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Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

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Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW. Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.© 2025 Ruan Willow Pink Infinity Publishing LLC and Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Higiene y Vida Saludable
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  • Romance with Spice, Adventure, & Fireballs: The Stories We Deserve to Read with Author Melissa Lam

    Romance with Spice, Adventure, & Fireballs: The Stories We Deserve to Read with Author Melissa Lam
    Apr 3 2026
    Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, Season 6, Episode 731: Romance, Fireballs, and the Stories We Deserve to Read with Indie Author Mellissa Lam! Official Bio: Melissa Lam loves reading and writing romance books that take the reader on an emotional roller coaster full of mystery, suspense, and heartache. As an extroverted introvert who doesn't like to leave the house (because it requires wearing pants), Melissa enjoys playing strategic board games and taking long showers. When she does find the will to put pants on, she can be found traveling, enjoying bubble tea, or experiencing the world through food. TL;DR I like to eat and write about heartbreaking shit. Summary: Rarely does a guest arrive with both a fireball-throwing biker and a passionate defense of honest storytelling, but Melissa Lam brings exactly that energy to this conversation. Melissa's contemporary fantasy romance series, set in modern-day Los Angeles, centers on a powerful biker who can throw fireballs trying to understand a woman immune to all powers Her trilogy, including "Ordinary Secrets", "Captured Immune", and "Scrubbed Mind", grew out of a first draft that ballooned to 225,000 words before becoming three separate books. On writing: What does it actually mean to write romance that feels real and complete? Melissa argues that including explicit scenes reflects genuine relationships rather than being gratuitous, and she pushes back hard against the "clean versus dirty" labels that unfairly judge authors who write open-door content. Relationships in the real world often have sex, so should fiction. It's authentic! She also opens up about publishing four books within ten months, managing every aspect of indie publishing while navigating postpartum exhaustion, and why she rejects AI shortcuts in favor of real human editors, cover artists, and beta readers. Find Melissa at http://authormelissalam.com/ and on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/authormelissalam/ where she is most active. Topic timeline: From Reader to Romance Author The Versatility and Power of Profanity Understanding Romance Book Spice Levels Cutting Scenes and Managing Word Count Writing Dual POV with Male Perspective Focus Male Perspective Storytelling in Romance Books Reading Habits and Book Preferences Debate Books That Tear Your Heart Apart Motherhood and Writing: The Postpartum Challenge Balancing Social Media Pressure and Creative Writing Building a Loyal Fanbase Through Consistent Writing Why Human Editors Beat AI Tools Why Human Feedback Beats AI for Creative Work The Value of Human-Made Creative Work Authenticity in Writing vs AI-Generated Books Key Takeaways: • "Open door" spice levels aren't about purity—Melissa's first drafts contained five intimate scenes per book, but were edited down to one to meet publishing standards. • Melissa chooses a male perspective during action sequences as a deliberate narrative choice, rather than defaulting to female POV as many contemporary romance series do, creating a distinct storytelling approach in her supernatural biker romance. • A 225,000-word manuscript becoming a trilogy required cutting plot, not just romance scenes, revealing that contemporary fantasy romance often demands aggressive editing beyond just adjusting spice levels to meet market expectations. Melissa's Book Ordinary Secrets: (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/41a0LvB Ruan's Book Beach House Views: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/243902433-beach-house-views Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at ⁠⁠https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Support the show and get exclusive content⁠⁠ Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠⁠https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow⁠ Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ "I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow⁠⁠ Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 ⁠⁠https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow⁠
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  • Removing Shame and Roadblocks to Women's Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist Lucy Rowett

    Removing Shame and Roadblocks to Women's Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist Lucy Rowett
    Mar 31 2026

    Season 6, Episode 730: This is a replay of an episode that aired on 4/25/25, but being reposted to provide the video version for the podcast audience.

    Removing Shame and Roadblocks to Women's Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist Lucy Rowett.

    Guest Bio:

    Lucy Rowett, CSC, is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they've always desired. She is the host of the Naked and Unashamed Life podcast, and the resident sex coach at UK contraception platform, The Lowdown.

    She is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including iNews, Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, GQ, The Sun, Insider, and Glamour.

    In 2023, she was nominated for somatic sexologist of the year at the sexual freedom awards. She uses a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for women and vulva havers to explore their full erotic potential.

    Her speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable and intimate relationships again.

    Summary: Breaking Free from Sexual Shame: A Revolutionary Conversation

    Dive into a transformative discussion between Ruan Willow and sexologist Lucy Rowett as they tackle the often-silenced topic of women's sexual pleasure. This eye-opening episode challenges the deeply rooted shame surrounding female sexuality and offers a fresh perspective on embracing our natural desires.

    Lucy, a specialist in supporting women and non-binary individuals, shares powerful insights about:
    - The universal impact of sexual shame across all backgrounds
    - Dismantling harmful cultural narratives that suppress pleasure
    - The importance of comprehensive sexual education
    - Understanding female arousal and the physiology of pleasure
    - Creating safe spaces for sexual exploration and expression

    The conversation navigates through the evolution of female sexuality in modern culture, from the mainstreaming of erotic literature to the vital role of sex-positive communities in fostering acceptance and growth.

    Ready to transform your relationship with pleasure and embrace a shame-free approach to sexuality? This episode is your gateway to understanding and celebrating your sexual wellbeing. Tune in now for an empowering journey towards sexual liberation. Sexual health is mental health, and your sexual wellness matters!

    Links: Learn more: https://lucyrowett.com/

    Free guide to confident sexual communication: https://bit.ly/askforwhatyoureallywant

    Free meditation to connect to your vulva: https://bit.ly/handheartv
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucylurowett

    Podcast: The Naked and Unashamed Life

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0MdbEOJW9nXRqLsAMSTRAn?si=2ce2d298be93495c

    Get Ruan's new spicy dark romance book Beach House Views: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook

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    52 m
  • On the Cusp of the Third Sexual Revolution Plus Adult Sex Ed with Educator Sabrina Baldini

    On the Cusp of the Third Sexual Revolution Plus Adult Sex Ed with Educator Sabrina Baldini
    Mar 28 2026

    Video version. The Audio version originally aired on August 1st of 2025. Season 6, Episode 729.

    The Third Sexual Revolution, & Sex Ed for Adults with Sabrina Baldini.

    Did you know we might be on the cusp of a third sexual revolution? Sex educator Sabrina Baldini shares fascinating insights from her journey transitioning from teaching sex education to kids to launching After Sex Ed, a company focused on adult sexual wellness.

    Through candid discussion, Sabrina explores:
    - The challenges of promoting sex positivity in today's censorship climate
    - How inadequate early sex education impacts adult relationships
    - The pandemic's role in catalyzing sexual awakening, self discovery, personal growth, and exploration
    - The growing demand for authentic, relatable content in adult spaces
    - Historical parallels with previous sexual revolutions (1920s and 1960s)

    Despite social media bans and societal stigma, Sabrina remains committed to fostering open conversations about sexuality, consent, and pleasure. Her work bridges the gap between traditional sex education and the real-world challenges adults face in their intimate lives.

    Ready to challenge your perspectives on sexual wellness and education? Tune in to this thought-provoking episode that's reshaping how we think and talk about sexuality.

    Estimated Timeline:

    00:00:00 - Sex Education for Adults
    00:01:43 - Challenges of Discussing Sex Education
    00:04:20 - Challenges of Sex Positivity
    00:08:04 - Talking to Kids About Consent
    00:10:00 - Understanding Healthy Sexual Feelings
    00:16:16 - The Rise of the Third Sexual Revolution
    00:22:30 - Impact of Taboo on Sexual Behavior
    00:23:41 - Trends in Authenticity and Romance
    00:26:23 - Exploring Age and Sexuality
    00:30:29 - Impact of Technology on Sexuality
    00:34:18 - Trends in Modern Relationships
    00:37:19 - Online Safety and Dating Apps
    00:38:40 - Concerns About AI in Art
    00:48:54 - Addressing Sexuality and Porn Education
    00:54:47 - Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality
    00:59:46 - Understanding Fantasy and Sexuality
    01:01:51 - Understanding Emotional Connections in Sex

    Key Takeaways:

    • Adult sexual education is often overlooked, despite the urgent need for discussions on pleasure and consent.
    • The pandemic highlighted and intensified the challenges of censorship in sexual education, affecting adult learners.
    • There is a growing movement, referred to as a third sexual revolution, that emphasizes open dialogue and authenticity in exploring sexuality.

    Sabrina Baldini | Sex Educator, TEDx Speaker & Founder of After Sex Ed

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    1 h y 6 m
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