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Raising Them

Our Adventure in Gender Creative Parenting

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Raising Them

By: Kyl Myers, Joey Soloway - introduction
Narrated by: Kyl Myers
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"What did you have? A boy or a girl?" Kyl and Brent imagined it would be years before their child would identify with a gender. Until then...

As a first-time parent, Kyl Myers had one aspect dialed in from the start: not being beholden to the boy-girl binary, disparities, or stereotypes from the day a child is born. With no wish to eliminate gender but rather gender discrimination, Kyl and her husband, Brent, ventured off on a parenting path less traveled. Raising a confident, compassionate, and self-aware person was all that mattered.

In this illuminating memoir, Kyl delivers a liberating portrait of a family's choice to dismantle the long-accepted and often-harmful social construct of what it means to be assigned a gender from birth. As a sociologist, Kyl explores the science of gender and sex and the adulthood gender inequities that start in childhood. As a loving parent, Kyl shares the joy of watching an amazing child named Zoomer develop their own agency to grow happily and healthily toward their own gender identity and expression.

Candid and surprising, Raising Them is an inspiration to parents and to anyone open to understanding the limitless possibilities of being yourself.

©2020 Kyl Myers (P)2020 Brilliance Publishing, Inc., all rights reserved.
Biographies & Memoirs Gender Studies Parenting & Families Relationships Social Sciences
Refreshing Perspective • Valuable Parenting Guide • Practical Parenting Tools • Unlimited Opportunities

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What a gift this book is and such an amazing family leading the way in helping the world accept one another from birth! Eye opening on how important gender creative posting is to the future of our equal society! A must read!

THEY RAD! THEM AWESOME! THEIR AMAZING!

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Your journey serves as a wonderful guide to our family as my 3rd grandchild Quinn Oak, is now starting their life journey along with their parents in a similar, gender neutral fashion.

Your words are helpful to me and to them.

Thank you.

Thank you for sharing

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Thank you for everything. This book and experience creates a world of unlimited opportunities for all kids.

A must read for ALL parents

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I recommend this book to everyone, everywhere I go. And I mean E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G
Read it.

Eye Opening

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I knew some of the story, but not all. You will laugh and you will cry and you will find language to express your own binaries and find hope in all you’re doing to change the binaries and patriarchy we all live within. THANK YOU KYL AND FAMILY!

What an amazing listen

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