In this heartfelt episode, Jaime explores one of the most painful and often overlooked parts of trauma: the lingering burden of shame and self-blame. Many survivors — whether from childhood abuse, domestic violence, or other traumatic events — carry the false belief that they were responsible for what happened to them. These thoughts often stem from manipulation by abusers, societal stigma, or the brain’s own attempt to make sense of the pain.

🧠 Jaime breaks down:

• Why survivors often blame themselves — even when they "know better"

• How fight, flight, and freeze responses are survival, not weakness

• The damaging myths around trauma and responsibility

• Why compassion, not judgment, is the true key to healing

💗 The episode closes with a gentle, guided self-compassion meditation — offering listeners a moment of calm, grounding, and the chance to begin speaking to themselves with kindness.

You are not to blame. You are not broken.
You are surviving — and you deserve your own care, just as much as anyone else.

📝 Questions or feedback?

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You can always drop me an email to ⁠⁠podcast@online-cbt.com,⁠⁠if you want to have a question.

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Jaime (CBT and EMDR therapist)

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In this powerful episode, Jaime (CBT & EMDR Therapist) breaks down what trauma really is, how it affects the brain, and how healing is possible through trauma-informed therapy.

Whether you’re dealing with PTSD, childhood trauma, or daily emotional overload, this episode will help you understand:

• The neuroscience behind trauma (amygdala, hippocampus, survival brain)

• PTSD symptoms like flashbacks, numbness, and hypervigilance

• The “stress bucket” analogy and emotional overwhelm

• Why freezing during trauma is normal (and NOT your fault)

• Grounding & visualization exercises to feel calmer today

🎧 Includes a short guided mindfulness and grounding practice

Do not forget to leave a comment if you wish to ask aquestion or make a request.

You can always drop me an email to ⁠⁠podcast@online-cbt.com,⁠⁠if you want to have a question.

If you need to book therapy with one of our experts #onlinetherapy.

https://online-cbt.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/

Please follow or like the podcast if you wish, and share itwith others.

Hope you enjoy!

Jaime (CBT and EMDR therapist)

PS: our service is not an emergency services and emails arenot always monitored. Please contact your local mental health team if you needurgent help.

#CBT #EMDR #PTSD #MentalHealthPodcast #TraumaRecovery #MindBodyHealing #NeurobiologyOfTrauma #Grounding #TherapyTools #HealingJourney #TraumaExplained

In this episode, Jaime returns to the mic to clear up some common myths and misconceptions around Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). From the idea that CBT is “just worksheets” to the belief it doesn’t help with trauma or long-term issues — we set the record straight.

✅ What CBT actually is (and isn’t)
🌪 Why it does include somatic (body-based) awareness
🕰 How CBT can be both short-term or long-form
📋 The difference between CBT techniques vs. real therapeutic engagement
💗 Plus: A powerful guided compassion imagery exercise you can try today!

Do not forget to leave a comment if you wish to ask aquestion or make a request.

You can always drop me an email to ⁠⁠podcast@online-cbt.com,⁠⁠if you want to have a question.

If you need to book therapy with one of our experts #onlinetherapy.

https://online-cbt.com/online-therapy-bookings-cbt-emdr/

Please follow or like the podcast if you wish, and share itwith others.

Hope you enjoy!

Jaime (CBT and EMDR therapist)

PS: our service is not an emergency services and emails arenot always monitored. Please contact your local mental health team if you need urgent help.

#MentalHealthAwareness #CBT #TraumaTherapy #CognitiveBehaviouralTherapy #TherapistTalks #AnxietySupport #SelfCompassion #MindBodyConnection #PodcastEpisode #HealingJourney #MentalWellness #CompassionFocusedTherapy #MisconceptionsInTherapy #TherapyIsForEveryone #EMDNVT #CBTExplained 💬🧘‍♀️✨