Episodios

  • Death and The Jazz Funeral (with James Marck)

    Death and The Jazz Funeral (with James Marck)
    Dec 3 2025
    In this episode of "Death And," funeral director Victor M. Sweeney sits down with guest James Marck, Director of Music at St. Francis de Sales Oratory, to explore the rich tradition of the New Orleans jazz funeral. The conversation covers how music at funerals has evolved—from somber Gregorian chant to the lively second line parades unique to New Orleans—and why singing and ceremony have been central to grieving across cultures and faiths. James shares his expertise in sacred music and explains how traditions like the jazz funeral balance mourning with celebration, and how even secular approaches to death struggle to find meaningful responses. Together, they reflect on the contrast of sorrow and joy at funerals, noting that the highs and lows are both essential for healing and remembrance. For anyone curious about how music, ritual, and culture weave together at life’s end, this episode is full of surprising insights and heartfelt stories. https://www.chantacademy.com/james-marck https://www.oratoriostl.com/copy-of-piano https://www.instagram.com/sfdsoratory http://deathandpodcast.com http://youtube.com/@victormsweeney http://instagram.com/victor.m.sweeney http://tiktok.com/@victormsweeney http://x.com/victormsweeney http://simonandschuster.com/books/Now-Departing/Victor-M-Sweeney/9781668062111 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    48 m
  • Death And a Death Cafe (with Susan Barsky Reid)

    Death And a Death Cafe (with Susan Barsky Reid)
    Nov 26 2025
    In this episode of "Death And," mortician and funeral director Victor M. Sweeney sits down with Susan Barsky Reid, psychotherapist and the mother of Death Cafe founder Jon Underwood, to talk about the worldwide Death Cafe movement. The conversation centers on how gathering to openly discuss death—with no agenda, prompts, or products to sell—can be both healing and surprisingly joyful. Susan shares the origin story of Death Cafe, its grounding principles, and how her own family’s personal experiences with unexpected loss have shaped her involvement. Victor and Susan swap stories about the intimacy of talking about death, how laughter often emerges in these spaces, and why facing mortality head-on can help make life richer. It's an honest and moving look at how simple conversations over coffee and cake can break down taboos and bring people together. http://deathcafe.com http://instagram.com/deathcafe http://x.com/deathcafe http://deathandpodcast.com http://youtube.com/@victormsweeney http://instagram.com/victor.m.sweeney http://tiktok.com/@victormsweeney http://x.com/victormsweeney http://simonandschuster.com/books/Now-Departing/Victor-M-Sweeney/9781668062111 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    44 m
  • Death And Analog (with Karl Schudt)

    Death And Analog (with Karl Schudt)
    Nov 19 2025
    In this episode of "Death And," mortician Victor M. Sweeney sits down with online coach and podcaster Karl Schudt. The two delve into how death—as the ultimate inconvenient physical reality—forces us to confront both the tangible and intangible aspects of being human. Their wide-ranging discussion covers everything from the economic and moral implications of AI, the importance of voluntary hardship, and the value of putting real effort into things like funerals, strength training, and writing an obituary. Karl Schudt reflects on living both physically and spiritually in a rapidly digitizing world, while Victor shares hands-on experiences from funeral work that highlight our need to balance mind, body, and soul. The episode encourages listeners to embrace both the analog “meat world” and the higher pursuits of thought, as a way to live—and grieve—more meaningfully. http://karlschudt.com http://soulsteading.life
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    53 m
  • Death And You (Pursuing Deathcare)

    Death And You (Pursuing Deathcare)
    Nov 12 2025
    In this episode of "Death And," mortician and funeral director Victor M. Sweeney dives deep into what it means to pursue a career in deathcare. Responding to a wave of listener questions about entering the funeral industry, Victor shares his personal journey—from wrestling with his vocation as a young man, to his eye-opening first experiences at a funeral home. He explores the emotional realities and practical challenges of becoming a funeral professional, candidly discussing the tough hours, sometimes-less-than-ideal pay, and the profound responsibility to care for grieving families, all while reflecting on the empathy, resilience, and mindset needed to thrive in deathcare. Whether you're considering funeral service or simply curious about the philosophy behind it, this episode offers an honest look at the calling to serve the living—and the dead. http://instagram.com/victor.m.sweeney http://tiktok.com/@victormsweeney http://x.com/victormsweeney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    42 m
  • Death And Woodworking (with John Enger)

    Death And Woodworking (with John Enger)
    Nov 5 2025
    In this episode of "Death And," mortician and funeral director Victor M. Sweeney invites woodworker John Enger, to chat about the deep connections between death and woodworking. They explore how working with wood—living material that must die to become something new—mirrors the cycle of life and loss, especially in the creation of caskets and urns. John shares how the death of his father-in-law led him to leave his journalism career and pursue woodworking full-time, emphasizing the lasting legacy of handmade objects compared to more ephemeral work. Listeners also get to hear Victor M. Sweeney answer audience questions about grief, cemetery space, and how empathy plays a role in caring for the dead. Throughout the episode, their friendship and mutual curiosity highlight the beauty, impermanence, and meaning found at the intersection of crafting with wood and facing mortality. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    59 m
  • Death And Loneliness (with Axel Seemann)

    Death And Loneliness (with Axel Seemann)
    Oct 29 2025
    In this episode of "Death And," Victor M. Sweeney is joined by philosophy professor Axel Seemann to explore the connection between death and loneliness. The pair dig into the different forms of loneliness, from the obvious ache left behind by losing loved ones to the deeper, existential kind that can linger even when surrounded by friends and acquaintances. Axel shares his personal experiences with loneliness, including the lasting impact of losing his mother as a child, and discusses how modern culture often rushes to "cure" loneliness instead of learning to sit with it. Together, Victor and Axel reflect on the importance of embracing both grief and connection, how even imperfect attempts at togetherness help, and why loneliness may always be part of being human. Their thoughtful conversation reminds us that finding meaning in life’s hardest moments is as much about acceptance as it is about seeking solutions. http://axelseemann.org
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    52 m
  • Death And Stone Carving (with Matt Loughlin)

    Death And Stone Carving (with Matt Loughlin)
    Oct 22 2025
    In this fourth episode of "Death And," Victor M. Sweeney welcomes guest Matt Loughlin, a stone carver from Somerset, England, to delve into the fascinating overlap between death and stone carving. The conversation touches on the history and symbolism of headstones, the meaning behind motifs and emblems, and the unique artistry involved in memorializing lives through stone. Matt shares his journey from graphic and fashion design to carving meaningful, often darkly whimsical stones, while Victor opens up about the emotional impact of creating lasting tributes and grappling with creative imperfection. They discuss how grave markers can be both universal and deeply personal, serving as long-lasting signposts of a person's life, and reflect on balancing simplicity, humor, and humanity in memorial art. The episode beautifully highlights how both ephemeral and enduring works help us remember, process, and celebrate life, even in the face of death. http://memorialworkshop.com 
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    1 h y 8 m
  • Death And Portraits (with Annamieka Hopps)

    Death And Portraits (with Annamieka Hopps)
    Oct 15 2025
    In this episode of "Death And," mortician Victor M. Sweeney sits down with artist Annamieka Hopps to unpack the theme of death and portraits. Their conversation explores how capturing someone’s likeness, whether through paint or by preparing bodies for funerals, is intimately tied to honoring legacy and mortality. Annamieka shares her own powerful story of facing cancer at 19 and what it was like to attend a fundraiser that felt like witnessing her own memorial, a transformative experience that now fuels her work helping others tell their stories. Together, Victor and Annamieka discuss the art of truly seeing and remembering people—whether through painting, archiving, or supporting families—and how embracing our mortality can deepen creativity and connection. The episode weaves in listener questions and reflections on legacy, demonstrating that both death and portraiture are about making meaning and sharing our essence with those we leave behind. http://annamieka.com http://instagram.com/annamieka_ http://youtube.com/@Annamieka http://deathandpodcast.com http://youtube.com/@victormsweeney http://instagram.com/victor.m.sweeney http://tiktok.com/@victormsweeney http://x.com/victormsweeney http://simonandschuster.com/books/Now-Departing/Victor-M-Sweeney/9781668062111 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    56 m