Out Late With David

De: David Cotton
  • Resumen

  • I'm a life coach who came out later in life as gay. Join me as I talk with others who’ve made this LGBTQ+ coming out journey later in their lives to become who they really are.
    Out Late With David: Coming Out Later in Life LGBTQ+
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  • Wayne Scott - Redefining Marriage: A Journey Through Non-Monogamy
    Mar 30 2025
    Summary

    In this conversation, Wayne Scott shares his journey through a mixed orientation marriage, detailing the challenges and transformations he and his wife faced. They navigated the complexities of identity, love, and commitment, ultimately redefining their relationship through non-monogamy. Wayne emphasizes the importance of communication, patience, and the willingness to adapt as individuals grow over time. His story serves as a testament to the possibility of creating a fulfilling partnership that honors both personal and shared desires.

    Keywords

    mixed orientation marriage, non-monogamy, relationships, LGBTQ+, marriage advice, communication, love story, personal growth, therapy, bisexuality, coming out, LGBTQ+

    Takeaways
    • Mixed orientation marriages can thrive without ending in divorce.
    • Communication is key in navigating relationship challenges.
    • Non-monogamy can be a viable option for some couples.
    • Patience is essential when exploring new relationship dynamics.
    • It's important to redefine what marriage means to you.
    • Love can persist through difficult transitions in a relationship.
    • Couples can create their own rules for their relationship.
    • Support from a therapist can facilitate difficult conversations.
    • Children can adapt to their parents' non-traditional relationships.
    • Personal growth is a continuous journey within a marriage.
    Sound Bites
    • "It doesn't always end in divorce."
    • "A new idea turned his marriage into a love story."
    • "Your marriage can be whatever you want it to be."
    • "It's okay to take a couple years to figure it out."
    • "It can be whatever you want it to be."
    • "They chose to break the rules and norms of society."
    Audio Chapters

    00:00 Navigating Mixed Orientation Marriages
    09:50 The Shift to Non-Monogamy
    20:01 Lessons Learned from Non-Traditional Relationships

    Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com

    YouTube Edition: https://youtu.be/wHFdiTkYoYk

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg

    Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton: https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com

    Contact me: mailto:david@davidcottoncoaching.com

    © 2025 David Cotton Coaching, LLC. All rights reserved. The "Out Late With David" podcast and its content are the property of David Cotton Coaching, LLC. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from David Cotton Coaching, LLC is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to "Out Late With David" and David Cotton Coaching, LLC with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.
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    32 m
  • Stefan Schneider - building the modern family
    Mar 6 2025
    In this episode of Out Late with David, Stefan Schneider shares his journey of coming out as gay, navigating relationships, and building a modern family. He reflects on the challenges of coming out in the early 90s, the impact of his sexuality on his marriage, and the emotional turmoil of divorce. Through self-discovery and therapy, Stefan learns to embrace his identity and finds happiness in his new life with his husband and blended family. The conversation highlights the importance of authenticity, communication, and the complexities of family dynamics in the LGBTQ+ community.

    Takeaways
    • Coming out is a complex process that varies for everyone.
    • The societal context during the early 90s made coming out challenging.
    • Authenticity in relationships can create both closeness and tension.
    • Divorce can be a painful but necessary step towards self-acceptance.
    • Rebuilding relationships with children requires patience and love.
    • Self-discovery often involves confronting difficult truths about oneself.
    • Having a clear vision of what you want in a partner can guide your choices.
    • The journey to happiness is not linear and requires effort.
    • Childhood experiences can shape one's understanding of identity.
    • Creating a supportive environment for children is crucial during transitions.
    Sound Bites
    • "I just wanted to fit in and be normal."
    • "The only way out is through sometimes."
    • "I always wanted to be a dad."
    • "I had to sacrifice something of myself."
    • "I felt like I had split up my family."
    • "We met on Christian Mingle."

    Chapters

    00:00 Navigating Identity and Relationships
    15:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery
    30:00 Building a Blended Family
    33:48 Reflections on Happiness and Authenticity

    Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com

    YouTube Edition: https://youtu.be/YGWJGVhw2s8

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg

    Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton: https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com

    Contact me: mailto:david@davidcottoncoaching.com

    © 2025 David Cotton Coaching, LLC. All rights reserved. The "Out Late With David" podcast and its content are the property of David Cotton Coaching, LLC. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from David Cotton Coaching, LLC is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to "Out Late With David" and David Cotton Coaching, LLC with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.
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    35 m
  • Mark Dembo - the weight of truth…a journey of self-discovery
    Jan 20 2025
    Summary

    Mark Dembo shares his journey of coming out at the age of 59, reflecting on the challenges and transformations he faced in his relationships, particularly with his wife and children. He discusses the emotional weight of living a life that felt inauthentic and the liberation he felt upon embracing his true self. Mark emphasizes the importance of support from family and community, and the complexities of navigating a mixed-orientation marriage. His story highlights the potential for love and acceptance even in the face of significant life changes. Mark emphasizes the significance of love and understanding in navigating the challenges of coming out later in life, offering insights and advice for others on similar journeys. Keywords coming out, LGBTQ, self-discovery, relationships, family dynamics, support groups, acceptance, personal growth, authenticity, mental health

    Takeaways
    • Coming out later in life can be a complex journey.
    • Self-acceptance often comes with emotional weight.
    • Support from family is crucial during the coming out process.
    • Navigating relationships requires patience and understanding.
    • Community support can provide a sense of belonging.
    • Publicly embracing one's identity can be liberating.
    • It's important to allow space for emotions in relationships.
    • Guilt is a common feeling for those coming out later in life.
    • Maintaining friendships post-separation is possible.
    • Every individual's journey is unique, but shared experiences can help.
    Sound Bites
    • "I was living somebody else's life."
    • "I consider myself so very lucky in who she is."
    • "I want to do whatever I can to help."
    • "You have nothing to feel guilty for."
    • "I recognize that I didn't choose this."
    • "I can't fight that; it's who I am."
    Audio Chapters

    00:00 Mark's Journey of Self-Discovery
    07:51 The Impact of Coming Out on Relationships
    15:45 Navigating Family Dynamics
    20:57 Finding Community and Support
    26:05 Publicly Embracing Authenticity


    Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com

    YouTube Edition: https://youtu.be/8RrNuddNU-c

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg

    Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton: https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com

    Contact me: mailto:david@davidcottoncoaching.com

    © 2025 David Cotton Coaching, LLC. All rights reserved. The "Out Late With David" podcast and its content are the property of David Cotton Coaching, LLC. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from David Cotton Coaching, LLC is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to "Out Late With David" and David Cotton Coaching, LLC with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.
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    35 m
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