• Real Love in Dating

  • The Truth About Finding the Perfect Partner
  • By: Greg Baer
  • Narrated by: Greg Baer
  • Length: 6 hrs and 5 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook
  • Release date: 03-10-16
  • Language: English
  • Publisher: Blue Ridge Press
  • 5 out of 5 stars (29 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

“Dr. Baer explains, with the greatest insight, all levels and depths of every relationship. He’ll change your life.” (Sheila B., Love Rocks, KTL, Houston)

For most of us, dating is often confusing, frustrating, and frightening. We look for the "right person" in bars, at school, at parties, and on Internet dating sites. But what happens when we find the right partner? 60% of marriages end in divorce, and only 1-2% experience the fulfillment both partners once hoped for. 

We need much more than another way to meet people. We need to learn how to create the loving and richly rewarding relationships we all want. In Real Love in Dating, you'll learn: 

  • What we all need most before we can be genuinely happy - Real Love 
  • What we use as substitutes for Real Love, and how that destroys relationships 
  • How we behave when we don't feel loved, and how that makes us miserable 
  • How to find the Real Love that will guarantee lasting and rewarding relationships 
  • How to find and become the perfect partner 
  • How to build a great relationship and keep your perfect partner 
©2006 Greg Baer (P)2007 Greg Baer

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An excellent book by an excellent teacher. 😊

My second read/listen of this book. I first met Greg in his Phoenix seminar in mid 2005 and have read/listened to several of his books, including Real Love, his foundational book. In this book on dating Greg is as passionate and loving as ever. I've had the pleasure of seeing him in person in at least two events since 2005 and I've always been convinced that he stands as tall as and is as committed to unconditional love as were great men like Carl Rogers and Carl Jung. Further, he practices Real Love with everyone with whom I've seen him come in contact, including in his marriage to his loving wife Donna. By organizing many Real Love groups, by creating many forms of media and by speaking at least 1400 times on radio and TV, Greg has been a Loving Force for humanity and will surely be appropriately recognized as such.

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Practical and Vital Guidance to Be Happy

Anyone who is dating or who would consider dating in the future would be hugely benefited by this book. I discovered Greg Baer and the ideas of Real Love a week ago. It is already having a significant positive effect in my life. (I read one of his other books in that time, too.) Some people are put off by the supposed marketing of his other materials in this book. However, having seen some videos and read other books, I believe he is saying that to be efficient. He does not repeat all that material in this book. You really would benefit from learning those other materials (such as the original Real Love book) to skillfully apply these principles.

I believe that the application of the principles he teaches here, though simple and in some ways easy (some ways not), provides a key to happiness and success in relationships and life. I am excited to learn and apply more as I go forward, and excited to share this with friends and family.

P.S. He has very insightful and practical guidelines for how to go about finding a partner, and/or whether to stay in your current relationship, and how to end that relationship if you do leave. Plus much more.

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Trying to sell his other books too much

There is a lot of good content in this book, but my only complaint is that he references his other book about 40 times and invites us to buy it instead of just talking about the content that’s in that book.

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If you are dating this is a must read!

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Definitely, this book gave me a good perspective! Everyone should know about real love.

What other book might you compare Real Love in Dating to and why?

For more broader view on this subject I recommend reading Mastery Of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz.

What does Greg Baer bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

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Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

Took me by surprise when talking about real love.

Any additional comments?

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  • EM
  • 04-26-16

Absolutely on the button, a MUST READ for 'daters'

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Yes yes and yes. I have bought and given out 6 copies, none have been returned unread. In fact, try as I might, no-one wants to give me any of the copies back :). It makes the perfect gift - no one I have bought it for has been in the least bit offended to receive it offended, it has been gladly received all round.

What did you like best about this story?

It explains why dating has been a minefield until now. AND how to do things For those starting out in dating, those who are going round the roundabout for more than the first time, and everyone in between who what to learn what it takes to find and be the partner you've always wanted.

Have you listened to any of Greg Baer’s other performances? How does this one compare?

Great. It is read a little faster than the other recordings I have listened to but that's great.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

Listened to in one sitting on a long drive then listen to over and again.All makes so much sense but it's also all so powerfully new in its approach. A godsend.

Any additional comments?

Do you now anyone who has ever moaned about terrible / soul destroying / disappointing dating? Here is Their answer. And that person may be you.My son and his girlfriend are reading this together - for the second time (and I'm keeping a casual eye out for a hat to buy ...)

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  • Samantha Evans
  • 04-13-16

Principles of Dating to find 'Real Love'

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

This audiobook is an ESSENTIAL guide if you want to find lasting happiness within an intimate relationship. The audiobook shares valuable insight about how to date effectively & what to ask your potential partner to confirm if they have the qualities required to love unconditionally.

What did you like best about this story?

Im not looking to date anytime soon but was drawn to listen to the book & now see why. I have just come out of a relationship of over two years. Both of us tried the best we could to salvage what we had & rectify what had clearly died. It took courage to leave (for reasons shared in the audio), but I now know it was time for us both to move on. We were both a distraction for the other, preventing us finding the Real Love we both need. This audiobook gave me clarity that leaving the relationship was the most loving action to take.