Our Lady of Perpetual Hunger

A Memoir

By: Lisa Donovan

Narrated by: Lisa Donovan

Named a Favorite Book for Southerners in 2020 by Garden & Gun

"Donovan is such a vivid writer—smart, raunchy, vulnerable and funny— that if her vaunted caramel cakes and sugar pies are half as good as her prose, well, I'd be open to even giving that signature buttermilk whipped cream she tops her desserts with a try.”—Maureen Corrigan, NPR

Noted chef and James Beard Award-winning essayist Lisa Donovan helped establish some of the South's most important kitchens, and her pastry work is at the forefront of a resurgence in traditional desserts. Yet Donovan struggled to make a living in an industry where male chefs built successful careers on the stories, recipes, and culinary heritage passed down from generations of female cooks and cooks of color. At one of her career peaks, she made the perfect dessert at a celebration for food-world goddess Diana Kennedy. When Kennedy asked why she had not heard of her, Donovan said she did not know. "I do," Kennedy said, "Stop letting men tell your story."

OUR LADY OF PERPETUAL HUNGER is Donovan's searing, beautiful, and searching chronicle of reclaiming her own story and the narrative of the women who came before her. Her family's matriarchs found strength and passion through food, and they inspired Donovan's accomplished career. Donovan's love language is hospitality, and she wants to welcome everyone to the table of good food and fairness.

Donovan herself had been told at every juncture that she wasn't enough: she came from a struggling southern family that felt ashamed of its own mixed race heritage and whose elders diminished their women. She survived abuse and assault as a young mother. But Donovan's salvations were food, self-reliance, and the network of women in food who stood by her.

In the school of the late John Egerton, OUR LADY OF PERPETUAL HUNGER is an unforgettable Southern journey of class, gender, and race as told at table.

Deeply honest

A truly wonderful piece. Extremely well-written, honest, compelling and inspiring. A must read for anyone but especially those who care about food and the amazing folks who feed us.

Compelling and thought provoking

Really well told story, with well rounded highs and lows. You ache for her and cheer her on throughout. She tells a true and raw tale of the challenges women still face in the work world. I don’t know those of the kitchen, but they are the same dynamics in the corporate world. I can’t say that I felt for her emotions and sometimes too-sympathetic accommodations for some of the horrible men in her life, but I respect how she gathered her strength and pushed through to success. And the sisterhood, in the end, is healing, as we all find out too late in life.

My heart is overflowing

Her story, heart strength and prowess is undeniable. Listening to someone so perfectly articulate experiences that parallel my own in uncovering and finding our lineage/passion/hurt/family history left me weeping. A must read for all.

Great memoir not great narration

Loved the book and the content. The narration was not my favorite. It was read in a very monotone voice which made it a little hard to get into. But Lisa’s story of the heartache she’s been through and how she’s overcome it was beautiful to learn. Also her descriptions of living in poverty were very on point. I remember being a new mother myself and having many of the same experiences. I absolutely love the sentiment of “Stop letting men tell your stories.” It really made the book for me.

Take Up Thy Place Among Culinary Greats

I am absolutely telling everyone about this story. Already gifted it to my sister. What a genuinely touching memoir. This is a book that makes you want to write. Share your stories. Makes you feel less alone in this incredibly screwed up world. I am grateful to be alive in a time stories such as Lisa Donovan’s are being shared and passed along to a generation of cooks and chefs who truly are some of the most loving and genuine people on the planet. Thank you Chef Lisa, I am in awe of your story.