Why Avoidants Run From Real Love
Cats, Dogs & the Fear of Being Known
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Why Avoidants Run From Real Love
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If you want to understand avoidants, don’t study their relationships.
Study their pets.
Avoidants don’t reveal themselves through conversation.
They reveal themselves through what they allow close, what they keep at arm’s length, and what they quietly run from.
Some choose cats.
Some choose dogs.
Some choose plants.
Some choose nothing at all.
It isn’t personality.
It isn’t preference.
It’s the blueprint of avoidant attachment—dismissive, fearful, and everything in between.
In this short, cutting, quietly devastating book, Gergana Lyubenova uses the most unexpected lens—the animals avoidants bring into their lives—to show what emotionally unavailable people look like from the inside.
Not the theory.
Not the stereotype.
The truth.
Why distance feels safer than affection.
Why low-maintenance love feels “right.”
Why unconditional connection feels overwhelming.
And why the first creature an avoidant ever lets all the way in…
is almost never another human.
Dark humor, psychological accuracy, and moments that hit hard enough to stop your breath.
This isn’t a book about pets.
It’s about avoidance, intimacy, and the fear of being known—told through the only relationships avoidants can’t disguise.
If you’ve ever loved an avoidant, been trapped in a situationship, or wondered why emotionally unavailable men behave the way they do, this story will feel uncomfortably familiar in all the right ways.