The Mercury Mind
How Harnessing Attraction Beyond Your Control Is the Key to Better Relationships, Fulfilling Careers, and Your Most Powerful Self
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Nathan Lancry
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Nathan Lancry
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Human relationships work just like mercury. If you crack open a thermometer, the mercury spills out and gathers itself into neat little balls. Mercury is malleable and naturally attracted to itself, so it is easy to contain. However, if mercury is not handled properly, it creates a toxic residue. And this dangerous sludge can cause lasting damage to our health.
Like mercury, human relationships can be messy if they aren't managed properly. When we are near someone we like, we only want to be closer. It can feel like we've known each other forever. But these Mercury Mind connections can cause lasting damage to our health if we don't handle them properly. In trying to attract others, we can mold ourselves into someone we're not. We can slowly turn away from the parts of ourselves that make us unique.
Whether you’re working on improving existing relationships or building new ones from scratch, The Mercury Mind addresses a multitude of relational dynamics. This groundbreaking book explores the depths of Napoleon’s struggle with vulnerability, President Kennedy’s battles with self-esteem, and how Cleopatra’s conflicting desires led to her demise.
You’ll learn how to:
- Improve your existing relationships
- Embrace vulnerability without crossing the line
- Attract authentic connections
- Understand the difference between confidence and self-esteem
- Identify when a relationship isn’t working
- And more…
The keys to healthy, meaningful relationships are in this book. Get ready to unlock your deepest self. Behold the Mercury Mind.
©2022 Nathan Lancry (P)2022 Nathan LancryListeners also enjoyed...
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- Danielle A.
- 06-04-22
Thoughtfully Written
A thoughtful insight into the way the mind establishes meaningful connections. Easy listen that is full on insightfulness.
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- kim
- 05-31-23
I’m grateful I read this
Begin your authentic you! Written in a way that allows for everyone to make a connection to his words. You’ll find yourself shaking your head yes in agreement and understanding. Highly recommended and appreciative of his words.
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- MARK LYON
- 06-20-22
Amazing what you can learn in just 5 hours
This booked helped me see and understand the patterns that I was repeating in my relationships that were holding me back. Easy read with thought provoking questions. A different perspective that I enjoyed. Thank you.
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- andy
- 07-07-22
This book will change your life!
I can't emphasize enough how amazing this book is. It makes you think about relationships in an entirely new way. I realized how I've been trying to plan the type of relationships I thought I wanted rather than attracting deep, authentic connections with people who truly get me. I may have been confident in myself, but I didn't have enough self-esteem to build the type of relationships I wanted. It's not the same thing. This book changed everything. Read it. Study it. Apply it. And watch your entire life change.
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