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The Positivity Xperience

The Positivity Xperience

By: Lori Wheeler
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Weekly podcast to help bring some relief of living with anxiety, depression, Overthiinkng and soooo many other things so many of us deal with daily. I am an alternative therapist and life coach who has struggled and still do with anxiety and overthinking. I will also teach you to love yourselfAll Rights Reserved Lori Wheeler Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
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  • Your Feelings Aren't Facts: What Your Brain Is Actually Doing
    Mar 29 2026

    Have you ever felt something so strongly that it seemed like absolute truth?

    Feeling ignored.
    Feeling rejected.
    Feeling disrespected.
    Feeling anxious about something that hasn't even happened yet.

    Here's the reality: your feelings are real, but they are not always factual.

    In this episode, we explore the neuroscience behind emotions and why the brain can make feelings seem like undeniable truth—even when they're based on interpretation rather than objective reality.

    Your emotional brain reacts faster than your thinking brain. The limbic system—particularly the amygdala—is designed to detect potential threats quickly and trigger emotional responses before your rational mind fully processes what's happening. This is incredibly useful for survival, but it also means your brain can create powerful emotional reactions based on past experiences, learned patterns, and assumptions.

    That's why emotions can feel convincing even when they're not telling the full story.

    In this episode, we break down how the brain generates emotions, why emotional reactions often happen before logical thinking, and how confirmation bias can reinforce emotional narratives once they begin.

    We also talk about the difference between validating a feeling and believing the interpretation attached to it, and why learning to pause between emotion and conclusion is one of the most important parts of emotional maturity.

    In this episode you'll learn:
    • The neuroscience behind emotions and how the brain processes feelings

    • Why the amygdala reacts before your rational brain can analyze the situation

    • How confirmation bias reinforces emotional stories in your mind

    • Why past experiences shape emotional triggers in the present

    • The difference between acknowledging emotions and treating them as facts

    • How emotional regulation creates space for clearer thinking and healthier relationships

    Emotions are powerful signals. They tell you something about what's happening inside you. But emotional clarity comes from learning to question the meaning your brain attaches to those feelings instead of automatically treating them as reality.

    When you learn to separate emotion from interpretation, you gain something incredibly valuable: perspective.

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    46 mins
  • DARVO: The Manipulation Tactic That Makes You Defend Yourself
    Mar 22 2026

    Have you ever brought up an issue with someone and somehow ended up defending yourself instead? In this episode we break down the psychological tactic known as DARVO — Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender.

    This manipulation pattern is often used to escape accountability, distort conflict, and regain narrative control. We explore the science behind DARVO, why it works so effectively on empathetic people, and how it shows up in relationships, workplaces, and family dynamics. We also discuss how to recognize this pattern in others — and how to catch it in yourself before it damages trust.

    🎧 In this episode we cover:

    *What DARVO actually is

    *The psychology behind denial and blame reversal

    *Why your nervous system gets hijacked during conflict

    *Real-life examples of DARVO in relationships and families

    *How to stay grounded when someone tries to flip the narrative

    *How to recognize when you might be using DARVO yourself

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    44 mins
  • The Manipulation Control Trap That Keeps You Defending
    Mar 15 2026

    Have you ever left a conversation feeling confused, guilty, or unsure of what actually happened?

    In this episode, we break down the psychology behind narrative control and how manipulators subtly rewrite events to avoid accountability and maintain power. We explore minimization, reversal, selective memory, emotional hijacking, and how confusion becomes a compliance tactic.

    🎧 In this episode, we cover:

    *Why manipulators distort reality

    *How narrative control creates leverage

    *The covert tactics you don't see in real time

    *Why you end up defending instead of addressing

    *How to stop debating memory and anchor to truth

    If you've ever felt foggy or destabilized after conflict, this episode will help you understand why.

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    42 mins
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As a fellow GenXer, this hits home on every. Single. Episode. I love Lori’s take on life, and it’s been extremely helpful in a way I haven’t found with a traditional therapist. Highly recommend!

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