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Align Your Affirmations: Why They’re Not Working (and How to Fix Them)

Are your affirmations falling flat? You say them every morning, but nothing seems to change. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why don’t affirmations work for me?”—this episode is exactly what you need.

The truth is, affirmations aren’t magic spells. They don’t work just because you repeat them. But when you learn how to align your thoughts, actions, and energy with your affirmations, they become powerful tools for transformation.

In this episode of Inner Work with MaryAnn Walker, we’ll explore why traditional affirmations often backfire—and how you can shift them into believable, empowering statements that actually rewire your brain and move you toward the life you want.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why affirmations like “I am slim and healthy” or “Money flows easily to me” might trigger your brain to reject them.
• The key difference between affirmations and aspirations (and why most people confuse the two).
• How your brain’s built-in “lie detector” can sabotage affirmations that feel too far from reality.
• Simple reframes that turn empty affirmations into daily practices of alignment.
• How to make your brain your ally, not your adversary.
• How to embody affirmations like “I am healthy, I am wealthy, I am wise” by finding evidence in your current reality.

Challenge for the Week:

Pick one affirmation you’ve been using and ask yourself: Does this feel true right now, or is it more of an aspiration? If it feels out of reach, reframe it into a statement you can actually affirm today. For example:

• Instead of “I am slim and healthy,” try “I am making choices each and every day that improve my health and wellness.”
  Notice how your brain responds differently—and how your actions shift as a result.

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If you’re ready to live in alignment with the version of you that you know is possible—but you need some support shifting your thoughts and energy—I’d love to work with you. I currently have three coaching spots becoming available this month. Apply now and let’s help you embody the life you’ve been affirming.

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Is your “positive mindset” actually emotional avoidance in disguise? In this episode of Inner Work with MaryAnn Walker, I’m joined once again by guest Kellyn Legath for an honest conversation about the difference between true positive thinking and emotional bypassing. Together, we explore how to sit with and process uncomfortable emotions, why they matter, and how shifting your relationship with avoided feelings can unlock deeper healing and empowerment.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• The difference between positive thinking and emotional bypassing
• How to sit with emotions rather than suppress them
• Why emotions aren’t positive or negative—but valuable information
• Real-life role plays that show what it looks like to process emotions like sadness, anger, and anxiety
• How curiosity can help you uncover the truth behind your emotions
• Grounding practices and simple tools to support emotional regulation
• How emotions can act as “cheat codes” to identify unmet needs and map a plan for getting them met

Challenge for the Week
Notice where you might be using “positivity” to avoid uncomfortable feelings. This week, choose one emotion you usually avoid and practice sitting with it. Get curious: What is this feeling trying to tell you? What need is it pointing you toward?

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If you’re ready to stop bypassing your emotions and start listening to them as valuable guides, I’d love to support you. Book a free clarity call today and let’s explore what working together could look like: Book here: https://calendly.com/maryannwalkerlife/freeconsult
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Links Mentioned in This Episode

• The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk: https://amzn.to/3Voj1OH

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daydreamercoaching/

Other Links: https://bio.site/daydreamer?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAadHHKuglgXR4iC8g_c7amm4N8mNN7M4vYHFKwFQOEd1cLtvCbV9jGlMubeqtw_aem_C5FnuHOJ9prsPYcdkiSnKA

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The Body Keeps The Score: https://amzn.to/3IQIIop

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This ancient principle could be the missing piece to creating sustainable, reciprocal relationships.

Ayni—the Andean principle of sacred reciprocity.

Unlike the transactional way we often view give-and-take in the West, ayni invites us into a mindful balance of energy, sustainability, and connection in our relationships.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• What ayni means and how it differs from transactional reciprocity.
• Why imbalance in relationships often leads to obligation, resentment, and burnout.
• How reciprocity can show up in unexpected and creative ways (tamales, artwork, or simply being seen).
• Practical ways to begin practicing ayni in your daily life.
• Why balanced reciprocity strengthens trust, resilience, and belonging in relationships.

Challenge for the Week
Take some time to reflect on where you might be experiencing imbalance. What small shift could you make this week to restore balance? This might look like asking for what you need, practicing gratitude, or initiating a simple act of kindness.

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If this episode resonates and you’re ready to experience what balanced reciprocity feels like, I would love to support you as your coach. Together, we can identify where imbalance shows up in your life and create more sustainable, nourishing relationships. Spots are opening for October—don’t wait to invest in yourself.

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Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss future episodes. Each week, we dive deeper into the practices that help recovering people pleasers create balance, self-worth, and authentic connection.

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