Nope Not Today

A Boundary Reset for the New Year and Beyond

De: Millie Kiama

Narrado por: Virtual Voice

The beginning of a new year often carries a quiet pressure. Pressure to do more. Be better. Try harder. But for many people, especially those who have spent years putting others first, the real work of the new year is not adding more—it is removing what drains you.

"Nope, not today" is a boundary. It is a pause. It is the moment you decide that your time, energy, and emotional health matter just as much as anyone else’s expectations.

People pleasing is rarely a conscious choice. It develops slowly, often as a survival strategy. You learn that being agreeable keeps the peace. That being helpful earns approval. That saying no leads to tension, disappointment, or distance. Over time, you stop checking in with yourself altogether.

This book is designed to gently but firmly guide you out of that pattern. Not by changing who you are, but by strengthening how you relate to others—and to yourself.

You will learn how to set boundaries without guilt, communicate clearly without apology, and prioritize yourself without fear. The tone of this book is intentional: empowering, therapeutic, and practical. You will not find shame here. Only clarity, tools, and encouragement.