to speak with Angela about the trajectory of the porn industry and how the landscape may or may not be changing with advancements in things like AI.

    We chat:

    • How Angela chooses other performers to work with
    • Angela’s favourite type of porn
    • How people respond to Angela when they see her in person
    • Whether creators need to keep pushing the boundaries and setting ‘new records’ on onlyfans to be successful
    • The one fantasy Angela would love to fulfil that she hasn’t been able to
    • Porn following trends
    • How AI is going to change the porn
    • Whether creators could make more or less with the introduction of AI
    • Are we sold a ‘get rich quick’ lie with certain types of onlyfans content?
    • How much work is onlyfans?

    You can find more from Angela and links to all of her platforms from her:
    Website
    Instagram

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    43 m
  • How You Got Cold Played and What I Really Wish I Knew Before Motherhood

    How You Got Cold Played and What I Really Wish I Knew Before Motherhood
    Jul 22 2025

    Hey lifers,

    We’re back from holidays! But are holidays really holidays when you have kids and you’re up at 5:30am?Laura has genuinely terrified a young surfer but she’s still got it (from behind).

    We took a week off and we are now a renovations/style podcast.
    We celebrated reaching 100 million downloads and our 6th birthday!!! We can’t thank you enough for hanging out with us throughout such different phases of our lives!

    We speak about the event that has GALVANISED us and ask you how you all got ‘coldplayed’ (how you found out you had been cheated on). Some of your answers were absolutely wild and our eyebrows are still raised.

    Women often ask themselves if they want to have children or not but maybe a more important question is ‘is this person the right person to have a child with?’

    We unpack this substack written by Mad Bad Tea

    We speak about how most people’s fears before having kids usually center around things like losing your identity or the impact it may have on your career but less focus seems to be on fears around resentment towards your partner for not stepping up to parenthood in an equal way. We speak about how your feelings around motherhood may be most impacted by the partner that you choose to parent with.

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  • Ask Uncut - Are They REALLY Allergic Though??

    Ask Uncut - Are They REALLY Allergic Though??
    Jul 20 2025
    Welcome back to ask uncut where we answer your deep, dark and burning questions! Britt’s suffering from both a croissant injury and from a troll on instagram. Have you ever sent something to the person you’re talking about instead of the friend you meant to send it to?Vibes for the week:Britt - board game ArticulateLaura - Netflix film Scoop Keeshia - Bunnings ‘How To’ Video series Then we jump into your questions!TO LOOK OR NOT LOOK DURING BIRTH!My entire family had a bit of a heated argument about about whether the father should have a peep at their child being born during active birth. My opinion is that the father should at least have a quick glance at what the woman has to go through to have a child. I really don’t want to sound insensitive as I know some people can be grossed out. I am also a nurse so I don’t know if that impacts my opinion as I don’t get turned off by these things. I also understand there are certain circumstances where this would not be encouraged by midwives/doctors but in best case scenario with a healthy vaginal birth, I’d love to hear what you all have to say HOW DO I TELL MY HUSBAND I’VE BEEN ADDING TOMATO TO HIS DISHES?!My husband told me when we met that he is allergic to tomato… as in he has IBS from it and he ends up on the toilet. For 6 years I haven’t cooked with tomato, can you imagine?!! No tomato in any dishes, it’s been hell. But, about 4 weeks ago I got ballsy and I added tomato to our bolognese I even blended it so he wouldn’t see and omg it tasted amazing!!! It had been so long. He didn’t run to the toilet after and he said if it was my best one yet… obviously because it had tomato in it!!! So the last 4 weeks I have been adding tomato to our dinners and hiding it and he has been fine! So my issue is… how do I tell him? Or do I never tell him? He will be sooo mad if he finds out I did that to him! DON’T WANT TO INVITE MUM’S NEW BF TO MY WEDDINGI’m getting married next year (yay!) but I have a bit of a dilemma. My parents split a few years ago, and since then, my mum’s had a string of short-term boyfriends. She’s now dating someone new and will likely want to bring him to the wedding, as she will want to parade her ‘new man’ to the rest of the family Here’s the issue: I don’t like him, and it’s very likely they won’t still be together by then anyway. Our wedding is small and intimate, and I really don’t want a random in the photos - especially someone who might not be around long-term. Am I being unreasonable if I don’t want to invite him (or whoever she’s dating at the time)? Or is it okay to gently set that boundary? WHO MOVES FOR LONG DISTANCE LOVE?!I’m 25 and met the man of my dreams during a 2 week contiki. We clicked from the moment we met and were inseparable. He’s genuinely everything I’ve ever wanted and more. Except he lives in Canada and I’m Aussie. I have spent literally my entire life focusing on academics- sacrificing every family event imaginable to do this. I’m now a junior doctor with an immaculate reputation planning to specialise in anaesthetics which is very competitive. I don’t have a medical licence in Canada. To get one, it would be 2 exams costing $5000 assuming I pass the first time. Then I don’t think I’d have much of a chance getting into anaesthetics in a foreign country. He has spent 10 years working his way up the hierarchy of a jewellery store company, where he is now their top manager - he’s moved twice to open new stores for them. Apparently there’s very few jewellery suppliers for the stores (like whole sales I assume) in Canada- his dad owns one and this guy plans to work for his dad eventually. He’s humble so hasn’t talked specifics, but this sounds like a multimillion dollar opportunity. It is going to be INCREDIBLY difficult for either of us to move. It feels like one of us will take a massive step back in our career that we may never be able to overcome. What should I do? Do we need to give up now? We’re both on the same page that we’ve never had a connection like this before. I truly think he could be my penguin. We’ve been calling >1hour everyday for now a month post the trip. We want to make it work. But how? I don’t know how to ask one of us to make the ultimate sacrifice when we’re both so career driven. I’m realistically 8 years away from finishing anaesthetics training (assuming I get on when planned) so waiting this out isn’t really realistic. You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! XxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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    53 m
  • The Best Of The Pick Up - We've Dug Up Laura's Old Instagram Quote Posts

    The Best Of The Pick Up - We've Dug Up Laura's Old Instagram Quote Posts
    Jul 11 2025

    It's our weekly round up! The best of the week from our National radio show THE PICKUP.

    What's on the show:

    • Laura reveals the baby names she loves but isn’t using for baby no 3
    • Celebs are being more open about the cosmetic work they’ve had done - but is it a good thing?
    • Robert Irwin had to apologise for accidentally dining and dashing
    • Orlando Bloom posts cryptic message amid break up with Katy Perry - turns out Laura used to do this too
    • Britt unpacks the new AI laws in Denmark that allow you to own your own face
    • A couple accidentally went to a destination wedding they weren't actually invited to
    • Britt shares the GROSSEST thing she's ever found in a work fridge

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    36 m
  • Living with PTSD - “My Dad Shot My Mum In Front Of Me”. Uncut with Rawson Kirkhope

    Living with PTSD - “My Dad Shot My Mum In Front Of Me”. Uncut with Rawson Kirkhope
    Jul 10 2025

    Today we’re joined by Rawson Kirkhope — a Navy veteran, childhood domestic violence survivor, and co-founder of VRTUS, a community-first gym.

    When Rawson was 12 years old, he witnessed his father shoot his mother, trying to end her life. Despite the horrific violence and being on the run for a week, his father was only sentenced to 4 years in jail. This event left him with PTSD - something that he has had to learn to live with.

    In this episode, Rawson shares what it was like to grow up never knowing whether your home was safe. We talk about what trauma does to your sense of identity, the complexity of loving someone whilst being simultaneously terrified by them, and how those early years shaped the man he would become.

    If this topic is sensitive for you, please take care while listening. There is always help available and someone to talk to on 1800 RESPECT

    We speak about:

    • The reality of growing up around violence
    • Always trying to be a ‘good’ kid to not escalate anything at home
    • How kids who grow up around volatile parents can struggle with validation
    • The justice system and having to testify against his own dad
    • The complexities of PTSD and what it looks like in reality
    • The strength of community around you
    • Reshaping masculinity and how routine has really helped

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    41 m