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Who else wants the man of her dreams to get down on his knees and beg to be hers?

You want to show him that you're everything he's been looking for. You know you're worth his attention and you know he should be begging you to notice him. You want your man - and I'm here to show you exactly how to get him.

Hi, I'm Eric. I'm a relationship expert, it's what I do for a living. I've spent my career analyzing relationships to work out what makes people tick. I've helped countless couples find love together and now I'm here to help you.

Catching the man of your dreams isn't impossible - you just need to tune in to what he's thinking.

Plus, I'm a man. When I tell you that I know what's going on in his head, you can trust that I do. I know what he's thinking because I think it too. The only difference between him and me is that I have the training and insight to know exactly why I'm thinking it. And I want you to understand why he's thinking it too.

Give me one day and I'll show you exactly why he's not desperate to be your boyfriend already.

Give me three and I'll tell you all you need to know to turn things around. With just the first step that we'll take together, you'll know what's stopping him from making a commitment to you. By the time you hit step three, you'll be armed and ready to show him what he's missing - so much so that he'll be scrabbling at your feet, begging you to let him into your life.

This is about more than putting your goods on show. It's about letting him know you're the perfect girlfriend he's been looking for.

Sound confusing? Most guys don't realize that they're being driven by two separate instincts - and most women aren't aware of it either. It's a myth that you need to show him how sexy you are or how good in bed you're going to be. The truth is that you need to show him you can fill the needs he doesn't even realize he has....

©2017 Eric Monroe (P)2017 Eric Monroe

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This book is Not good for women!

This book is nothing more than a modern version of "The Good Wife's Guide". Be honest, but don't talk too much or be too emotional, don't be pushy, leave some mystery.... in chapter 3 HE talks about how to be womanly!!! We should be feminine and loyal, have good eye contact with others but never come across as flirty (what if we have a flirty personality)?.... Is there anything else we can do for you Eric?

I prefer books that empower both genders and give them confidence; books that tell people "How" to find the right one, not how to change so people "think" you're the right one. I personally don't want a guy to pretend to be something he isn't naturally and then wake up one day when the honeymoon is over and realize he's been lying because he read the male version of Eric's book. This is why there are so many divorces.

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Nothing new

Honestly a waste of $16 and a credit
You can find the same on YouTube

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I'm a bit disappointed..

The author states from the beginning that he cannot stand it when coaches tell women to "play hard to get." Yet, when he explains his methods for getting a man to fall for you he recommends that we be "less available" "busy" "see other people." All of these recommendations sound like games to me... and ultimately playing hard to get.

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contradictorio

At first he says to be aloof and so, later he suggests I should buy a meaninful gift like a guitar for instance, I would not spend money in an average joe who can not afford his own guitar, how would he be able to support a woman and children if they come? the rest of the book has good tips and tricks couple that I have not seen in other books, so for 5usd I got 2 or 3 new tips. not bad.

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Short and too the point

I enjoyed this audible. I liked the content. And I really liked the voice of the guy speaking. It really makes a difference.

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Confusing and Contradictory, But Marginally Helpful

This book has some solid advice for singles, but it’s not the best book. Certainly, it should not be the first dating book you try. It’s acceptable, at best.

This book purports to help you secure a relationship when you don’t yet have one, but intermingles advice on prolonging established relationships. Certainly, you can’t cheat if you’re not in a relationship. It makes no sense to completely enmesh your lives, buy expensive gifts (such as guitars) to support interests, and daydream building homes together if you’re not even dating. Sure, the author advises acting aloof or playing coy, and he cautions against fawning over love interests, but the ordering and wording makes it seem you should be playing the perfect girlfriend before your guy demonstrates basic respect. Respect comes before a relationship, that much is clear in this book.

This is not the only contradiction; the author warns against playing games, and then advises different power plays. These include: mooning over other men, talking about others you date, posting strategic selfies and date pics on social media, purposely rejecting invitations, and so on. These work— don’t get me wrong. But let’s call it what it is. It’s the hard-to-get game, and we all love to play.

Again, this book offers some solid advice. The problem is, it gets lost underneath the lists on perfect girlfriend traits and on ways to please a man (both given without proper elaboration on how to accomplish these while maintaining dignity and respect). I actually like Eric Monroe’s other works. This one was a let-down, but I would recommend his other titles.

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A waste of an hour and 13 minutes

The most basic of tips, rife contradictions. Early in the book the reader is urged to avoid manipulative behavior and/or playing hard to get. Soon after, an entire section is dedicated to instructing the reader to interrupt a progressing relationship to place sudden distance between herself and the object of her desire and act less interested and more independent. The purpose is to make him notice her behavior change, be bothered by it, and become more interested in her. These are literally instructions on how to play hard to get. 🙄 I am not saying this is bad advice, but I think the author forgot to read the beginning of his own book. There were some fun sections, but overall this was not clearly thought out and the book is not an insightful read.

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Extremely sexist and misogynistic

This book is full of backwards thinking ideas. I imagine the person who wrote this feels like a woman’s place is in the kitchen in the bedroom. I cringed so hard reading this book and could not finish it. Ladies, take your power back. This book
ain’t it.

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loved it

I truly loved and enjoyed listening to this book.The
narrator was awesome.It is worth reading the book

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Great Book

This makes sense and is very helpful! I enjoyed listening to all the different advice.

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  • denise smith
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fab

gonna work n this and hopefully I will do exactly what it says in book and I'll get the man