New Year, New Intentions: Doing More of What You Love

Happy New Year, everyone! It’s the beginning of 2026, and as we look ahead, I have a big question for you: What is it that you really love to do that you just haven’t been doing enough of lately?

In this episode, I’m inviting you to join me on a mission to bring more joy, simplicity, and open space into your life. We talk about why we often fill our calendars until there’s no room left for ourselves, and why I’ve started scheduling everything from my naps to walks with my husband and dog.

We also dive deep into the habits that build happy, lasting relationships. I share some powerful research from John Gottman about celebrating wins and expressing gratitude , and I tackle a phrase I hear way too often: "I don't want to be a nurse or a purse." I’ll tell you exactly why that mindset might be the very thing keeping you single and how to shift toward a more generous, giving heart.

In this episode, we’ll explore:

The Blessing of Simplicity: How I’m using AI to simplify my kitchen and my life.


Breaking the "Nurse or Purse" Habit: Why this phrase is a total turnoff to quality men and how to actually handle financial and health expectations.


Mastering the Closeness Loop: Learning the difference between reacting and truly responding with empathy.


The Art of the "Lasso": Tips for women on being easy to schedule with and for men on developing patience.


Secure Attachment: How to practice warmth and reliability so your partner feels safe with you.

Whether you’re a "Golden Bachelor" or re-entering the dating scene after a gray divorce, let’s make this the year you move from "me" to "we" by being the healthiest, happiest version of yourself.

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2026 Dating Trends with the "Digital Matchmaker"
Are you ready to "outsmart Cupid" in 2026? In this episode of the Cupid’s Coach podcast, host Julie Ferman sits down with a true industry rockstar: Julie Spira, America’s top online dating expert and founder of Cyber Dating Expert. With four decades of digital innovation and media experience, Julie Spira has watched every major trend shift—from the dial-up days of AOL to the AI-driven world of today.
The two Julies dive into Spira's latest feature article, "Dating Trends to Expect in 2026," which outlines why singles are now demanding clarity, consistency, and emotional substance over surface-level thrills. Whether you are navigating a "gray divorce," re-entering the dating world after being widowed, or curious about the new role of AI, this episode is a masterclass in modern romance.
Inside this Episode:
* The 2026 Recalibration: Why "emotional safety" is replacing high-octane chemistry and performative "love bombing".
* Gray Divorce as a Gateway: Viewing a late-life split as a "courageous recalibration" rather than a failure.
* Widowed & Ready: Giving yourself permission to find companionship without guilt and why the "two-year rule" is officially outdated.
* The "Tiny Town" Dynamics: Exploring dating in community-driven markets like Palm Springs versus the freeway-focused grind of Los Angeles.
* The Digital Shift: How daters are using AI as a "warm-up tool" for pre-date nerves and why crowdsourcing your dating life on Reddit is going by the wayside.
Join us for a candid look at the future of connection. It’s time to stop playing games and start finding the partner who treats you right on a Monday morning—not just a Saturday night.
Read the Full Article: Check out Julie Spira's Dating Trends to Expect in 2026 at CyberDatingExpert.com.
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https://cyberdatingexpert.com/2026-dating-trends/

Doing Dating Better with the "Profile Helper"
Are you feeling burnt out by the "dopamine slot machine" of modern dating apps? In this episode of the Cupid’s Coach podcast, veteran matchmaker Julie Furman sits down with the "OG" of online dating, Eric Resnick of Profile Helper. With over 40 years of combined experience, they share a candid look at how to navigate the digital dating world without losing your mind—or your heart—to the wrong people.

Julie and Eric dive into the shift from traditional sites to social discovery apps, the truth about "unnatural matches," and why your profile should never feel like a sales pitch. Whether you're recently divorced, widowed, or just frustrated with swiping, this episode provides the "training wheels" you need to transition from "me" to "we".


Key Takeaways:
* Dating App Evolution: Understanding the "sweet spot" between traditional apps and casual swiping.
* The "First Week" Rule: Why you should aim to meet in person or via video within 3 to 7 days to avoid "dying on the vine".
* Age & Height Reality: Moving past rigid checkboxes to focus on shared values and lifestyle alignment.
* Privacy & Safety: How to protect yourself from romance scams and when to use tools like Google Voice.
* Authentic Photos: Why candid "friend-captured" shots often beat stiff professional portraits.
Connect with Eric Resnick: Get a free profile assessment at ProfileHelper.com.

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How do you find true compatibility in dating — especially later in life?
In this episode, Julie Ferman chats with Ann, founder of After Hello, about navigating age gaps, attraction expectations, lifestyle differences, and emotional intelligence in matchmaking.
Key takeaways:
* Why fantasy dating can set you up for frustration
* How to assess compatibility beyond surface-level checklists
* Managing power dynamics and expectations around money
* Using phone calls and virtual dates to streamline connections
* Insights from Anne’s own love story and client experiences
Dating later in life is about connection, alignment, and flexibility — not just chemistry.

Is the label, "Narcissist" misused and overused? Yes. Let's clear things up. Julie shares colleague Marina Edelman's short list on what narcissism REALLY is, how to spot it, and why you should run the other way.

Tim Molnar, Dating Coach/author of Date Smarter, uses research-backed strategies and social science insights to evolve the dating landscape. How developing the art of social magnetism and saying YES to IRL events is .... dating smarter.

Authenticity is the new Sexy. Bob C. Grant, Relationship Coach, shares how feelings are different for men than women. What's the magic that women bring to men's lives? A woman's success and strength - is it intimidating to men, or maybe just annoying? What does support look like, and the power of the slow burn approach to sex.

Fractured Family Relationships? Often considered a red flag in dating - Josh Coleman, Ph.D., author of "Rules of Estrangement" addresses the issue from a personal and therapeutic perspective. When values clash among family members, can we agree to disagree? Are there underlying issues at play, and what might we do ?