From Burned Out to Vibrant: Selene’s Fit Mother Journey

On this episode of the Fit Mother Project Podcast, Episode 176, Dr. Anthony sits down with Fit Mother member Selene Connolly, a 59-year-old mom, “Lolly” (grandma), wife of 37 years, and director of engineering who completely rebuilt her health, hope, and strength in her late 50s. After a devastating foot injury, the stress of COVID, nightly wine, and feeling too weak to even carry a laundry basket or open a jar, Selene had quietly lost faith that she could ever really come back.

In this powerful conversation, you’ll hear how Selene lost about 40 pounds in about five months and has maintained that loss for over a year, how she moved from feeling like a “fraud” inside the program to becoming a true leader in the Fit Mother community, and how she helped create in-person sisterhood meetups and hiking trips around the country. You’ll also hear her simple but profound routines: early-morning mindset work, short but consistent workouts, grounding and breath breaks during a demanding workday, and evenings spent learning new things instead of zoning out in front of the TV.

Selene and Dr. Anthony dive into facing limiting beliefs, changing the inner voice, using labs and body composition data to truly “own” your health, and why encouragement is literally “breathing courage into others.” If you’re a busy woman over 40 who’s ever felt stuck, alone, or like you “don’t belong” in fitness spaces, Selene’s story will show you how small daily choices, community, and authenticity can completely change the trajectory of your life.

Key Takeaways

• 40 pounds lost in 5 months and kept off long-term
• Recovering from a serious foot tendon injury and lost confidence
• Moving from wine and TV nights to morning rituals and movement
• Why the first program version didn’t “fit” and what finally clicked
• Using the new follow-along workouts as a catalyst for change
• Creating real-life sisterhood: hikes, coffee dates, and book club
• Letting go of old clothes, old identities, and old limitations
• Small daily habits instead of chasing perfect checklists
• Rewriting limiting beliefs with a simple “two-column” exercise
• Building a life of adventure, learning, and vibrant grandmotherhood

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Let’s come together in 2026!

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