Your audiobook is waiting…
Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself
People who bought this also bought...
-
Addict in the House
- A No-Nonsense Family Guide Through Addiction and Recovery
- By: Robin Barnett EdD LCSW, Darren Kavinoky - foreword
- Narrated by: Denice Stradling
- Length: 6 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 11
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 10
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 10
If you’re the family member of an addict, you may feel confused, guilty, and scared of doing the wrong thing. And when you don’t know how to help, you may find yourself in a codependent role. Addict in the House offers a pragmatic, step-by-step guide to dealing with a loved one’s addiction, from accepting the reality of the disease to surviving what may be repeated cycles of recovery and relapse. You’ll learn how to encourage your addicted loved one to get help without forcing it and finally find the strength to let go of codependence.
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
was okay.
- By Michelle on 05-02-19
-
Addict in the Family
- Stories of Loss, Hope, and Recovery
- By: Beverly Conyers
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 4 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 58
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 49
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 47
As the heart-wrenching personal stories in this book reveal, family members do not cause their loved one's addiction. Nor can they control or cure addiction. What family members can do is find support, set boundaries, detach with love, and eventually discover how to enjoy life whether their loved one finds recovery or not. Addict in the Family is a book about sorrow, deception, and pain. More importantly, it is a book of comfort, hope, and understanding for anyone struggling with a loved one's addiction.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Addict in the Family
- By Ginger F. French on 11-08-17
-
How Al-Anon Works for Families and Friends of Alcoholics
- By: Al-Anon Family Groups
- Narrated by: Anonymous members of Al-Anon Family Groups
- Length: 16 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 210
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 189
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 184
Al-Anon's basic book discusses the mutual-help program of recovery, including personal stories. A beginning approach to the Twelve Concepts of Service is included.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Worth it, even though it needs pro recording!
- By SweetDreamsCRTT on 06-26-15
-
Beyond Addiction
- How Science and Kindness Help People Change
- By: Jeffrey Foote PhD, Carrie Wilkens PhD, Nicole Kosanke PhD, and others
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 12 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 105
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 92
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 89
Drawing on forty collective years of research and decades of clinical experience, the authors present the best practical advice science has to offer. Delivered with warmth, optimism, and humor, Beyond Addiction defines a new, empowered role for friends and family and a paradigm shift for the field.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
No PDF with supplemental
- By Citibnker on 01-23-18
-
Don't Let Your Kids Kill You
- A Guide for Parents of Drug and Alcohol Addicted Children
- By: Charles Rubin
- Narrated by: Tom Zingarelli
- Length: 4 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 92
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 78
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 76
Don't Let Your Kids Kill You is a landmark work that dares to focus on the plight of the confused, distressed parent and not the erring child. It sets aside any preconceived ideas that parents are to blame for what is essentially a full-blown global crisis. Drawing on interviews with parents who have survived the heartbreak of kids on drugs, combined with his own experience, Charles Rubin provides practical advice on how parents can help themselves and their families by first attending to their own needs.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Must read if kids are in deep.
- By nkay on 04-04-18
-
You're Not Crazy - You're Codependent
- What Everyone Affected by Addiction, Abuse, Trauma or Toxic Shaming Must Know to Have Peace in Their Lives
- By: Jeanette Elisabeth Menter
- Narrated by: Pam Ward
- Length: 5 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 54
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 47
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 46
If your life has been affected by addiction (yours or someone else's), abuse, trauma or toxic shaming, you may also be struggling with another invisible problem - codependency. Without your even being aware of the connection to the above issues, it has created additional life-long challenges such as endless guilt, anxiety, perfectionism, need to control, depression, a history of dysfunctional relationships and much more. This easy-to-understand, interactive book will reveal how codependency has sobotaged you, the lies it created in your beliefs and the truths that expose them.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
religious based
- By Alex on 02-07-19
-
Addict in the House
- A No-Nonsense Family Guide Through Addiction and Recovery
- By: Robin Barnett EdD LCSW, Darren Kavinoky - foreword
- Narrated by: Denice Stradling
- Length: 6 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 11
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 10
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 10
If you’re the family member of an addict, you may feel confused, guilty, and scared of doing the wrong thing. And when you don’t know how to help, you may find yourself in a codependent role. Addict in the House offers a pragmatic, step-by-step guide to dealing with a loved one’s addiction, from accepting the reality of the disease to surviving what may be repeated cycles of recovery and relapse. You’ll learn how to encourage your addicted loved one to get help without forcing it and finally find the strength to let go of codependence.
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
was okay.
- By Michelle on 05-02-19
-
Addict in the Family
- Stories of Loss, Hope, and Recovery
- By: Beverly Conyers
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 4 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 58
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 49
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 47
As the heart-wrenching personal stories in this book reveal, family members do not cause their loved one's addiction. Nor can they control or cure addiction. What family members can do is find support, set boundaries, detach with love, and eventually discover how to enjoy life whether their loved one finds recovery or not. Addict in the Family is a book about sorrow, deception, and pain. More importantly, it is a book of comfort, hope, and understanding for anyone struggling with a loved one's addiction.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Addict in the Family
- By Ginger F. French on 11-08-17
-
How Al-Anon Works for Families and Friends of Alcoholics
- By: Al-Anon Family Groups
- Narrated by: Anonymous members of Al-Anon Family Groups
- Length: 16 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 210
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 189
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 184
Al-Anon's basic book discusses the mutual-help program of recovery, including personal stories. A beginning approach to the Twelve Concepts of Service is included.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Worth it, even though it needs pro recording!
- By SweetDreamsCRTT on 06-26-15
-
Beyond Addiction
- How Science and Kindness Help People Change
- By: Jeffrey Foote PhD, Carrie Wilkens PhD, Nicole Kosanke PhD, and others
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 12 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 105
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 92
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 89
Drawing on forty collective years of research and decades of clinical experience, the authors present the best practical advice science has to offer. Delivered with warmth, optimism, and humor, Beyond Addiction defines a new, empowered role for friends and family and a paradigm shift for the field.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
No PDF with supplemental
- By Citibnker on 01-23-18
-
Don't Let Your Kids Kill You
- A Guide for Parents of Drug and Alcohol Addicted Children
- By: Charles Rubin
- Narrated by: Tom Zingarelli
- Length: 4 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 92
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 78
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 76
Don't Let Your Kids Kill You is a landmark work that dares to focus on the plight of the confused, distressed parent and not the erring child. It sets aside any preconceived ideas that parents are to blame for what is essentially a full-blown global crisis. Drawing on interviews with parents who have survived the heartbreak of kids on drugs, combined with his own experience, Charles Rubin provides practical advice on how parents can help themselves and their families by first attending to their own needs.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Must read if kids are in deep.
- By nkay on 04-04-18
-
You're Not Crazy - You're Codependent
- What Everyone Affected by Addiction, Abuse, Trauma or Toxic Shaming Must Know to Have Peace in Their Lives
- By: Jeanette Elisabeth Menter
- Narrated by: Pam Ward
- Length: 5 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 54
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 47
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 46
If your life has been affected by addiction (yours or someone else's), abuse, trauma or toxic shaming, you may also be struggling with another invisible problem - codependency. Without your even being aware of the connection to the above issues, it has created additional life-long challenges such as endless guilt, anxiety, perfectionism, need to control, depression, a history of dysfunctional relationships and much more. This easy-to-understand, interactive book will reveal how codependency has sobotaged you, the lies it created in your beliefs and the truths that expose them.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
religious based
- By Alex on 02-07-19
-
Courage to Change: One Day at a Time in Al-Anon II
- By: Al-Anon Family Group
- Narrated by: uncredited
- Length: 9 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 95
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 81
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 82
More daily inspiration from a fresh, diverse perspective. Insightful reflections reveal surprisingly simple things that can transform lives.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Helped me tremendously!
- By Dennis Hughes on 05-12-16
-
Everything Changes
- Help for Families of Newly Recovering Addicts
- By: Beverly Conyers
- Narrated by: Karen White
- Length: 5 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 30
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 26
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 25
Everything Changes assuages fears and uncertainty by teaching loved ones of newly recovering addicts how to navigate the often-tumultuous early months of recovery. Beverly Conyers, author of the acclaimed Addict in the Family, again shares the hope and knowledge that she gained as a parent of a recovering addict by focusing on the aftermath of addiction. She outlines the physical and psychological changes that recovering addicts go through and offers practical tools to help family members and friends.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
excellent
- By lachelle on 09-19-18
-
Whole Again
- Healing Your Heart and Rediscovering Your True Self After Toxic Relationships and Emotional Abuse
- By: Jackson MacKenzie, Shannon Thomas - foreword
- Narrated by: Kaleo Griffith, Erin Spencer
- Length: 8 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 385
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 325
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 322
Jackson MacKenzie has helped millions of people in their struggle to understand the experience of toxic relationships. His first book, Psychopath Free, explained how to identify and survive the immediate situation. In this highly anticipated new audiobook, he guides listeners on what to do next - how to fully heal from abuse in order to find love and acceptance for the self and others. MacKenzie shares insights and tools for working through the protective self we've developed so that we can finally move on to live a full and authentic life.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Incredible!
- By tabbyscat on 02-07-19
-
Unbroken Brain
- A Revolutionary New Way of Understanding Addiction
- By: Maia Szalavitz
- Narrated by: Marisa Vitali
- Length: 12 hrs and 35 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 567
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 516
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 517
Challenging both the idea of the addict's "broken brain" and the notion of a simple "addictive personality", Unbroken Brain offers a radical and groundbreaking new perspective, arguing that addiction is a learning disorder, and shows how seeing the condition this way can untangle our current debates over treatment, prevention, and policy.
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
Hmmmm
- By Levi S. on 03-16-17
-
Out of the Fog
- Moving from Confusion to Clarity After Narcissistic Abuse
- By: Dana Morningstar
- Narrated by: Dana Morningstar
- Length: 8 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 107
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 94
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 94
The FOG is an acronym that stands for "Fear, Obligation, and Guilt". These three emotions are often how narcissists, sociopaths, and other types of emotional manipulators go about controlling others.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Life-changing! The BEST book on narcissistic abuse
- By Sebastian Korwal on 04-24-19
-
Let Go Now: Embracing Detachment
- By: Karen Casey
- Narrated by: Kristin Allison
- Length: 6 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 337
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 289
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 285
So many of us spend so much time enmeshed in other people's problems, trying to solve or change them, that we don't really know where we end and they begin. Not reacting to people or situations that provoke us is not an easy skill to develop. It takes practice and conviction that not reacting, not increasing the drama, doesn't mean we don't care. On the contrary, we are freed to show genuine love and care only when we can detach from the knee-jerk need to fix, solve, rescue, or control.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Live your own life first!
- By evoefficient1 on 06-15-14
-
If You Love Me
- A Mother's Journey Through Her Daughter's Opioid Addiction
- By: Maureen Cavanagh
- Narrated by: Maureen Cavanagh
- Length: 5 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 106
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 93
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 94
When Maureen and her ex-husband Mike see their daughter Katie’s needle track marks for the first time, it is a complete shock. But, slowly, the drug use explains everything - Katie’s constant exhaustion, erratic moods, and all those spoons that have gone missing from the house. Once Mike and Maureen get Katie into detox, Maureen goes to sleep that night hoping that in 48 hours she’ll have her daughter back. It’s not that simple. Like the millions of parents and relatives all over the country, Maureen learns that recovery is neither straightforward nor brief.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Finally, an addiction book by Mom that tells full
- By Anonymous User on 12-20-18
-
Codependency Breaking the Patterns: A Recovery Guide for a Codependent Personality. Cure Your Soul and Heal from Being in an Abusive Relationship with Narcissists & Sociopaths. Be Codependent No More
- By: Zara Torrens
- Narrated by: Sarah Pavelec
- Length: 3 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 56
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 53
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 52
Do you finally want to say goodbye to not having mutually satisfying relationships and discover something which works for you? If so, then you’ve come to the right place. You see, having a healthy relationship doesn’t have to be difficult. Even if you have researched every method on changing your behaviors, or don’t fully understand what exactly you should be doing, it takes action in order to be able to effectively unlearn these traits. it’s easier than you think.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Finally a good guide
- By Kay J on 01-21-19
-
Codependent No More
- How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
- By: Melody Beattie
- Narrated by: Christina Moore
- Length: 8 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 4,073
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 3,243
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 3,207
A source of healing and inspiration for millions, this modern classic spent over three years on the New York Times best seller list and made codependency a household word. Codependent No More contains dozens of real-life examples, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests to help you along the road to recovering your own life. For anyone struggling with a relationship involving alchoholism or other compulsive behaviors, this program points the way to healing and the renewal of hope.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Excellent book
- By JennStokes on 01-27-17
-
Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children
- Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents
- By: Allison Bottke
- Narrated by: Margaret Strom
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 122
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 104
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 102
A tough-love guide to coping with dysfunctional adult children, Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children will empower families by offering hope and healing through S.A.N.I.T.Y. - a six-step program to help parents regain control in their homes and in their lives.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Absolutely Liberating!
- By Amazon Customer on 06-10-16
-
Rewired
- A Bold New Approach to Addiction and Recovery
- By: Erica Spiegelman
- Narrated by: Susanna Burney
- Length: 4 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 102
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 81
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 82
A revolutionary new approach to addiction recovery from an addiction expert. Rewired is a new breakthrough approach to fighting addiction and self-damaging behavior by acknowledging our personal power to bring ourselves back from the brink. Centered on the concept of self-actualization, Rewired will guide you toward not only physical sobriety but a mental, emotional, and spiritual sobriety by learning to identify key principles within yourself.
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
Meh...okay for newbies to therapy
- By Gina on 01-18-18
-
Beyond Codependency
- And Getting Better All the Time
- By: Melody Beattie
- Narrated by: Christina Moore
- Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 260
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 224
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 218
Alcoholism, drug abuse, and similar destructive practices can render families dysfunctional. When the children of these families become adults, they sometimes develop self-defeating survival tactics, such as low self-esteem or an obsession with controlling another person's behavior. To help those stuck in codependent cycles identify and eliminate such troubling issues from their relationships, Beattie shares wisdom gained from years of experience.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Thank you Melody, again.
- By Megan Rutter on 11-17-17
Publisher's Summary
Are you feeling exasperated and helpless about your family member's addiction? Are you at your wit's end, having tried everything you can think of to make them stop? Whether the addict in your life is your spouse, partner, parent, child, friend, or colleague, the key to changing this reality for yourself lies in shifting your focus from your loved one's addiction to your own self-care.
This book presents a dramatically fresh approach to help you get off the roller-coaster chaos of addiction, maintain your own sanity and serenity, and live your best life.
What members say
Average Customer Ratings
Overall
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
5 Stars18
-
4 Stars1
-
3 Stars0
-
2 Stars0
-
1 Stars0
Performance
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
5 Stars16
-
4 Stars1
-
3 Stars0
-
2 Stars0
-
1 Stars0
Story
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
5 Stars14
-
4 Stars0
-
3 Stars2
-
2 Stars0
-
1 Stars0
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Tracy Bentley
- 03-08-19
Helpful
Very helpful book and good advice if you're ready to take it. A lot of things I already knew but hearing it sometimes helps it sink in more.
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story3 out of 5 stars
- ALEJANDRO FUENTES C
- 11-17-18
A must!
Un oasis para todo aquel que tiene un adicto cerca. Claro, puntual y lleno de verdad. Al buen entendedor pocas palabras!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Anonymous User
- 08-15-18
The best advice
This book gave me the best advice and tools. It has really opened my eyes to my relationship with my partner. I feel hopeful again after many years.