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With the End in Mind

Dying, Death and Wisdom in an Age of Denial
Length: 11 hrs and 46 mins
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What colour is cancer? Why do some people appear to have made miraculous recoveries? How can you tell when someone is in the final hours of their life? How can we ensure our most vulnerable are treated with the dignity they deserve? 

In this unprecedented memoir, a palliative medicine pioneer explores the biggest taboo in our society and the only certainty we all share: death. Kathryn Mannix immortalises the thousands of men and women she has seen off. These unforgettable stories send an urgent message to the living, answering all our questions about the end-of-life process with touching honesty and humanity. 

Drawing on four decades of experience studying and practicing palliative care, Mannix shows us what happens when people are approaching the end of their lives: how they cope; how they live; what matters most; how dying evolves; what a deathbed is like; and how families react. 

Kathryn Mannix's stories, although drawn from her clinical practice, are those of our friends, our family, our partners. We learn about the body language of death through a young mother who raves the night away before falling into a forever slumber. The psychology of death, too, is illuminated, as with the endearing story of Sanjeev, an elderly man admitted to the hospital who is convinced he is on a night train to Delhi where he will meet his parents in the morning. A husband asks the doctor not to tell his wife of the fatality of her condition - the wife later confesses to having kept her husband in the dark about the finality of her illness to preserve him. These meditations tells us everything about the dying and their loved ones. 

With the End in Mind is a book for all of us: the grieving and bereaved, ill and healthy. It is also an insight into palliation as a mixture of teamwork with clinical detective work to find the origins of patients' symptoms in order offer the best possible living conditions towards the end. Mannix argues that with planning, honesty and information, death doesn't have to be either painful or terrifying. With at-times funny, poignant and always wise storytelling about how people die, Mannix has written a book of immense power and importance.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your Library section along with the audio on our Desktop Site.

©2017 Kathryn Mannix (P)2017 HarperCollins Publishers

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Such a great book!<br />

I really thought this book was great all the way around! The only thing that I wish is that it included some story about someone who wanted to end their medical suffering but isn't allowed to do so in the State that we live in. How do you handle that person? otherwise...the book is very well written and nariated. Five stars!

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Very enjoyable and poignant

No use running away from the inevitable, and this book is invaluable in learning more.

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Oh my !

I would give book a 10! Touching, informative , a necessary subject to be discussed.

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  • Debi Rutter
  • 01-22-18

Brilliant

This is a book everyone in our. Modern western ‘culture ‘ should be familiar with.
Yes, the content will make you cry but stick with it, there is safety and truth in the words.
As someone who has the knowledge of a journey soon to end, I am less scared of the destination and separation that transition will enforce.
Thank you for your wisdom.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 09-28-18

Informative and comforting

I purchased this audiobook after my mother had been diagnosed with terminal cancer. It was recommended to me by my dentist who had read it and knowing of the sad situation of our family, thought I might find it helpful. At first I thought it was a bit gory to read a book about death. But it actually prepared me for what was to come in a comforting way, so I knew what to expect, that things did not come as a shock or a surprise. I recommended the book to the nurses of the palliative care unit and some of them read it and found it good too. I would highly recommend it to anyone who wants to understand better and who wants to alleviate the fear of the unknown. Thank you Dr Mannix!

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  • clevercavendish
  • 01-18-18

If you read only one book this year.....

Joining what I can only imagine is a river (stream is not enough) of fan mail. Thank you for such a brilliant book. I fear I’m not articulate enough to tell you here how much I admire your work, not just the work of your career but also the book.
As I read it I kept thinking of my friends young and old and thinking they should read it too!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 04-18-19

Food for the soul

A thought provoking sometimes difficult theme to listen to but such an authentic honest discussion of death and the process of dying. Thank you Kathryn.

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  • Stuart brown
  • 01-02-19

Showed me my fear of death was not needed.

Fantastic book
Opens up the conversation about death and shows us most deaths are peaceful

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  • Anonymous User
  • 12-11-18

Everyone needs to listen to this!

What a book, everyone needs to listen/read it, such an insight into to a part of life no one talks about! Brilliant but peaceful stories read so well!

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  • Raul
  • 11-26-18

mustread for all doctors, regardless of speciality

One of THE most inspiring texts I have ever encountered. i cannot recommend it enough.

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  • SPRish
  • 10-28-18

extraordinary and important.

beautifully written and read. no idea why i choose it but thankful i did. we should all read this book.

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  • Aithne
  • 09-14-19

A must read for Health Care Professionals!

It's time to talk about dying and Mannix does it unbelievably well. The reader has an emotive voice that fits the book perfectly. I've laughed, I've cried and I've recommended this book to everyone I know - not just HCPs! Please read it.

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  • Jude Davis
  • 09-04-19

Every human should read this beautiful book

Thanks for such an empathic and comforting understanding of how to think and talk about death. It has allayed fears I didn't know I had. A masterclass in clinician communication.

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  • S. Davey
  • 12-01-18

loved it

A remarkable insight into the life of dying. a must listen, I'm listening again already.

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  • Andy
  • 09-20-18

A treasure.

Dr Mannix successfully navigates the complexity of the responses of the human spirit in the inevitable period before one leaves this existence. The content is explored with grace, sensitivity and great understanding. Compulsory reading for anyone in the medical field and certainly important for those who are not. A treasure.

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  • Neville Parker
  • 09-19-19

Life changing

So very compassionate. Takes away the fear of dying. I want everyone I know to have read this book