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  • From Fantasy to Reality with Carly

    From Fantasy to Reality with Carly
    Apr 2 2026
    Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms!Write your hottest fantasies into existence! In this episode, Carly, creator of Aurore, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore the power of smart, sexy erotica for women. Carly shares why women often crave erotica over visual porn, how it fuels imagination, celebrates real bodies, and helps expand your personal “sex bucket list.” Together they dive into the power of writing your own erotica, from reliving hot memories and healing past encounters to straight-up manifesting the sex you want. Along the way, they explore how this practice not only boosts creativity and sexual confidence, but also makes communicating your desires feel easier, more natural, and a lot more fun.Jump to the Good Stuff:03:47 – Why Women Love Erotica More Than Porn06:05 – Healing Through Erotica08:20 – Writing & Manifesting Sex Stories12:15 – Plane Hookups, Gym Pick-Ups & DM Sliding Done Right22:41 – Toxic Situationships vs. Clear Communication25:38 – Erotica in the Bedroom33:15 – Solo Pleasure & Slowing Down37:30 – Defining PleasurePleasure Highlights:Erotica is powerful because it’s customizable. You control the fantasy, insert real bodies, and stay fully in your imagination without visual porn’s limitations or insecurities.Writing your own sex stories is both arousing and healing. Relive the good, rewrite the disappointing, and even manifest future encounters.Manifestation through writing works. Jordan’s spicy stories have literally come true; putting desires on paper (or sharing them) gives clear permission and builds consent.Good sex fuels creativity. When you’re having satisfying sex or feeling desired, your creative energy skyrockets.Communication is everything. Whether negotiating desires, setting expectations in dating, or introducing new moves inspired by erotica, be upfront about what you want (and what you don’t).Everyday pleasure matters. Slowing down and eroticizing routine moments (coffee, skincare, walking) deepens overall sexual pleasure and life satisfaction.Real, relatable stories hit hardest. Unrequited desire, yearning, and messy human connections often feel hotter than perfect fairy-tale romance.Supportive partners exist. Men who celebrate your sexual openness and even draw inspiration from your work are out there.Connect with Carly Pifer:Instagram @readauroreSubstack @readauroreEnhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle:Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcastTikTok @‌jordandnelleYoutube @jordandnelleEmail: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.comIf you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast!Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.comLeave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives!Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already!Follow Jordan D’Nelle on social media for teasers and extras!Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast:Apple PodcastsSpotify PodcastsYoutube @jordandnelle*Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated.Website Links:jordandnelle.comreadaurore.comVaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.
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  • Discovering Your Pleasure with Hannah, The Libido Fairy

    Discovering Your Pleasure with Hannah, The Libido Fairy
    Mar 19 2026
    Discovering Your Pleasure with Hannah, The Libido FairyWatch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms!Struggling with “What do I want in bed?” or feeling like sex has become routine? In this episode of Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, host Jordan D’Nelle and Hannah, The Libido Fairy, drop raw, hilarious truth bombs on reigniting desire and boosting libido in long-term relationships.They reframe sex as adult playtime: ditch porn pressure, embrace sex exploration, and treat new kinks like the floppy first pancake - try anything twice for real calibration.Listen for practical, shame-free tools for better communication, boundaries, and erotic connection.Jump to the Good Stuff:00:00 – Intro & Meet The Libido Fairy04:24 – Sex as Adult Playtime06:24 – The Floppy Pancake Rule: Try Anything Twice09:55 – Tuning Into Your Body’s Yes/No13:05 – The Likes + Limits Checklist Magic14:37 – Navigating Mismatched Desires18:59 – King & Queen Nights23:29 – Daily Rituals for Lasting Connection43:45 – What Hannah’s Exploring Now45:46 – Defining PleasurePleasure Highlights:​Treat sex like pancakes: Try things, notice your body’s yes/no signals (tingling, squirmy), and try anything twice—first try is just calibration.​Embrace playful exploration: Separate maintenance sex from no-pressure sex exploration sessions—fail, experiment, build desire in long-term relationships.​Use Hannah’s free Likes + Limits Checklist (500+ items) to map desires, find overlaps, and avoid resentment.​Unlock King/Queen Nights for focused pleasure, plus daily 6-second kisses and eye contact for sustained heat.​Pleasure = anything that brings you more alive: sustainable joy through communication, boundaries, and prioritizing your relationship.Connect with Hannah :​Instagram @thelibidofairy​TikTok @thelibidofairy​Facebook @thelibidofairy​YouTube @thelibidofairy​Podcast: The Libido FairyEnhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more ⁠HERE⁠. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle:​Facebook @‌jordandnelle ​Instagram @‌jordandnelle ​Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast​TikTok @‌jordandnelle​Youtube @jordandnelleEmail: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.comIf you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast!​Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com​Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives!​Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already!​Follow Jordan D’Nelle on social media for teasers and extras!Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast:Apple PodcastsSpotify PodcastsYoutube @jordandnelle*Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated.Website Links:​Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠​⁠⁠Hannah’s Likes and Limits Checklist (Menu)⁠⁠ ​⁠⁠The Libido Fairy Webite⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.thelibidofairy.com/⁠⁠ ​⁠⁠The Relationship Ritual Guide⁠⁠ - includes the King and Queen Night resourceVaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.
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  • The Pleasure Evolution with Kim Airs

    The Pleasure Evolution with Kim Airs
    Mar 5 2026
    The Pleasure Evolution with Kim AirsWatch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms!We're back baby!! And we’re kicking things off with an absolute legend: Kim Airs, the trailblazing sex toy pioneer who ditched her Harvard job in 1993 to open one of the first women-friendly sex shops and has been myth-busting, innovating, and celebrating pleasure ever since.In this juicy return episode, Kim spills the wild history of sex toys – from bathtub-caulk dildos to today's mind-blowing robot strokers and app-controlled vibes – while sharing hands-free orgasm secrets, breathwork magic, lazy toy-cleaning hacks, and why really letting go unlocks next-level fun.Jump to the Good Stuff: 02:40 – Welcome back after 19 months! Introducing legend Kim Airs03:30 – From boring marriage to smut hound: Kim’s wild origin story04:30 – Writing for On Our Backs & the spark to open Grand Opening!05:48 – Quitting Harvard to sell “rubber dicks to girls”11:28 – The surprising bathtub-caulk origin of silicone dildos15:15 – Busting the silicone lube on silicone dildo myth - test it overnight!16:48 – Lazy cleaning hacks: Baby wipes & why most “toy cleaners” are overkill20:18 – Evolution of toys: From jelly rubber to app-controlled & discreet designs23:05 – Penis pleasure explosion: Robot strokers, spinning, thrusting & beyond Fleshlight27:00 – Sex dolls & AI companions - fascinating or concerning?39:03 – Hands-free orgasms: Kim’s fMRI-proven breath & energy magic41:32 – Letting go = animal-level pleasure - scream, grab sheets!44:34 – Beginner tips: Pick what visually turns you on + check measurements48:42 – Final thoughts + where to find KimPleasure Highlights:Silicone's surprising origin: Bathtub caulk saved a marriage!Busting myths: Silicone lube + silicone toys? Test it—it's usually fine now.Hands-free Os are real (and learnable via breath/energy work).Modern penis toys are exploding—way beyond Fleshlight.Let go of control for animal-level pleasure (scream, grab sheets—it's hot!).Connect with Kim Airs:Instagram: @KimAirsTikTok: @TheKimAirsFacebook: @Kim.AirsPodcast: SexChat with Kim AirsCameo: @Naughty GrandmaEnhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle:Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcastTikTok @‌jordandnelleYoutube @jordandnelleEmail: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.comIf you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast!Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.comLeave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives!Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already!Follow Jordan D’Nelle on social media for teasers and extras!Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast:Apple PodcastsSpotify PodcastsYoutube @jordandnelleWebsite Links:jordandnelle.comKim Airs LinkTreehttps://grandopening.com/ SEXchat with Kim Aires | Spotify Podcasts*Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated.Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.
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  • Cultivating Emotional Intimacy with Jodie Milton

    Cultivating Emotional Intimacy with Jodie Milton
    Nov 14 2024

    Humans have a deep need for connection, and emotional intimacy fulfills this by allowing us to truly be seen by others. In this episode, Jodie Milton joins us to explore emotional intimacy and its impact on partnered relationships. We discuss practical ways to cultivate intimacy, address common barriers, and discuss the importance of nurturing these connections in friendships. Jodie also shares valuable advice for men on building emotional intelligence, helping listeners strengthen their ability to connect deeply and authentically with others.

    You can find Jodie Milton on Instagram and Facebook @practicalintimacy.

    Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE.

    Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast.

    Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com

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    *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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    49 m
  • Sexuality, Desire, and Pleasure with Jennifer Summers

    Sexuality, Desire, and Pleasure with Jennifer Summers
    Oct 31 2024

    Jennifer Summers joins us to discuss sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure. We cover topics such as the role of sex toys in relationships, strategies for improving desire and balancing partners' needs, navigating polyamory and non-monogamy, and the significance of open communication, consent, and honesty.

    You can find Jennifer Summers on Instagram and TikTok @theselfmadediva.

    Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE.

    Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast.

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    *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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  • Creating a Three Hour Sex Date with Jennifer Kaylo

    Creating a Three Hour Sex Date with Jennifer Kaylo
    Oct 17 2024

    So much becomes possible when you open your mind to new possibilities. Jennifer Kaylo joins us to talk about three-hour sex dates. We explore concepts like erotic blueprints, the emotional impact of long sexual experiences, teaching partners to enhance sexual experiences, and navigating open relationships and throuples.

    You can find Jennifer on Instagram @theopenbedroompodcast.

    Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE.

    Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast.

    Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com

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  • Queer S3X with Jordana

    Queer S3X with Jordana
    Oct 3 2024

    Sexuality is fluid, ever-changing, and shaped by our experiences. In this episode, Jordana joins us for an open, honest, and empowering discussion on the nuances of queerness and sexuality. We explore the fluidity of sexual identity and dive into the impacts of internalized homophobia, especially for those navigating their own queerness and breaking free from traditional norms. We highlight the importance of self-exploration and building a positive, healthy relationship with your body.

    You can find Jordana on Instagram @thequeersxcoach.

    Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE.

    Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast.

    Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com

    Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast!

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    *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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  • Herpes, Sex Work, and Sexual Empowerment with Cassie Black

    Herpes, Sex Work, and Sexual Empowerment with Cassie Black
    Sep 19 2024

    A positive diagnosis can lead to positive outcomes. Cassie Black, aka Safe Slut, joins us for an open conversation about living with herpes, navigating sex work, and embracing sexual empowerment. We discuss Cassie's personal journey with a herpes diagnosis, how it has impacted her sexuality, her work, and the importance of destigmatizing both herpes and sex work.

    You can find Cassie Black on Instagram @safe.slut.

    Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE.

    Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast.

    Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com

    Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast!

    • Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com

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    *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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