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Why is this relationship so hard? It is so invigorating to know that we don't have to stay stuck. Even if we're not the one struggling with narcissism, we can change the way we relate to the people who do. 

Find out if the stress in your relationships with family, friends, or at work is unknowingly caused from narcissism in yourself or others... Narcissism is actually much more common than we may think and, in reality, most of us have some of these characteristics. 

You Might Be a Narcissist If... was written by two psychotherapists and a psychiatrist with decades of both personal and professional experience with narcissism. It is filled with many interesting-to-hear stories taken from the authors' or their clients' lives that clearly demonstrate examples of narcissism. A narcissism questionnaire and practical suggestions are given for dealing with narcissism whether it's in your spouse, a co-worker, or even yourself.

©2009 Lisa Charlebois, L.C.S.W (P)2018 Lisa Charlebois, L.C.S.W

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Great information.

I learned a lot about my life and the lives around me. I enjoyed the real examples provided. I gained many techniques to follow in bettering myself.

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The kindest book on narcissism

Almost every book about narcissism basically says they are the devil and you should run away and never look back. While oftentimes that may be true, I appreciate this gentler approach to describing and dealing with narcissism and narcissists.

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Gave me answers that I did not expect

I started reading this book thinking I was a narcissist. I found through this reading that I came from a narcissist family. I found so many answers and I am ready for forgiveness. Life change for me by discovering things I never understood.

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  • 07-26-20

Wake up call

Very well written and read. Easy to follow and unfortunately, easy to relate. Great read. Bout 3 paperback copies for a few others to read.

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Great book

Great book to really explain NPD and how it was created and how it’s acted on. I’ve recently learned about my NPD and have been digging deep...this is the best source I’ve found FOR people with NPD, and also helps others have a better understanding of the how and why.

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Fantastic survey of narcissism in less than 3 hours!

The performance and voice was easy to listen to, it flowed well, and no confusing rabbit trails!It covered how Narcissism is birthed, the characteristics of Narcissism, and how it plays out in marriage, family, friends, and work!

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A few interesting points delivered in a very easy-to-understand way. Very simplistic, this seemed to be a quick, overarching description of common narcissistic behaviors and ways in which you can communicate more effectively with a narcissist. My first audible experience, and I think the narrators tone of voice and delivery left a little something to be desired! And the “voice” of the authors’ seemed cheesy, outdated, and with a reference or two to the Bible, which I found to be very odd. Did not delve into too much detail, and this book used a lot of language like “this will warm their heart”...

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  • 03-12-20

halfway through and breaking down in tears

leaving a review since I almost didn't buy due to no reviews. buy it, trust me